Lmao at some of the comments on.
http://www.secretsocietyofwomen.com/sec ... e-affairs/
"@lovesurprises. It is unfair of u to be so judgmental. I too thought like u when I was younger. For the most part u don’t know most of the facts of each person’s story. It’s not so simple and don’t think for a moment thought is not given to the ramifications. A friend told me years ago, when I criticized her for dating a married man, “you can’t comment until u have walked in my shoes” I now know what she meant."
"That is exactly how I feel with my situation! I have already been through one divorce and it is expensive. And right now, I’m unemployed. I take care of everyone else, why can’t I have some thing I want? My husband has his friend he goes out with once or twice a week, he bowls on a league. So why can’t I do something I want. And if that means spending time with my lover, well, that’s what I want to do! Good luck!"
"WOW… I am so relieved to have found this site. To know I’m not alone. To know that so many other women are going thru this same situation. Sadly, noones posted a resolution. I am married to a wonderful man that loves me so much, is a great dad and would do and DOES anything and everything for me. Anyone who knows us knows I have THE WORLDS BEST HUSBAND. so why did I cheat on him? not once, not twice but THREE times? the first two were easy to quit. they were one time things. This last one…well lets just say Im a basket case. I love both men and while im not TRAPPED financially, I am trapped because of my family and im too afraid to leave because my parents would be devistated. I cant do it to my kids i just cant. anyway… so whats the problem? Well… I am not enjoying the rollercoaster of emotions I feel. I think about him constantly. Hes divorced so he is free and still dates other women although we dont (he wont) discuss them..but i know he does and I am jealous of that! i freak out when i dont hear from him … I am so sad when i can’t be with him…but when I am with him, and when I talk to him its the best thing on earth… Like a drug! its so crazy. Im going crazy. i tried to end it yesterday. Thought the whole New Year thing would give me strength…and I sent him an email telling him i cant continue…he was sad but nice about it. didn’t try to stop me. wanted an explaination…gave him one. But today. Today I caved. i contacted him. told him i made a mistake. I want him back. and so we’re back…. but now what?
how the hell will i ever be able to quit him?"
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SIZE=4]Also, Im amazed at the number of people that started cheating on FB. This was my gateway as well."[/SIZE]
I think fb is a catalyst to a lot of affairs and people having secret messages. I knew this guy and added him as a friend, he is quite a bit younger then me. After I added him he started messaging me saying me and him should hook up and I could be his cougar lol. I thought it was funny at first. Then we started texting and the texts were HOT, they turned me on like seriously. Then one night I was out and he texted me and told me to come over and he would give me the best orgasm of my life. It was definitely something that I wanted to experience but I was torn because I didn’t want to cheat, but I went. The sex was amazing probably the best I’ve ever had.
thehusband said 2 weeks, 6 days ago:
Well ladies, I hate to cause you any great concern but your husband probably already knows. I do. But I am okay with it. The irony is that I’m not having an affair but would if I found someone I wanted to be with. But it wouldn’t be about sex it would be about relationship/connection. I don’t want to be with my wife but I do believe that she has a right to be happy and have a loving relationship with someone (sex, intimacy, whatever). Our marriage is sexless because I don’t want to have sex with her and I think it’s wrong for me to expect her to live the rest of her life with out this. We have three kids and I’m grateful to her for this. But I don’t love her and I’m not sure I ever did. I’m not even sure that I like her but I do care about her very much. She is a good person and I want her to be happy. We stay together for the kids and I don’t push a divorce (even thought I want one) because I know she is financially dependent on me. The answers aren’t easy.
