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People who say something to you, then you find out have been saying all sorts of things behind your back? And people who preach one thing, then you learn they have been doing the complete opposite the whole time?

What is the best way to deal with them? Should they be ignored or called out on their hypocrisy?

Discuss.

Be sneaky and put peanut butter on their bottom before they leave the house

Don't associate with them

Half,


There is NO such thing as real people. I believe we all have fakeness in ourselves, we just have to be honest about it. Also, talking behind peoples back is natural, thats very human. I dont trust people who dont talk behind peoples back, it tells me they are abnormal.

Half, u r a sweet---gental, emotionally stunted soul, dont be hard on them--just accept them for who they are.

I know what you mean. Yeah, I think the best way is do not associate with them and act unreachable. If you try to confront with them
they would brought you to their level because othing stops them to spread remors etc while you fear Allah not to say things about them or you have dignity.

Dadkaas camal they are lacking self-confidence or do not have what you have or they are jeulous of something.

Walaashiis

oh come on... they are just humans. Some people have a propensity to talk behind peoples back just to express their observations. They have to have an outlet ma ha? Give them a break.

Be sneaky and put peanut butter on their bottom before they leave the house

Basra

I would be lost without your advices.


Walaashiis & Shirib

Yh, I agree with you both about not associating with them. I noticed women in general have a tendency to fake it and then talk shit behind one's back. What do they get out of it? Are they scared of the person? Or are they just that twisted?

loool dude i knw exactly what your talking about , people you lie to you and expect you to belive it , preach something and do the opposite , talk about what other ppl are doing all the time and say how they are losers and then you find them doing the exact same thing, like were you not just saying ppl who do that are losers?? hahahha these ppl are just a whole joke wallahi their jealous , insecure and have the need to feel better by putting others down acudubilaah best thing to do is not associate with them ignore them and dnt belive anything they say coz most of it will be fabricated ....!!

i knw ppl like this and this is the best treatment for them

Half

loool did your blind date diss about u???? Or is it your galfriends? Half i told u before---as a tom boy--your only bet for hapiness is hang out with str8 men. stay away from women, in the women world the one with the thickest skin survives.

Naah, its not my blind date. Its some other people I thought highly of, only to find out they were like everyone else. In a way, I'm relieved because it just goes to re-affirm what I've always believed about humanity. Its actually quite funny if I think about it and ever so juvenile.

People who say something to you, then you find out have been saying all sorts of things behind your back? And people who preach one thing, then you learn they have been doing the complete opposite the whole time?

What is the best way to deal with them? Should they be ignored or called out on their hypocrisy?

Discuss.

dude at times I bit them on their game

Half


I am glad u have had an epiphany on Humanity. Its good, for your kind to know more of Humanity. Your sweetness of heart and slowness in figuring out humanity does need drastic changes. However, i do hope u forgive them--maybe they are overwhelmed by your goodness and sweetness? They have to vent. They have to say behind your back that you are needy, weird, even some what physically deformed but very intelligent and geeky. Let them vent walaal.

Half


I am glad u have had an epiphany on Humanity. Its good, for your kind to know more of Humanity. Your sweetness of heart and slowness in figuring out humanity does need drastic changes. However, i do hope u forgive them--maybe they are overwhelmed by your goodness and sweetness? They have to vent. They have to say behind your back that you are needy, weird, even some what physically deformed but very intelligent and geeky. Let them vent walaal.

That's not even the issue, its more of not understanding what would prompt them to be that twisted?

I figured they are cowards who can't say it to my face. Never liked fake people.

Half


I am glad u have had an epiphany on Humanity. Its good, for your kind to know more of Humanity. Your sweetness of heart and slowness in figuring out humanity does need drastic changes. However, i do hope u forgive them--maybe they are overwhelmed by your goodness and sweetness? They have to vent. They have to say behind your back that you are needy, weird, even some what physically deformed but very intelligent and geeky. Let them vent walaal.

That's not even the issue, its more of not understanding what would prompt them to be that twisted?

I figured they are cowards who can't say it to my face. Never liked fake people.

So now, are you going to follow Basra's advice or Shirib and I's?

Keep them or throw them?