Welcome to SomaliNet Forums, a friendly and gigantic Somali centric active community. Login to hide this block

You are currently viewing this page as a guest. By joining our community you will have the ability to post topics, ask questions, educate others, use the advanced search, subscribe to threads and access many, many other features. Registration is quick, simple and absolutely free. Join SomaliNet forums today! Please note that registered members with over 50 posts see no ads whatsoever! Are you new to SomaliNet? These forums with millions of posts are just one section of a much larger site. Just visit the front page and use the top links to explore deep into SomaliNet oasis, Somali singles, Somali business directory, Somali job bank and much more. Click here to login. If you need to reset your password, click here. If you have any problems with the registration process or your account login, please contact us.

>>>Relationship Topic<<<

Daily chitchat.

Moderators: Moderators, Junior Moderators

Forum rules
This General Forum is for general discussions from daily chitchat to more serious discussions among Somalinet Forums members. Please do not use it as your Personal Message center (PM). If you want to contact a particular person or a group of people, please use the PM feature. If you want to contact the moderators, pls PM them. If you insist leaving a public message for the mods or other members, it will be deleted.
OUR SPONSOR: LOGIN TO HIDE
User avatar
BlackVelvet
SomaliNet Super
SomaliNet Super
Posts: 23249
Joined: Thu Mar 11, 2010 2:54 pm
Location: On Idman's mind

Re: >>>Relationship Topic<<<

Postby BlackVelvet » Sun Jun 12, 2011 3:59 pm

abdisamad3 wrote:lol bv what kind of crimes did we commit against you to make you feel the way you feel about Somali men, :lol:


Wow where to start...I'll make a list :mrgreen:

1. I can't live in Somalia because of Somali men
2. They marry women because they want maids
3. They believe their balls will fall off if they enter the kitchen
4. They use the deen selectively
5. They're generally sexist

I would say those 5 apply to most faraxs

6. They are addicted to khaad
7. They are addicted to fadhi kudirir
8. They think their kids will raise themselves
9. They marry multiple women and can't take care of them

That applies to a lot of faraxs

10. They drink alcohol
11. They can't provide financially yet get married
12. Their deen is non existant
13. They are wastemen

That applies to quite a lot

May Allah protect us from faraxs! Amiin yaa Rab!

But the reasons why I personally don't like faraxs the most are 3, 4 and 5

User avatar
ciyaal_warta
SomaliNet Super
SomaliNet Super
Posts: 9629
Joined: Mon Jan 22, 2007 9:58 pm
Location: Hiiraan State of Somalia

Re: >>>Relationship Topic<<<

Postby ciyaal_warta » Sun Jun 12, 2011 4:02 pm

abdisamad3 wrote:only but if you knew what arab/asian girls do gp, :lol:



there are worse i have seen it wallah..somali westernized girlz will look alike angel compare to them :lol: :lol:

User avatar
abdisamad3
SomaliNet Super
SomaliNet Super
Posts: 12628
Joined: Sat May 30, 2009 10:18 am
Location: Kismayo

Re: >>>Relationship Topic<<<

Postby abdisamad3 » Sun Jun 12, 2011 4:05 pm

wow bv thats quite long list, :lol:
but anyway I would love if you didnt generalise all somali men, we human have this mentality of seing only the bad, have you ever tried to focus on the good instead of the bad ones?

User avatar
OliveOil
SomaliNet Super
SomaliNet Super
Posts: 7649
Joined: Thu Feb 11, 2010 3:07 am
Location: I walk this empty street on the Boulevard of Broken Dreams

Re: >>>Relationship Topic<<<

Postby OliveOil » Sun Jun 12, 2011 4:06 pm

Murax wrote:
OliveOil wrote:Abdisamad, yes there r good guys like urself aboowe..laakiin the predominant number of Somali men are what we described :down:




Olive, I disagree. Bottom line is most girls whether they want to admit it or not are attracted to those types of guys more then the miskeen won't ever hurt a girl type. Its like a big thing if they can get a 'player' to settle down, but most often it doesn't work until finally the guy is just sick of living that lifestyle and wants to settle down badly himself.




FAH123,

U sheeg DMV dudes are real :up:



I once had a thing for DMV dudes until I was introduced to one that was from there :ugeek:


But dude, I totally understand where u r coming from...horta in la is weediiyo maxumee...do I come across as a desperate Xaliimo who has bitter feelings for Somali men? lol :?

User avatar
FAH1223
webmaster
Posts: 33773
Joined: Mon Oct 02, 2006 12:31 pm
Location: THE MOST POWERFUL CITY IN THE WORLD
Contact:

Re: >>>Relationship Topic<<<

Postby FAH1223 » Sun Jun 12, 2011 4:06 pm

BlackVelvet wrote:
abdisamad3 wrote:lol bv what kind of crimes did we commit against you to make you feel the way you feel about Somali men, :lol:


Wow where to start...I'll make a list :mrgreen:

1. I can't live in Somalia because of Somali men
2. They marry women because they want maids
3. They believe their balls will fall off if they enter the kitchen
4. They use the deen selectively
5. They're generally sexist

I would say those 5 apply to most faraxs

6. They are addicted to khaad
7. They are addicted to fadhi kudirir
8. They think their kids will raise themselves
9. They marry multiple women and can't take care of them

That applies to a lot of faraxs

10. They drink alcohol
11. They can't provide financially yet get married
12. Their deen is non existant
13. They are wastemen

That applies to quite a lot

May Allah protect us from faraxs! Amiin yaa Rab!

But the reasons why I personally don't like faraxs the most are 3, 4 and 5


so what situation did this happen to you? specifically

User avatar
OliveOil
SomaliNet Super
SomaliNet Super
Posts: 7649
Joined: Thu Feb 11, 2010 3:07 am
Location: I walk this empty street on the Boulevard of Broken Dreams

Re: >>>Relationship Topic<<<

Postby OliveOil » Sun Jun 12, 2011 4:07 pm

BlackVelvet wrote:
abdisamad3 wrote:lol bv what kind of crimes did we commit against you to make you feel the way you feel about Somali men, :lol:


Wow where to start...I'll make a list :mrgreen:

1. I can't live in Somalia because of Somali men
2. They marry women because they want maids
3. They believe their balls will fall off if they enter the kitchen
4. They use the deen selectively
5. They're generally sexist

I would say those 5 apply to most faraxs

6. They are addicted to khaad
7. They are addicted to fadhi kudirir
8. They think their kids will raise themselves
9. They marry multiple women and can't take care of them

That applies to a lot of faraxs

10. They drink alcohol
11. They can't provide financially yet get married
12. Their deen is non existant
13. They are wastemen

That applies to quite a lot

May Allah protect us from faraxs! Amiin yaa Rab!

But the reasons why I personally don't like faraxs the most are 3, 4 and 5



THEY ARE ALL TRUE :clap:

User avatar
Murax
SomaliNet Super
SomaliNet Super
Posts: 25552
Joined: Sat Dec 29, 2007 4:45 am

Re: >>>Relationship Topic<<<

Postby Murax » Sun Jun 12, 2011 4:08 pm

BlackVelvet wrote:
abdisamad3 wrote:3. They believe their balls will fall off if they enter the kitchen



In all honesty this is the only one on that list that applied to me :up:

User avatar
OliveOil
SomaliNet Super
SomaliNet Super
Posts: 7649
Joined: Thu Feb 11, 2010 3:07 am
Location: I walk this empty street on the Boulevard of Broken Dreams

Re: >>>Relationship Topic<<<

Postby OliveOil » Sun Jun 12, 2011 4:08 pm

Enlightened~Sista wrote:The traditional somali guy and the thuggish/ghetto one baan ilaahayo kaa magan galnay.


:up: :up:

User avatar
ciyaal_warta
SomaliNet Super
SomaliNet Super
Posts: 9629
Joined: Mon Jan 22, 2007 9:58 pm
Location: Hiiraan State of Somalia

Re: >>>Relationship Topic<<<

Postby ciyaal_warta » Sun Jun 12, 2011 4:09 pm

:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: BV is certified feminist

some of ur points are true and we have to change it asap :up:

User avatar
abdisamad3
SomaliNet Super
SomaliNet Super
Posts: 12628
Joined: Sat May 30, 2009 10:18 am
Location: Kismayo

Re: >>>Relationship Topic<<<

Postby abdisamad3 » Sun Jun 12, 2011 4:09 pm

ciyaal_warta wrote:
abdisamad3 wrote:only but if you knew what arab/asian girls do gp, :lol:



there are worse i have seen it wallah..somali westernized girlz will look alike angel compare to them :lol: :lol:

usheeg gp sxb miskiinka waxba ma oga, :lol:

Enlightened~Sista
SomaliNet Super
SomaliNet Super
Posts: 10831
Joined: Fri Feb 29, 2008 4:55 am
Location: Stonetown, Zanzibar

Re: >>>Relationship Topic<<<

Postby Enlightened~Sista » Sun Jun 12, 2011 4:13 pm

Enlightened~Sista wrote:The traditional somali guy and the thuggish/ghetto one baan ilaahayo kaa magan galnay.

Oh yeah and the extremists in matters of religion.


BV :up:

User avatar
BlackVelvet
SomaliNet Super
SomaliNet Super
Posts: 23249
Joined: Thu Mar 11, 2010 2:54 pm
Location: On Idman's mind

Re: >>>Relationship Topic<<<

Postby BlackVelvet » Sun Jun 12, 2011 4:14 pm

Abdisamad not all Somalis that much I am aware. So far I know 1 Somali male who none of that applies to. :lol:


Fah number 1 happened to me and number 3. I am not married but the ones about marriage I know people who it happened to. I've seen faraxs drinking, fadhi kudirir happens here 24/7. Maxaa soo harey, you remember people telling me I am supporting zinah by telling these faraxs they shouldn't get married if they can't afford rent. And sexism...I am not sure if I should bother picking one example. I don't know if there is a more sexist people. At least we never used to bury our daughters or shun our widows/divorcees. Alxamdulillah that is the only positive thing I can think of.

User avatar
BlackVelvet
SomaliNet Super
SomaliNet Super
Posts: 23249
Joined: Thu Mar 11, 2010 2:54 pm
Location: On Idman's mind

Re: >>>Relationship Topic<<<

Postby BlackVelvet » Sun Jun 12, 2011 4:15 pm

Enlightened~Sista wrote:
Enlightened~Sista wrote:The traditional somali guy and the thuggish/ghetto one baan ilaahayo kaa magan galnay.

Oh yeah and the extremists in matters of religion.


BV :up:


Amiin. Forgetting the balance, patience and compassion in Islam is a terrible thing.

grandpakhalif
SomaliNet Super
SomaliNet Super
Posts: 28589
Joined: Tue Sep 01, 2009 10:32 am
Location: Darul Kufr
Contact:

Re: >>>Relationship Topic<<<

Postby grandpakhalif » Sun Jun 12, 2011 4:16 pm

abdisamad3 wrote:
ciyaal_warta wrote:
abdisamad3 wrote:only but if you knew what arab/asian girls do gp, :lol:



there are worse i have seen it wallah..somali westernized girlz will look alike angel compare to them :lol: :lol:

usheeg gp sxb miskiinka waxba ma oga, :lol:

yeah right pakistani girls especially pashtuns are the most obedient and observant, their culture and religion is thoroughly preserved when they come to the west unlike our women. They have become so cheap, there very little barriers unlike when you want to marry arab girl

User avatar
FAH1223
webmaster
Posts: 33773
Joined: Mon Oct 02, 2006 12:31 pm
Location: THE MOST POWERFUL CITY IN THE WORLD
Contact:

Re: >>>Relationship Topic<<<

Postby FAH1223 » Sun Jun 12, 2011 4:18 pm

BlackVelvet wrote:Abdisamad not all Somalis that much I am aware. So far I know 1 Somali male who none of that applies to. :lol:


Fah number 1 happened to me and number 3. I am not married but the ones about marriage I know people who it happened to. I've seen faraxs drinking, fadhi kudirir happens here 24/7. Maxaa soo harey, you remember people telling me I am supporting zinah by telling these faraxs they shouldn't get married if they can't afford rent. And sexism...I am not sure if I should bother picking one example. I don't know if there is a more sexist people. At least we never used to bury our daughters or shun our widows/divorcees. Alxamdulillah that is the only positive thing I can think of.


uh, that happened to most people on this forum irregardless of gender

most of that list, besides khat and what not can apply to other groups as well


OUR SPONSOR: LOGIN TO HIDE

Hello, Has your question been answered on this page? We hope yes. If not, you can start a new thread and post your question(s). It is free to join. You can also search our over a million pages (just scroll up and use our site-wide search box) or browse the forums.

  • Similar Topics
    Replies
    Views
    Last post

Return to “General - General Discussions”

Who is online

Users browsing this forum: No registered users and 10 guests