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What he doesn't know wont hurt him.

Would you have wondered HOW-do-you-tell-her' if it was him cheating?

As Hadrawi said..

"Dadku yuu ku eedayn
Ha dhex gelin ammuuraha
Isha xidho afkana dhawr
Arag maqal warkana ood."

bro, you dont know for sure she is cheating , nin bey la so'otay isnt ligit accusation of a sin. is haraam to slander people. hadadan arag ayago intercourse sameyneysa, you dont know. marka Allah ka baq reeraha amoorahooda ka dehbah.


i like this; ninkan hikmad badana.


"Dadku yuu ku eedayn
Ha dhex gelin ammuuraha
Isha xidho afkana dhawr
Arag maqal warkana ood."

Damn no easy way, just tell him straight out, the bitch is playing your ass nicca, haadu is walwalo oo daho bullshidh like "war your just jealous of what we have" dharbaxyee and tell him nicca please, am just looking out for you.

loool that is how i will do it haduu hadalka badiyo hal teesto ka gal just to make sure his head is out his ars loool

plus before u i do tell him i will goto the bytch and tell her listen am snitching on ur ars or u go tell him

That's the worst advice ever, ciyaal_warta. She decided to cheat on her man so do you think that she'll just run & tell him that she was cheating on him just like that?

Him telling her either to tell her husband about her infidelity or he'll do it will only give her another chance to play better game & will turn her husband against him.

The easiest she can do is get to her husband before he does & tell him that his friend was hitting on her. Do you think what that will do? Do you think his friend (the husband) will believe that his wife was cheating on him after what she told him about him (the friend)?

bro, you dont know for sure she is cheating , nin bey la so'otay isnt ligit accusation of a sin. is haraam to slander people. hadadan arag ayago intercourse sameyneysa, you dont know. marka Allah ka baq reeraha amoorahooda ka dehbah.


i like this; ninkan hikmad badana.


"Dadku yuu ku eedayn
Ha dhex gelin ammuuraha
Isha xidho afkana dhawr
Arag maqal warkana ood."

bro, you dont know for sure she is cheating , nin bey la so'otay isnt ligit accusation of a sin. is haraam to slander people. hadadan arag ayago intercourse sameyneysa, you dont know. marka Allah ka baq reeraha amoorahooda ka dehbah.


i like this; ninkan hikmad badana.


"Dadku yuu ku eedayn
Ha dhex gelin ammuuraha
Isha xidho afkana dhawr
Arag maqal warkana ood."

Indeed, samadoon mind ur own busin!

According to shariica unless you can bring 4 witnesses to the zina then you are the one that get's punished because that's called slander (even if you're telling the truth).

So my advice is keep your mouth shut and do not expose the sins of a fellow muslim/muslimah. Allah will either guide her back or he will eventually expose her for what she is. But that is none of your business.

How do you know? Did you catch them on act?

I am with the people that says leave this alone. This is none of your business.

subxaan allah... so many people here love fasaad !

Don't listen to these ppl. If you're 100% sure, how can you not tell your friend if his wife is cheating on him. What kind of friendship is that?

Just write an anonymous letter that says: keep an eye on your wife dude! If you know the guy she's cheating with than put all his info in that letter.

BTW I find flirting harmless if you caught her shukaansing caadi waaye, little flirting is acceptable.

Somalis just jump into conclusion.

Wallahi thats a tough one


Damned if u do damned if u don't camal. Still though I would advice You to ascertain two things:

His sensitivity
Your relationship how real is it? Unless You Guys are really tight I wouldn't say it.

tell him someone poked his wife on facebook.

Don't listen to these ppl. If you're 100% sure, how can you not tell your friend if his wife is cheating on him. What kind of friendship is that?

Just write an anonymous letter that says: keep an eye on your wife dude! If you know the guy she's cheating with than put all his info in that letter.

tell em man.. apparently those people are very fond of fasaad and radeelah thats why they cover up.

That's the worst advice ever, ciyaal_warta. She decided to cheat on her man so do you think that she'll just run & tell him that she was cheating on him just like that?

Him telling her either to tell her husband about her infidelity or he'll do it will only give her another chance to play better game & will turn her husband against him.

The easiest she can do is get to her husband before he does & tell him that his friend was hitting on her. Do you think what that will do? Do you think his friend (the husband) will believe that his wife was cheating on him after what she told him about him (the friend)?

yap u are right i didnt look it from that angle man....my new upgraded version 2.0 advice is if u care about ur friend go tell him or take him to the place she is hiding with other man let him see

Don't listen to these ppl. If you're 100% sure, how can you not tell your friend if his wife is cheating on him. What kind of friendship is that?

Just write an anonymous letter that says: keep an eye on your wife dude! If you know the guy she's cheating with than put all his info in that letter.

tell em man.. apparently those people are very fond of fasaad and radeelah thats why they cover up.

Excuse me? Warya get us a proof from the Quran or Sunnah where you expose the sins of another Muslim when it is hidden from most people. If you are not going to advise that Muslim then you have no other business in their private business. Furthermore, you are risking breaking a marriage and peoples homes. Accusation without proof is slander, and the punishment for slandering a Sister is 80 ashes on the accusers a**, if I recall.