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Question: How do you catch girls and boys for marriage?

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Re: Question: How do you catch girls and boys for marriage?

Postby FAH1223 » Sat Jul 09, 2011 3:01 pm

she said if you're into her, go talk to her

can you talk to a woman? a lot of bros can't... too awkard and what not, which is perfectly fine

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Re: Question: How do you catch girls and boys for marriage?

Postby HELWAA » Sat Jul 09, 2011 3:04 pm

Actaully internet dating is very interesting, i dont know if you seen that british documentary about online dating.They showed it here in Sweden i while ago.So many things pple do to see if they're dealing with good actor/actress :lol:

I know what you're doing Bv it wont work. :lol: :lol:

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Re: Question: How do you catch girls and boys for marriage?

Postby haxxor » Sat Jul 09, 2011 3:08 pm

Actaully internet dating is very interesting, i dont know if you seen that british documentary about online dating.They showed it here in Sweden i while ago.So many things pple do to see if they're dealing with good actor/actress :lol:

I know what you're doing Bv it wont work. :lol: :lol:
I meant dating as in RL dating, not internet dating.
Like if you meet a handsome man, you talk to him for bit, you know he's into you and you're into him, so you ask him to go to specified dinner on specified date and time. On that time, you meet him at dinner for "date".
So, is it halaal?
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Re: Question: How do you catch girls and boys for marriage?

Postby BlackVelvet » Sat Jul 09, 2011 3:12 pm

Actaully internet dating is very interesting, i dont know if you seen that british documentary about online dating.They showed it here in Sweden i while ago.So many things pple do to see if they're dealing with good actor/actress :lol:

I know what you're doing Bv it wont work. :lol: :lol:
Internet dating ciil oo igu ridi lahaa. If you want to know someone seriously like that you have to see them face to face and look into their eyes. Hadii kale it's all make belief.

btw Just checking :lol:

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Re: Question: How do you catch girls and boys for marriage?

Postby HELWAA » Sat Jul 09, 2011 3:12 pm

haxxor....that post was ment for Bv plus you asked how to meet ple in a xalaal way in ur first post.In ur case just go to her or send ur friend to talk to her for ur behave..ooh wait a second she may fall for him instead for you. :?

Just find her nr and send her a message.

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Re: Question: How do you catch girls and boys for marriage?

Postby haxxor » Sat Jul 09, 2011 3:19 pm

haxxor....that post was ment for Bv plus you asked how to meet ple in a xalaal way in ur first post.In ur case just go to her or send ur friend to talk to her for ur behave..ooh wait a second she may fall for him instead for you. :?

Just find her nr and send her a message.
According to your logic, it's risky. If I meet a girl, we will be never alone as there will be always third person present, it's either Shaytan, your friend or her friend.

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Re: Question: How do you catch girls and boys for marriage?

Postby HELWAA » Sat Jul 09, 2011 3:22 pm

Actaully internet dating is very interesting, i dont know if you seen that british documentary about online dating.They showed it here in Sweden i while ago.So many things pple do to see if they're dealing with good actor/actress :lol:

I know what you're doing Bv it wont work. :lol: :lol:
Internet dating ciil oo igu ridi lahaa. If you want to know someone seriously like that you have to see them face to face and look into their eyes. Hadii kale it's all make belief.

btw Just checking :lol:
Internet dating is just for fun, they will never show their true colours plus it's so easy to lie when you dont see the person.A friend of mine was telling me last night how a man trusted a woman who lived in Africa..he never met her in person only trusted her words online and phonecalls.She told him she was virgin never been married..ninki wuu dalbaday meherki somalia ayuu ka dhacay isago halkan jooga.Marku urub keenay ayey ku tiri caruurteydi ban raba inan dalbado..all 4 of them.
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Re: Question: How do you catch girls and boys for marriage?

Postby grandpakhalif » Sat Jul 09, 2011 3:23 pm

Do not talk to the girl I repeat do not, first you have to ask your father to go to their father and make a proposal than you meet her father and if he approves he watches you two have a chat. then if you are comptatible you marry. This is the true islamic way.

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Re: Question: How do you catch girls and boys for marriage?

Postby BlackVelvet » Sat Jul 09, 2011 3:24 pm

Internet dating is just for fun, they will never show their true colours plus it's so easy to lie when you dont see the person.A friend of mine was telling me last night how a man trusted a woman who lived in Africa..he never met her in person only trusted her words online and phonecalls.She told him she was virgin never been married..ninki wuu dalbaday meherki somalia ayuu ka dhacay isago halkan jooga.Marku urub keenay ayey ku tiri caruurteydi ban raba inan dalbado..all 4 of them.
:lol: :lol:

:lol: :lol: :lol:

That woman marka ma an evil beenleey mise waa a hustler doing what she gotta do?

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Re: Question: How do you catch girls and boys for marriage?

Postby BlackVelvet » Sat Jul 09, 2011 3:25 pm

Do not talk to the girl I repeat do not, first you have to ask your father to go to their father and make a proposal than you meet her father and if he approves he watches you two have a chat. then if you are comptatible you marry. This is the true islamic way.
Haye what happened? She said salam and you lost control?

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Re: Question: How do you catch girls and boys for marriage?

Postby HELWAA » Sat Jul 09, 2011 3:30 pm

Bv

Desperate times call for desperate measures.Sometimes you gotta to do anything to survive, that is human nature.What the sister did is wrong but hey the guy was so inlove wih her that he even brought her kids here.

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Re: Question: How do you catch girls and boys for marriage?

Postby grandpakhalif » Sat Jul 09, 2011 3:30 pm

no, you cannot talk to a non-mahram women without her mahram.

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Re: Question: How do you catch girls and boys for marriage?

Postby haxxor » Sat Jul 09, 2011 3:31 pm

Do not talk to the girl I repeat do not, first you have to ask your father to go to their father and make a proposal than you meet her father and if he approves he watches you two have a chat. then if you are comptatible you marry. This is the true islamic way.
Why is it wrong? Can you can provide me some evidence from Qur'an, or authentic Hadiths to as why it's wrong to even talk her. I'm pretty sure she will instantly dislike me because I've been discussing about her behind her back with her father.

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Re: Question: How do you catch girls and boys for marriage?

Postby HELWAA » Sat Jul 09, 2011 3:32 pm

haxxor....that post was ment for Bv plus you asked how to meet ple in a xalaal way in ur first post.In ur case just go to her or send ur friend to talk to her for ur behave..ooh wait a second she may fall for him instead for you. :?

Just find her nr and send her a message.
According to your logic, it's risky. If I meet a girl, we will be never alone as there will be always third person present, it's either Shaytan, your friend or her friend.
If you know her friend that would be perfect. :up:

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Re: Question: How do you catch girls and boys for marriage?

Postby BlackVelvet » Sat Jul 09, 2011 3:37 pm

Grandpa you are too cute. Basra should make you her next project :mrgreen:

Bv

Desperate times call for desperate measures.Sometimes you gotta to do anything to survive, that is human nature.What the sister did is wrong but hey the guy was so inlove wih her that he even brought her kids here.
Alls well that ends well.


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