I cannot understand how some men

[Advo]

Can abandon their kids and start a new family, I mean I understand if you want nothing to do with your former wife but why shun the kid/kids too?

[Murax]

Because they're not men but little boys, who just want to cut and run when the going gets tough

[PrincessBurco]

Has this happened to you?

[Voltage]

Everybody grows up but not everybody matures.

[omar07]

it's something to do with kacsi perhaps, he wants to get laid.. Seriously though sometimes fathers go crazy with their wives. He might be working driving
taxi or working in some low paying job and when he gets home she doesn't show home coming face instead she ask him more money and things
he can't afford to give.

[Knight of Wisdom]

Has this happened to you?

[VybzKartel]

I think it is even more strange when he is a good parent to the new kids while his other kids live across the town fatherless and abandoned.

[Knight of Wisdom]

I think it is even more strange when he is a good parent to the new kids while his other kids live across the town fatherless and abandoned.

I guess, it depends on which 'wife' is giving him the good sex.

[HalfDzed]

I think it is even more strange when he is a good parent to the new kids while his other kids live across the town fatherless and abandoned.

Black men have perfected this shit. I seen them act like such good fathers and husbands to their white wives & new kids, but nigga has 4 other kids from black women he never met. I had a neighbor once who seemed like the perfect dad; always playing ball with his kids on their front yard, fixing up the house, mowing the lawn, a regular at the Home Depot around the corner, etc. Turns out the dude had some other kids and a wife he had long abandoned in another State and had a huge child support case going on. Irresponsible men never change, such habits follow people from childhood. Same thing with selfish tendencies, people rarely ever change.

[Advo]

I think it is even more strange when he is a good parent to the new kids while his other kids live across the town fatherless and abandoned.

This is exactly what I mean, he has a new wife and child he adores while his first seed is left struggling. I truly hate people like that man.

Whats even more pathetic is when the unwanted child grows up, than the "clan", "relatives' or even he decides to slowly come back.

[HalfDzed]

Advo

What about dead beat dads who lay a claim on their child's financial gains? Wasn't Lebron James being sued by some dude who was claiming was his father like two years ago? What goes through the minds of such men? How do you abandon your young child, leave him to poverty, leave him to be abused and molested by step-dads and the mother's boyfriends, let him grow up without ever having a father, then when he's finally made it, you come running, wanting a piece of the pie?

[Knight of Wisdom]

Whats even more pathetic is when the unwanted child grows up, than the "clan", "relatives' or even he decides to slowly come back.

That's when I love the MOST. If I was that child who was neglected at a young age by the father, relatives and clan, I'd try whatever possible to become a successful individual, with a lot of MONEY....then when the clan or relatives ask for "Qadhaan".....I will take off my pants and drop my balls on the coffee table and say lick my balls....bitchz !

[udun]

Very common in African American community and even Somalis are falling in that trap. Even backhome, Somali odayaal always favoured their younger wives and the yournger kids.

[Garaad_LQ]

That's when I love the MOST. If I was that child who was neglected at a young age by the father, relatives and clan, I'd try whatever possible to become a successful individual, with a lot of MONEY....then when the clan or relatives ask for "Qadhaan".....I will take off my pants and drop my balls on the coffee table and say lick my balls....bitchz !

dude is funny

this phenomenon is becoming extremely widespread in our communities here and back home
nowadays it's very common thing to see young Somali females with 2,3, kids with no father in sight , all divorced after maybe one or two years of marriage , or the faraax run away, the divorce rate is very alarming , Somali marriages are becoming more and more like Hollywood marriages

[VybzKartel]

Advo

What about dead beat dads who lay a claim on their child's financial gains? Wasn't Lebron James being sued by some dude who was claiming was his father like two years ago? What goes through the minds of such men? How do you abandon your young child, leave him to poverty, leave him to be abused and molested by step-dads and the mother's boyfriends, let him grow up without ever having a father, then when he's finally made it, you come running, wanting a piece of the pie?

That guy was funny. He was a lawyer.