1. First obey Allah that he is the only one makes everything.
2. Minimize the relationship with the Somalis including you relatives because Somalis are people who are the family of backbiting, dulmi, islweyni. By minimizing the relationship for the sake of Allah will bring good lady in your doorstep. Obedient lady.
3. Always be obedient and humble to your God. He deserve it.
4. Never fear human being, fear Allah and Allah only sincerely.
5. Practice day dreaming that you are going to die in battlefield, car crash, gun shot wounds. That will make your heart even stronger and stronger because it is the reality of the world.
6. Beg Allah more and more everyday.
That is all.......................................
