A serious question for the Men here and the boys too..

[bareento]

I think the guy is effeminate
maybe he doesnt perform well in bed for a woman never dare to do this to a man who tame her in the bed.

I know a place where this is common though
Dirre Dhawa women r crazy!
they take off their dacas slap u in the face with it
They r over rated iyyaalassuuqs!
But nthg more gratifying than taming one....seeing signs of submission in their eyes makes u feel like king

B.

[gurey25]

men who beat women are weak pussies that act out on thier women..

simple as that..

[bareento]

R nt women created so that the even weakest of men get sthg to beat

B.

[gurey25]

i enjoy a bit of violence here and there,
but i fail to see that fun in atacking someone weaker than you.

for example i would take on a woman in a boxing ring, or sparr with her, if shes got some fighting skills...
now that would be fun becuase there is always the danger of bieng beaten by someone weaker than you..

[Somaliweyn]

Nabeela,

I think feminists would be pissed of by your topic, what happened to men and women are equal and should be treated the same?


On a serious note, violence is bad whoever its directed at. Self-restraint and peacefull resolution of conflict is the way..otherwise your marriage will end up like our country, 20+ years of bloody conflict

[HalfDzed]

The psychological damage domestic violence does to children alone surpass trivial things like a bruised ego or establishing dominance in a home. So, married couples should do it for their children if not for themselves. Seeing their mother bruised, battered and bleeding make children feel weak and insecure. It creates in them fears, contempt, and leaves them with many developmental issues. A wife should know better than to hit her husband and vice versa. If it reaches that stage, part ways, what else is left in such a marriage?

[Beenaale_No1]

Self-restraint is an important attribute to have as a man.

If you beat her up, you will hurt her, and also you will known as a sad wife beater by your community.

[Siciid85]

No i would never hurt a woman ,i hate men who do that , naagtu xita haday ka dhiibto wala suba salaxa lama diilo.

Too much Soup operas sxb. In reality things work quite diferently at least in Somali terms. They will take their shoe off and beat the living shittt out of ya. Now what would you do. I would let her beat me up for a minute til I get irritated than probably I would push her aside and leave the scene. But yes you're right never hit women. That is not ok in any situation.

[zingii]

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Sharciga AMERICA ha loo fiirsho.

[FAH1223]

Nah, beating up on someone weaker than you is being insecure. Domestic violence is also very shameful.

[TATI]

If you beat her up, you will hurt her

isn't that the point

[Siciid85]

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Sharciga AMERICA ha loo fiirsho.

Only arkansas, not all of America so..

[Beenaale_No1]

If you beat her up, you will hurt her

isn't that the point

Yes. And beest to avoid that.

[surrender]

Recently I was at close qarabo's house, when a sudden fight broke out between the husband and the wife. It started with harmless yelling but it slowly turned into physical, the wife started beating the shit out of the husband and chase him around the house with a dacas lol (it was a funny scene) The husband simply walked away when he realized xaalata inaay xun tahay, even though she was hitting him, he never laid a hand on her, gacan baa u tagay.

I bet you he would have beaten the shit outta of her if you weren't there.

thats what i thought too.



i have never seen Somali domestic violence, i dont think there is such a thing. DV is not an issue in our community i think. Alhamdulilaah. but i have seen two white couples fighting lol and boi, men do more damage than women, because they are physicall strong. but at the same time xaq waa xaq, any girl who hits a man, deserves what ever she gets in return. if she stupid enough to hit a man, she should be smart enough to defend herself.

[The_Patriot]

^^^
Exactly especialy if the lady is doing this infront of marti what point is she trying to proove?
Lagaraye when they are only alone but seems like she has no xishood.