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I seriously don't get why people are saying u should call him or text but wait few days and blah blah blah!
Abaayo macaan runta ma rabtaa? Abaa don't call him at all...delete his number!!! Nin aa party ka baratay nin
ma ahan if you want a serious relationship. Laakiin if you want to have fun and just date around....sure whatevs, call
him....but on a serious note though, don't call the brother...don't text him...don't give him the chance to know
who you are...this is the Somali men mentality: a girl that they met at a party joint...is simply hit and run!!!
They don't want anything serious or meaningful with you. However, like I said earlier...if u want that as well...
GURL, GO FOR it!

she probably wants that, just read her posts

I seriously don't get why people are saying u should call him or text but wait few days and blah blah blah!
Abaayo macaan runta ma rabtaa? Abaa don't call him at all...delete his number!!! Nin aa party ka baratay nin
ma ahan if you want a serious relationship. Laakiin if you want to have fun and just date around....sure whatevs, call
him....but on a serious note though, don't call the brother...don't text him...don't give him the chance to know
who you are...this is the Somali men mentality: a girl that they met at a party joint...is simply hit and run!!!
They don't want anything serious or meaningful with you. However, like I said earlier...if u want that as well...
GURL, GO FOR it!

Oliveoil bal ukaadi, seems like you're judging him beforehand. It was not a nightclub qoraxeey went to, waa 1st of july celebration. Ma dad xun uun baa meesha taga? All kinds come, young, old, parents, good , naughty etc. Markaa ha text gareeyso and then he can call her back and let her decide if he's good or not.

I know people who got married to people they met at such parties, aroos etc.

@Fah, I never said that yaah....but lets not judge her aboo. She is prolly confused about men...waa iska caadi. It happens


ES, abaayo lol haye bal! I understand where u r coming from...laakiin that is my number one rule, which is to NEVER talk to a guy I met at a party (doesn't matter what kind of a party it is), a regular college students/community youngsters event...the only event I would really talk to a guy is when I'm at a major hotel event (we've had several here)...where everybody is wearing a suit...looks classy...and we are discussing major problems!!! Thats my kind of stuff...because high profile guys show up there

Haa hadaan ku gartay...

Don't call just send him a message with hey this is my number. I gave a guy my number not because I wanted to and all he did was text, quite odd considering a lot of people have contract phones and what not. Anyways I stopped texting him bk after a few days.

lmao in ma area pple prefer sms then call everyone is texting here ...and i am addicted texting pple

Maybe it's cheaper to text in Malaysia laakin halkan people have contract phones that gives them hours of free mins.. why ask for someone's number if you don't have credit He wasn't shy or anything when he came up to me and was talking to me for like an hour or so lool.

yap the sms is cheaper there are also free mins too but we prefer sms coz its faster way ....u never know the guy wasnt stingy at all may be he was shy

Haa hadaan ku gartay...

Meelaha kalena junkies baa iskugu yimaadaan!

@Fah, I never said that yaah....but lets not judge her aboo. She is prolly confused about men...waa iska caadi. It happens


ES, abaayo lol haye bal! I understand where u r coming from...laakiin that is my number one rule, which is to NEVER talk to a guy I met at a party (doesn't matter what kind of a party it is), a regular college students/community youngsters event...the only event I would really talk to a guy is when I'm at a major hotel event (we've had several here)...where everybody is wearing a suit...looks classy...and we are discussing major problems!!! Thats my kind of stuff...because high profile guys show up there

But if you are in the same party as them, why would you not talk to them. What makes them different to you? The location does not make a difference, it would be the same guys that would be turning up at major hotel events.

Haa hadaan ku gartay...

Meelaha kalena junkies baa iskugu yimaadaan!

I get what you mean, you want Qoraxeey to meet a superior breed of Somali men!

Liela, abaayo...I have only been to two parties in my life...one in Ohio and one in Minnesota. N both times, I had really good reasons . I'm not a party goer...nor do I like the type that attend parties. To me, men that attend parties are NOT the kind of men I would ever want to settle with...since I'm very serious when it comes to relationships and am looking for a future prospect....I'd rather aim higher...I have high standards...besides, men that attend parties are always looking for a girl to pick up or to have fun with another time....I'm not like that...I have self-respect. Also, trust me...men that attend really nice events where everybody is dressed...are okay guys...decent men and are usually the educated type that go there...cause they are aware of their surroundings rather than living in the moment...having fun...hoping from party to party...from girl to girl! GET it??

I get you abayo, i assumed you are a regular party goer from your previous post.

Haa hadaan ku gartay...

Meelaha kalena junkies baa iskugu yimaadaan!

I get what you mean, you want Qoraxeey to meet a superior breed of Somali men!

YES Ding Ding Ding *Bingo* lol

Parties umad kasta baa iskugu yimaadaan...there, its really hard to differentiate a sheikh from a shaydaan (although a shiekh would never be there...just trying to make a point LOL)...N at these nice events that I'm talking about (which happens once in a blue moon), smart, intellectual, decent looking to good looking, educated, very aware type of guys show up....and she should aim for them kind of dudes!!! Party goers find this boring lol

I get you abayo, i assumed you are a regular party goer from your previous post.

Oh ok...I see

Olive oil, BINGO! ...this is the event and these are the guys you're talking about

Olive likes the educated nerds

LOL you already know Smile

ES, something like that