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Need urgent help.

Postby IbnMakhiri » Thu Mar 31, 2011 11:11 am

When it says you can have intercourse with that which your right hand possesses how come it doesn't specify gender?

I couldn't possibly ask a Sheikh, but does this mean somebody in my position could have relations with a male servant, etc. without committing a haram act? I don't know if I'm homosexual (istaqfirullah) but I'm 100% sure I'm not in anyway attracted to women...and I was thinking maybe this is a loophole for those with my predicament.

The reason why I'm asking this is because Allah makes everything easy for us and I am looking for a solution to my problem before I do something I might regret. I don't jerk off often but I believe this is halal when one feels they are close to committing zina. I've now passed that point and I need another outlet and I would like to find one without leaving Islam. There is no way I can marry or touch a woman (walahi no joke. I'm physically incapable of doing so. It repulses me to even think about it) and I refuse to address this issue outside the internet.

Please help me and make duca for me. If you can't please don't comment. I know I am base. It is not my fault.

JZK.

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Re: Need urgent help.

Postby Shirib » Thu Mar 31, 2011 11:18 am

do u have a slave?

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Re: Need urgent help.

Postby IbnMakhiri » Thu Mar 31, 2011 11:24 am

I'm willing to find one.

But nothing's concrete until I get a correct interpretation of this ayat. Does it apply to both genders? I need answers soon walahi.

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Re: Need urgent help.

Postby Mureedi » Thu Mar 31, 2011 11:24 am

Horta why do khaniisis always look for loopholes oo jirin? Men go to war and wama malakat eymaanukum means the women they get as booty, there is no need to classify it as men or women, period. Jus look at qowmu-Luudh and your case is closed. If you entertain the idea of stabbing some sh!t, you will be dwelling the same hell they are dwelling.

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Re: Need urgent help.

Postby Shirib » Thu Mar 31, 2011 11:28 am

I'm willing to find one.

But nothing's concrete until I get a correct interpretation of this ayat. Does it apply to both genders? I need answers soon walahi.
sexual relations with a person of the same sex is haraam in every sense

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Re: Need urgent help.

Postby haniDD » Thu Mar 31, 2011 11:29 am

I believe when its says 'which the right hand possesses' its meant by ur wife.

But since u r not attracted to woman. i guess that is not going to happen.

So would say u r attracted to man?

Anyways, may Allah guide u to straight path and i hope that u love which Allah loves and hate which that Allah hates.

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Re: Need urgent help.

Postby IbnMakhiri » Thu Mar 31, 2011 11:38 am

I'm willing to find one.

But nothing's concrete until I get a correct interpretation of this ayat. Does it apply to both genders? I need answers soon walahi.
sexual relations with a person of the same sex is haraam in every sense
I believe when its says 'which the right hand possesses' its meant by ur wife.

But since u r not attracted to woman. i guess that is not going to happen.

So would say u r attracted to man?

Anyways, may Allah guide u to straight path and i hope that u love which Allah loves and hate which that Allah hates.
Ok JZK akhi. I don't mean to doubt either of your judgements, but is there any proof of this? This is for all intents and purposes the only alternative I have left outside of chemical castration or another method of libido-reduction so I'm sure you'll understand why I need iron facts. I can't make a decision of this magnitude based on opinion.

Hanad,

I don't know. All I know is women disgust me. I've known that much since I was a child. I've never experimented with homosexual erotica, etc. because it's a path I don't want to go down and because it will destroy my imaan, but I believe simple deduction reasons that if I have no attraction to women, I must like the opposite. I'd prefer not to be sure until I have to be sure it if that makes any sense.

Thanks.

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Re: Need urgent help.

Postby djibsomali » Thu Mar 31, 2011 11:45 am

When it says you can have intercourse with that which your right hand possesses how come it doesn't specify gender?

I couldn't possibly ask a Sheikh, but does this mean somebody in my position could have relations with a male servant, etc. without committing a haram act? I don't know if I'm homosexual (istaqfirullah) but I'm 100% sure I'm not in anyway attracted to women...and I was thinking maybe this is a loophole for those with my predicament.

The reason why I'm asking this is because Allah makes everything easy for us and I am looking for a solution to my problem before I do something I might regret. I don't jerk off often but I believe this is halal when one feels they are close to committing zina. I've now passed that point and I need another outlet and I would like to find one without leaving Islam. There is no way I can marry or touch a woman (walahi no joke. I'm physically incapable of doing so. It repulses me to even think about it) and I refuse to address this issue outside the internet.

Please help me and make duca for me. If you can't please don't comment. I know I am base. It is not my fault.

JZK.

et voila!!

the first somalinet gay!!

it was only a matter of time

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Re: Need urgent help.

Postby siren » Thu Mar 31, 2011 12:00 pm

^ Where were you when our resident fag and advocate Afdhere was around? We've had more than dozen queers roaming the forums. :?

NeoCon I always knew something was fishy about you, maybe you're a asexual? :|

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Re: Need urgent help.

Postby djibsomali » Thu Mar 31, 2011 12:07 pm

^ Where were you when our resident fag and advocate Afdhere was around? We've had more than dozen queers roaming the forums. :?

NeoCon I always knew something was fishy about you, maybe you're a asexual? :|
Who complained about me?? your dad or grand father???
looooooooool

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Re: Need urgent help.

Postby siren » Thu Mar 31, 2011 12:15 pm

^ Wow, you seem you have chip on your shoulder. Yaa adiga kula hadlayaay.. :?

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Re: Need urgent help.

Postby IbnMakhiri » Thu Mar 31, 2011 12:18 pm

Go away please.

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Re: Need urgent help.

Postby haniDD » Thu Mar 31, 2011 12:26 pm

notes that for the expression ma malakat aymanukum ("those whom your right hands possess", i.e., "those whom you rightfully possess"), it is often taken to mean female captives can be taken in marriage irrespective of whether they have husbands in the country of their origin or not. Despite the differences of opinion, even among the Companions of the Prophet, regarding the legality of such a marriage, Razi in his commentary on this verse, and Tabari in one of his alternative explanations (going back to ‘Abd Allah ibn ‘Abbas, Mujahid, and others) hold the view that ma malakat aymanukum denotes here "women whom you rightfully possess through wedlock".[8]

If any of you have not the means wherewith to wed free believing women, they may wed believing girls from among those whom your right hands possess: And Allah hath full knowledge about your faith. Ye are one from another: Wed them with the leave of their owners, and give them their dowers, according to what is reasonable: They should be chaste, not lustful, nor taking paramours: when they are taken in wedlock, if they fall into shame, their punishment is half that for free women. This (permission) is for those among you who fear sin; but it is better for you that ye practise self-restraint.


I hope this clears up any misunderstand u had of that statement.

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Re: Need urgent help.

Postby djibsomali » Thu Mar 31, 2011 12:28 pm

^ Wow, you seem you have chip on your shoulder. Yaa adiga kula hadlayaay.. :?
Absolutly rigth it was not addressed to me!!

That chip is so big that it is obstructing my vision

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Re: Need urgent help.

Postby qoraxeey » Thu Mar 31, 2011 12:30 pm

this is a TROLL :? ama waa buurtooy


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