Friends with your ex

Postby **Shirib** » Mon Feb 28, 2011 12:02 pm

Can you still be friends with your ex, like just good friends? Or once you break up, is it time to just move on from everything

Enlightened~Sista · Postby **Enlightened~Sista** » Mon Feb 28, 2011 12:07 pm

Aww Shirib you've grown!

Ex baad ba yeelatay loool

ToughGong · Postby **ToughGong** » Mon Feb 28, 2011 12:07 pm

By ex you mean wife miyaa,otherwise it's a hypotheical Q in an muslim forum

Postby **Shirib** » Mon Feb 28, 2011 12:08 pm

strictly hypothetical btw.

Enlightened, I missed ya darling

quark · Postby **quark** » Mon Feb 28, 2011 12:08 pm

shrib, if you had asked this same question last week, i would have said its possible. but, not after what happened to me this weekend

Postby **Xamud.** » Mon Feb 28, 2011 12:09 pm

Shirib
Why would you want to be friends with your ex for? you should blank her totally,even if you see her with some mutual friends, allways say hi to them and not her. She has nothing constructive to offer you if she`s your ex.

Enlightened~Sista · Postby **Enlightened~Sista** » Mon Feb 28, 2011 12:10 pm

Shirib thnx aboowe

Maxaa cusub?

Postby **Shirib** » Mon Feb 28, 2011 12:12 pm

shrib, if you had asked this same question last week, i would have said its possible. but, not after what happened to me this weekend

Now, I'm curious

Shirib
Why would you want to be friends with your ex for? you should blank her totally,even if you see her with some mutual friends, allways say hi to them and not her. She has nothing constructive to offer you if she`s your ex.

I'd say that a little overboard don't u think. Wouldn't that imply that you're really bitter that it didn't work out?

BlackVelvet · Postby **BlackVelvet** » Mon Feb 28, 2011 12:12 pm

Aren't you supposed to hate your ex? Or if not hate at least not willingly want to spend time with them, otherwise why did you breakup?

Postby **Shirib** » Mon Feb 28, 2011 12:14 pm

Enlightened,

nothin much sis, lifes mostly the same, uni, family, nothing overly exciting.

BV,

U can break up with someone without hating them no? or still care about them

Navy9 · Postby **Navy9** » Mon Feb 28, 2011 12:16 pm

Shirib,

People can part ways but it does not mean you can not be friends with. It all depends on what kind of relationship existed before the couple broke up. If respect is what first joined them, I would think they should respect each other if departed assuming we are talking about "mature" people.

BlackVelvet · Postby **BlackVelvet** » Mon Feb 28, 2011 12:20 pm

Shirib, if that were the case then wouldn't there be a bit of hope of getting back together someday?

Postby **Shirib** » Mon Feb 28, 2011 12:22 pm

Shirib, if that were the case then wouldn't there be a bit of hope of getting back together someday?

yea there's the possibility, but here's another question, can they really get over each other while still being friends? Would the fact that they used to be together strain the friendship?

BlackVelvet · Postby **BlackVelvet** » Mon Feb 28, 2011 12:31 pm

Shirib, if that were the case then wouldn't there be a bit of hope of getting back together someday?
yea there's the possibility, but here's another question, can they really get over each other while still being friends? Would the fact that they used to be together strain the friendship?

The platonic line was crossed to unplatonic grounds so it's probably not possible to be "just friends". And no they can't really get over eah other if they're seeing each other every so often, smiling and laughing together and forgetting why they broke up in the first place. You know what I reckon having an ex you hate is better than having an ex you like. At least with the first type you'll be glad you got out but the other you'd be cussing yourself for not making it work.

Postby **Shirib** » Mon Feb 28, 2011 12:38 pm

So BV and Xamud, are all for hating their exes

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