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Re: >>>Relationship Topic<<<

Postby BlackVelvet » Sun Jun 12, 2011 4:21 pm

FAH1223 wrote:
BlackVelvet wrote:Abdisamad not all Somalis that much I am aware. So far I know 1 Somali male who none of that applies to. :lol:


Fah number 1 happened to me and number 3. I am not married but the ones about marriage I know people who it happened to. I've seen faraxs drinking, fadhi kudirir happens here 24/7. Maxaa soo harey, you remember people telling me I am supporting zinah by telling these faraxs they shouldn't get married if they can't afford rent. And sexism...I am not sure if I should bother picking one example. I don't know if there is a more sexist people. At least we never used to bury our daughters or shun our widows/divorcees. Alxamdulillah that is the only positive thing I can think of.


uh, that happened to most people on this forum irregardless of gender

most of that list, besides khat and what not can apply to other groups as well


Well you asked.

The what not is a lot more than you are making it out to seem.

Why are you defending faraxs all of a sudden?

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Re: >>>Relationship Topic<<<

Postby ciyaal_warta » Sun Jun 12, 2011 4:22 pm

in conclusion...is not only somalis every race complaining about the same thing...one side the girlz arguing that their male partners are the worst in the world while the boiz are sayin the same shytt...so lets not generalize it all comes down to personal behavior..no one is above criticism

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Re: >>>Relationship Topic<<<

Postby DisplacedDiraac » Sun Jun 12, 2011 4:24 pm

Murax wrote:
Dee ofcourse, but no girl will ever just be like lets get married without anything. Even the most super wadaad girl will be like You have to shukaansi Me to some degree. The Type of shukaansi will be diff ofcourse. Still I've never seen or heard of a girl who married a guy without some sort of "relationship" and even the most wadaad will still do it :lol:


What sort of 'wadaads' do you know.. Bloody hell.. :|

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Re: >>>Relationship Topic<<<

Postby BlackVelvet » Sun Jun 12, 2011 4:25 pm

ciyaal_warta wrote:in conclusion...is not only somalis every race complaining about the same thing...one side the girlz arguing that their male partners are the worst in the world while the boiz are sayin the same shytt...so lets not generalize it all comes down to personal behavior..no one is above criticism


What? Find one bad thing to say about ESis!



:mrgreen:


ciyaal_warta wrote::lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: BV is certified feminist

some of ur points are true and we have to change it asap :up:


:up: But not some of my points. I would argue all.

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Re: >>>Relationship Topic<<<

Postby yunis09 » Sun Jun 12, 2011 4:25 pm

bang bang its a farax's world :mrgreen:

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Re: >>>Relationship Topic<<<

Postby HELWAA » Sun Jun 12, 2011 4:26 pm

BV

Wax nin somali ah dhaama ma jirto, caawa hadu ku xumeeyana wa la qaban..laakin nin ajaanib ah xagee ba lo raacey hadayna hooyadi soomali ahen ofcourse.Aduunkan qof perfect ahy ma jiro, adiguna perfect ma tihid so love ur brother desbite all their foults. :up:

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Re: >>>Relationship Topic<<<

Postby FAH1223 » Sun Jun 12, 2011 4:26 pm

WestLdnShawty wrote:
What sort of 'wadaads' do you know.. Bloody hell.. :|


are you a wadaad?

BV, I'm being real :up: Its no different from what females say no a days which is "there are no good guys out there to marry me"

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Re: >>>Relationship Topic<<<

Postby yunis09 » Sun Jun 12, 2011 4:27 pm

HELWAA wrote:BV

Wax nin somali ah dhaama ma jirto, caawa hadu ku xumeeyana wa la qaban..laakin nin ajaanib ah xagee ba lo raacey hadayna hooyadi soomali ahen ofcourse.Aduunkan qof perfect ahy ma jiro, adiguna perfect ma tihid so love ur brother desbite all their foults. :up:

:up: :rose: most sensible person in this forum :up:

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Re: >>>Relationship Topic<<<

Postby DisplacedDiraac » Sun Jun 12, 2011 4:29 pm

FAH1223 wrote:
WestLdnShawty wrote:
What sort of 'wadaads' do you know.. Bloody hell.. :|


are you a wadaad?

BV, I'm being real :up: Its no different from what females say no a days which is "there are no good guys out there to marry me"


What's your definition of a wadaad?.. :|

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Re: >>>Relationship Topic<<<

Postby FAH1223 » Sun Jun 12, 2011 4:30 pm

WestLdnShawty wrote:What's your definition of a wadaad?.. :|


what is yours?

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Re: >>>Relationship Topic<<<

Postby ciyaal_warta » Sun Jun 12, 2011 4:31 pm

BlackVelvet wrote:
ciyaal_warta wrote:in conclusion...is not only somalis every race complaining about the same thing...one side the girlz arguing that their male partners are the worst in the world while the boiz are sayin the same shytt...so lets not generalize it all comes down to personal behavior..no one is above criticism


What? Find one bad thing to say about ESis!



:mrgreen:


ciyaal_warta wrote::lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: BV is certified feminist

some of ur points are true and we have to change it asap :up:


:up: But not some of my points. I would argue all.


E-SiS jambal ah baad ii dhiibee camal :lol: ...i can only point the bad things of the girls i know them in real life abaayo


in my point of view not all ur point are correct...we have a bigger issues and u complain about the least things like kitchen and sexism :down:

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Re: >>>Relationship Topic<<<

Postby yunis09 » Sun Jun 12, 2011 4:32 pm

wadaad term its used loosely, so it can take many meanings and forms.......

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Re: >>>Relationship Topic<<<

Postby BlackVelvet » Sun Jun 12, 2011 4:34 pm

HELWAA wrote:BV

Wax nin somali ah dhaama ma jirto, caawa hadu ku xumeeyana wa la qaban..laakin nin ajaanib ah xagee ba lo raacey hadayna hooyadi soomali ahen ofcourse.Aduunkan qof perfect ahy ma jiro, adiguna perfect ma tihid so love ur brother desbite all their foults. :up:


I share a lineage and history with Somali men and that is where the affection starts and stops. I will not pretend their faults don't exist. I will not marry a Somali man just because he is Somali. Xadoo i xumeeyo wu i xumeeye, him being Somali won't make me feel better about it.

I am not perfect but me being imperfect is not an excuse for all of us to pat each others shoulders and accept the status quo.

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Re: >>>Relationship Topic<<<

Postby DisplacedDiraac » Sun Jun 12, 2011 4:34 pm

FAH1223 wrote:
WestLdnShawty wrote:What's your definition of a wadaad?.. :|


what is yours?


To keep it short.. My definition of the term doesn't describe me.. :|
What's yours? Im curious.

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Re: >>>Relationship Topic<<<

Postby BlackVelvet » Sun Jun 12, 2011 4:35 pm

FAH1223 wrote:
WestLdnShawty wrote:
What sort of 'wadaads' do you know.. Bloody hell.. :|


are you a wadaad?

BV, I'm being real :up: Its no different from what females say no a days which is "there are no good guys out there to marry me"


What? Abdisamad asked me to point out what my problem is with faraxs and I complied. Been maan sheegin.


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