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getting a long and are constantly in disagreement about everything what should you do?

should you try to bring them on the table and try to mediate them or you just don't bother and do nothing?

good suggestions will be appreciated. caqli ka maqan walaalkaada ayuu ku jiraa.

Considering you are an adult yourself, I suggest you get all the men of the house and bring the two brothers to the table. Let the animosity die once and for all because cuqdad within family is hard to overcome and not to mention it ruins the familial ties. But I wonder what makes two brothers to hate each other so much?

Don't try to squeeze in where you can't fit.

Look for 2nd adeer or 3rd adeer or Close Clan members and call for Gar to resolve the problem. Tell them am tired of this two old rugs fighting maantoodhan. bal wixii ay kala haystaan toloow halayla arko.

thank you all for your suggestions.

metamorphosis,

they don't really hate each other per say but they just can't get a long with each other. each one blames the other for their never-ending quarrels. i talked to my dad couple of times about this and each occasion he told me that i was too naive to think that something i said could make him change what he thinks about his younger brother. i haven't spoken to my uncle yet because i fear that he might say i am siding with my dad.
i thought about consulting with older people from our extended family but i don't want other people to know that my dad and my uncle are not getting along well. for me, it is kinda embarrassing to make that public. only very close relatives know this and they don't like to get involved because both are very stubborn.

help ur dad by stabbing ur uncle

don't do anything, just make sure u and ur brother not be the same in future.

Talk to both of them. Make them understand that this is hurting you. Also make puppy-dog eyes, it always works for me.

Good Luck..

getting a long and are constantly in disagreement about everything what should you do?

should you try to bring them on the table and try to mediate them or you just don't bother and do nothing?

good suggestions will be appreciated. caqli ka maqan walaalkaada ayuu ku jiraa.

What you should do is mind your own business. Trust me on this bro sometimes being an outsider looking in to the matter, you only know what's displayed in front of you which is only the surface of they're problem. You really don't know the depth of they're arguments, I wouldn't add yourself to the equation.

getting a long and are constantly in disagreement about everything what should you do?

should you try to bring them on the table and try to mediate them or you just don't bother and do nothing?

good suggestions will be appreciated. caqli ka maqan walaalkaada ayuu ku jiraa.

What you should do is mind your own business. Trust me on this bro sometimes being an outsider looking in to the matter, you only know what's displayed in front of you which is only the surface of they're problem. You really don't know the depth of they're arguments, I wouldn't add yourself to the equation.

yeah exactly that's what my dad tells me all the time---you don't know the depth of the problems.

i guess i should mind my own business. well we will see what happens!

hopefully they're short coming feud will settle.

hopefully they're short coming feud will settle.

insha allah, i hope so too bro.

leave them sort out the difference but funny is those that take sides with their father rather than watching from a distance.