Silent Treatment.

zingii · Postby **zingii** » Sat Sep 17, 2011 6:40 am

How long is a silent treatment suppose to last?

Hyperactive · Postby **Hyperactive** » Sat Sep 17, 2011 7:16 am

my father always gives us silence treatment. i wish if he yells and get out. some times lasts couple days or a week depends if you come out and apologize to him and admit. he doesnt want to be the one opening the topic. was torture wallah.

Beans · Postby **Beans** » Sat Sep 17, 2011 7:19 am

It is cruel to begin with.It is a horrible form of punishment/way to escape a problem.

I am not sure.Maybe a day or so.I usually will end up opening the topic to get over with it.The tension and anxiety is torture and not worth the broken pride after wards.

Gatspy · Postby **Gatspy** » Sat Sep 17, 2011 7:36 am

Cruel and terrible punishment, try to put an end to it as soon as u can Zingii.

zingii · Postby **zingii** » Sat Sep 17, 2011 7:56 am

its been close to a week now and am still in no talking tarms with someone very close to me.

it feels as if my communication part of the brain just shat dead.

Navy9 · Postby **Navy9** » Sat Sep 17, 2011 8:23 am

Saying I am sorry, would not kill you, just say it

Salah Al-Din · Postby **Salah Al-Din** » Sat Sep 17, 2011 8:28 am

Zingii,

Are you trying to condition your wife? When she does something right, you praise her. When she does something you don't want you keep quiet? She’s not a pet you know.

It is not healthy. Issues are best discussed. Even if you don't agree, you've conveyed your point across and you can come to some equitable solution. Don't focus on what happened, but how to proceed going forward. Looking for solutions is better than dwelling on the conflict that has already occurred.

zingii · Postby **zingii** » Sat Sep 17, 2011 8:29 am

Saying I am sorry, would not kill you, just say it

i am part of the problem but this person did something i never expected them
to do. they did it so to piss me off and at the same time challenge my leadership
and athority.

zingii · Postby **zingii** » Sat Sep 17, 2011 9:02 am

Zingii,

Are you trying to condition your wife? When she does something right, you praise her. When she does something you don't want you keep quiet? She’s not a pet you know.

It is not healthy. Issues are best discussed. Even if you don't agree, you've conveyed your point across and you can come to some equitable solution. Don't focus on what happened, but how to proceed going forward. Looking for solutions is better than dwelling on the conflict that has already occurred.

You might be on to something here buddy.

are you saying by any chance that there are
ways to condition a grown person?

if so, how do you go about it?

samadoon-waaxid · Postby **samadoon-waaxid** » Sat Sep 17, 2011 10:22 am

it looks like Zingi is having a coolpoison moment with his wifey.war islaanta uu raaxey.she will talk to u

Estarix · Postby **Estarix** » Sat Sep 17, 2011 10:23 am

As long as your pride allows you to.

Alphanumeric · Postby **Alphanumeric** » Sat Sep 17, 2011 3:39 pm

Depends. I'm counting 2 years.

Beans · Postby **Beans** » Sat Sep 17, 2011 3:42 pm

Depends. I'm counting 2 years.

For real? Wow.

For people close to me;two days would feel like a lifetime.

DropkickMurphy · Postby **DropkickMurphy** » Sat Sep 17, 2011 3:52 pm

lol@coolpoison moment.

there should be no ignoring each other man. but u zingi u should live with it. u have made the mistake from the get-go. u didn't set boundaries.

Alphanumeric · Postby **Alphanumeric** » Sat Sep 17, 2011 3:54 pm

Beans, I'm weird and challenged. Kinda wish I wasn't.

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