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Re: Silent Treatment.

Postby Enlightened~Sista » Sun Sep 18, 2011 1:07 pm

Communication is the key. And please don't divorce like this idiot abdalla is telling you, we already have way too much divorces in our community isu dulqaata :down:

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Re: Silent Treatment.

Postby Saraxnow » Sun Sep 18, 2011 1:25 pm

Saying I am sorry, would not kill you, just say it :)
i am part of the problem but this person did something i never expected them
to do. they did it so to piss me off and at the same time challenge my leadership
and athority.
:lol: you graduated from Kacaanka schools of thought

:lol: :lol: :lol:

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Re: Silent Treatment.

Postby Saraxnow » Sun Sep 18, 2011 1:28 pm

Don't divorce her. Abdalla, what kind of an advice is that, fear Allah trying to break homes :down:

@Zingii, just apologize. Or get her a gift instead. Break the silence now before it gets too long and worsens.

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Re: Silent Treatment.

Postby abdalla11 » Sun Sep 18, 2011 1:46 pm

Communication is the key. And please don't divorce like this idiot abdalla is telling you, we already have way too much divorces in our community isu dulqaata :down:
LOL@please. If the brother isn't happy then the best thing is to try find ur luck with someone else

cayda ma fiicna :down:

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Re: Silent Treatment.

Postby haxxor » Sun Sep 18, 2011 2:08 pm

I've reached almost first year of no talking with my classmate. It was a torture for me and it was also a torture for her as well. I almost can see her giving up soon...
If you are mad at the person its not hard to do, never be the first to break it.
lol @ the two of you. :lol:
What's so funny about this? I actually agree with Greenday. Never be the first to break the silence if you're not one who caused the silent treatment to happen.

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Re: Silent Treatment.

Postby Enlightened~Sista » Sun Sep 18, 2011 3:35 pm

Communication is the key. And please don't divorce like this idiot abdalla is telling you, we already have way too much divorces in our community isu dulqaata :down:
LOL@please. If the brother isn't happy then the best thing is to try find ur luck with someone else

cayda ma fiicna :down:

Bal dhaandhankan eega

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Re: Silent Treatment.

Postby abdalla11 » Sun Sep 18, 2011 3:59 pm

Oo yaa kusoo furay? You're too emotional about this subject :?

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Re: Silent Treatment.

Postby Enlightened~Sista » Sun Sep 18, 2011 4:44 pm

Adigu ma is aragtid? :? advising someone to divorce their pregnant wife

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Re: Silent Treatment.

Postby Hargaysa1982 » Sun Sep 18, 2011 4:47 pm

For dudes I thought the silent treatment was like a vacation for their ears eh?...Women are always blah blah blah and nagging according to you guys so shouldn't you be enjoying the silence?

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Re: Silent Treatment.

Postby abdalla11 » Sun Sep 18, 2011 5:09 pm

Pregnant? I was talking in general sense, if it doesn't work, it just doesn't work. The nine months of pregnancy is alway an exception to the rule.

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Re: Silent Treatment.

Postby Xamud. » Sun Sep 18, 2011 6:18 pm

I dont understand men who are in constant feud with their wifes, I mean I might not have first hand experience on this issue, but atleast the men in my family who are married all have a very stable relationship with their wifes, this might be because most of them are alpha males and they tend to set a very strong foundation before they tie the knot, but a man should be in charge of the relationship, it should never come to long lasting feuds, bickering here and there maybe, but thats how far it should go. If she is upset or mad, leave and then come back and sort it out, if it continues then just tell her it aint working for you.

Good luck eitherway Zingii.
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Re: Silent Treatment.

Postby Lillaahiya » Sun Sep 18, 2011 6:19 pm

There are better ways of resolving an issue. Silent treatments walaga weynaada.

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Re: Silent Treatment.

Postby zingii » Mon Sep 19, 2011 7:35 pm

face to face conversation took place which went down south.
it was decided that it bee ended.

both parties stood their ground without any concession
to the other party.

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Re: Silent Treatment.

Postby Xamud. » Mon Sep 19, 2011 7:46 pm

face to face conversation took place which went down south.
it was decided that it bee ended.

both parties stood their ground without any concession
to the other party.
Am sorry to hear that my friend :down: so are you getting a divorce?

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Re: Silent Treatment.

Postby Enlightened~Sista » Mon Sep 19, 2011 7:48 pm

What is to be ended, the silent treatment or the marriage?


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