Ma noocyo kala duwan baa tihiin

[Walaashiis]

Are there different kind of men?

Shidow says 'I am in love ....she calls me when I am sick....sick cheers me up when I am sad... she is my life'

It seems he is in love with her personality ( hope so).

But I come across women who have done more than that including wonderful meals now and then yet was ditched becuase quraxdeeda ma laga helin


I mean some men fall in love for a kind, good natured woman while others has to be the look ( physical attraction)

and my last question do you forget those you hurt when you are honeymooning somewhere in the Savannah?

[RuralMan08]

I, too was once in young and in love. When I was 16 years old is when I was struck down by a thing known as love. Its been many years and I still hear her voice in my head, her favourite colour, her favourite food, her favourite TV programme, her favourite Sheikh.

I will forever cherish these memories until my death.

I cannot answer your last question as I have not done anything to hurt a woman and would never do so! So yes there are different kinds of men, there are those who claim to love whe they dont, there are shy ones, there are just and fair ones, there are kind ones, there are bitter ones.

Choose your pick!

[The_Patriot]

Walaashis differentiate between lust and love.

Lust is the characteristic of wanting to bed as many women as your eyes lay upon.

Love in the other hand is something developed and earned by the partner.

Walaashis as much as you want to vilify men there is also a large proportion of us men that would vilify women so lets not play blame game.

As a man I dont beleive in Love but commitment.

[Advo]

If someone doesn't want you then they don't want you, period.

No need for self evaluation like "what am I doing wrong? does he/she love me? what can I do to make em love me?" etc

You should never invest more than 50% in a relation regardless if she sh!ts pearls and diamond.

[Walaashiis]

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Walaashis as much as you want to vilify men there is also a large proportion of us men that would vilify women so lets not play blame game.

As a man I dont beleive in Love but commitment.

Believe me, I have no intention to vilify men just want to understand them

I talk from my mind. I am open person and would talk about women too.

My other question is: would you marry for love only?


ADVO:

I believed exactly what you said. Aniga dadkaan rabin ma rabbo, no matter how hard they tried. so I can imagine men are the same too.
I took Shidow as an example and wondered about that because I know women who would try anything (not sexual) to attract man( qof ey jecel yihin). waxey aaminsan yahiin in nimanka la badali karo
I thought they were fooling themselves ( I read he is not into you).

But Shidow's experience tells me something different.

[Walaashiis]

[quote="RuralMan08"]I, too was once in young and in love. When I was 16 years old is when I was struck down by a thing known as love. Its been many years and I still hear her voice in my head, her favourite colour, her favourite food, her favourite TV programme, her favourite Sheikh.

I will forever cherish these memories until my death.

why did not you marry her then? you do not have to answer this though.

I personnally qashinkaan ku ridaa all the memory apart from the bad one

[grandpakhalif]

I rather have a beautiful wife than an ugly one!

[Walaashiis]

I rather have a beautiful wife than an ugly one!

Yes, you answer my question without going around.

Would you like to be called 'visual men'?

I am fine with that as long as you do not call others ugly, boy.

[The_Patriot]

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Walaashis as much as you want to vilify men there is also a large proportion of us men that would vilify women so lets not play blame game.

As a man I dont beleive in Love but commitment.

Believe me, I have no intention to vilify men just want to understand them

I talk from my mind. I am open person and would talk about women too.

My other question is: would you marry for love only?

t.

Would I marry for love only ? what do you mean?
Should I first be in love with her before I proceed with the proposal or an option like other options as in would you marry her if you love her?

As for the 1st no So long as she is cultured average looking then I will marry her without love as a precondition and as long as she accepts it

As for the second yes if I am in love I might marry her. but I do beleive love is not reliable and if it was just mere blind love then there is a high chance that the relationship will be rocky after a short peek.

[Walaashiis]

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Would I marry for love only ? what do you mean?
Should I first be in love with her before I proceed with the proposal or an option like other options as in would you marry her if you love her?

As for the 1st no So long as she is cultured average looking then I will marry her without love as a precondition and as long as she accepts it

As for the second yes if I am in love I might marry her. but I do beleive love is not reliable and if it was just mere blind love then there is a high chance that the relationship will be rocky after a short peek.

Great answer

[waryaa]

love by any means is conditional except that of mother/child, etc. Anything less than two way street is called temporary insanity.

[abdisamad3]

there is nothing called love only qooq.

[Nabeela]

So you don't love your wife?

[shitguy]

If someone doesn't want you then they don't want you, period.

No need for self evaluation like "what am I doing wrong? does he/she love me? what can I do to make em love me?" etc

You should never invest more than 50% in a relation regardless if she sh!ts pearls and diamond.

well put