I've never dated anything other than my hand so I can't really give you field advice but I'll say what common sense dictates; you probably should never, in any case, ever give flowers to a girl on the first date. A handshake should do. If the girl is Somali or Black then she's going to be the one doing all the talking so all you have to do is wait it out until the date is over, give it an hour and she'll text you. Game over.
jack of all trades lol! admitting dating ONLY fardoza and giving advice on dating other humans
I'd say make an excuse this time and meet her some other time casually without your friend's involvement. Trust me, she will be more interested in u if you call off the first date. Take my word ( underscore )
No, can't do that. She's in town for a summit, got here on Thursday, leaving next week. My friend is her cousin and has been talking about her for weeks, long before she came here. Funny thing is her dad is my childhood pediatrician in Somalia. But, I don't know her, have no idea what she looks like, haven't spoken to her yet either. All I know of her is her name and what she does for a living. For the first time in my adult life, I've no clue about what I'm getting myself in to. It ought to be an interesting experience.
Lol@Basra.
Thanks everyone!
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. He is given you the best advice by far
My only addition to that is, switch off the phone on the said date and time. let her go back to whatever hole she crawled from, (doesn't matter wether she will be there for a week or she never comes back) wait for a week or two and call her out of the blue. arrange to go see her on another date, call the shots from there
believe me there is 80% chances of you getting what you are after (xalal/ xaram) than waiting for her on date table with a flower in hand
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