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Is feminism just as dangerous as other anti islamic groups?

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Re: Is feminism just as dangerous as other anti islamic grou

Postby Rainbows » Mon Jan 16, 2012 10:47 am

gedo_gurl wrote:Coues, if I was stronger than you and started inserting things into your anus, without your consent...violating you, that would be rape. If two people are married also, and one person forcibly enters the other, intentionally harming them/'having sex with them' against their will...that is rape. Even if a woman sees a drunk man in a party and starts touching him, putting things in his anus etc while he cannot defend himself/is unaware...that is rape. Laws against rape protect potential rapists like you too. I hope you arent one of those men who thinks its OK to rape his wife/women in a miniskirt/drunk woman/a captive in a war etc. What is your definition of rape?



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Re: Is feminism just as dangerous as other anti islamic grou

Postby Alphanumeric » Mon Jan 16, 2012 10:52 am

only gedo_gurl could come up with something like that lol.

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Re: Is feminism just as dangerous as other anti islamic grou

Postby Rainbows » Mon Jan 16, 2012 10:52 am

Alphanumeric wrote:only gedo_gurl could come up with something like that lol.


Funniest shit ever. :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:

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Re: Is feminism just as dangerous as other anti islamic grou

Postby BlackVelvet » Mon Jan 16, 2012 12:10 pm

Alpha one is forcing someone to do something when they don't want to, the other is changing someone's mind about something.

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Re: Is feminism just as dangerous as other anti islamic grou

Postby Alphanumeric » Mon Jan 16, 2012 12:21 pm

BlackVelvet wrote:Alpha one is forcing someone to do something when they don't want to, the other is changing someone's mind about something.


Then "pressure" here would be a forced act of intercourse? Isn't that then rape?

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Re: Is feminism just as dangerous as other anti islamic grou

Postby BlackVelvet » Mon Jan 16, 2012 12:31 pm

Alphanumeric wrote:a forced act of intercourse


That is rape. I don't know what you're asking.

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Re: Is feminism just as dangerous as other anti islamic grou

Postby grandpakhalif » Mon Jan 16, 2012 12:34 pm

guys why is this an argument if your wife refuses to sleep with you then the angels and even Allah will curse her and I can bring sahih hadiths for this. Let these women wallow in their new found freedom.

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Re: Is feminism just as dangerous as other anti islamic grou

Postby Nanees » Mon Jan 16, 2012 12:35 pm

Alfs, this is the difference:

BlackVelvet wrote:What a sad existence having to pressure your own wife into sleeping with you.


"Baby i dont want to tonight"
"Ya habiibi its been 6 months how long is your period."
"It's over but Im not in the mood."
"Habibi how can you not be in the mood but everytime i see you im overwhelmed with desire."
"How can you put that on me i'm in a baati with suugo stains and I havent combed my hair since the nikax"
"Habiibi if you step into the mud with your nikes they're still nikes, its you that i love and am attracted to, not your adornments"
"Oh baby... lets do it on the fadhi carbeeyd"

BlackVelvet wrote: All I would say is the solution to this is not rape or bullying. If you cannot sweet talk, charm, persuade your wife to sleep with you then maybe there are classes one can sign up for. If she does not under any circumstances want you anywhere near her then leave her.


"Baby i dont want to tonight"
"Ya habiibi it's been 6 months how long is your period."
"I dont know how to tell you this, but i'm just not attracted to you."
Now you can force it or you can leaver it. Only one of the options is correct.

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Re: Is feminism just as dangerous as other anti islamic grou

Postby Keyblade » Mon Jan 16, 2012 12:41 pm

Nanees wrote:Alfs, this is the difference:

BlackVelvet wrote:What a sad existence having to pressure your own wife into sleeping with you.


"Baby i dont want to tonight"
"Ya habiibi its been 6 months how long is your period."
"It's over but Im not in the mood."
"Habibi how can you not be in the mood but everytime i see you im overwhelmed with desire."
"How can you put that on me i'm in a baati with suugo stains and I havent combed my hair since the nikax"
"Habiibi if you step into the mud with your nikes they're still nikes, its you that i love and am attracted to, not your adornments"
"Oh baby... lets do it on the fadhi carbeeyd"

BlackVelvet wrote: All I would say is the solution to this is not rape or bullying. If you cannot sweet talk, charm, persuade your wife to sleep with you then maybe there are classes one can sign up for. If she does not under any circumstances want you anywhere near her then leave her.


"Baby i dont want to tonight"
"Ya habiibi it's been 6 months how long is your period."
"I dont know how to tell you this, but i'm just not attracted to you."
Now you can force it or you can leaver it. Only one of the options is correct.

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Re: Is feminism just as dangerous as other anti islamic grou

Postby Alphanumeric » Mon Jan 16, 2012 12:42 pm

BlackVelvet wrote:
Alphanumeric wrote:a forced act of intercourse


That is rape. I don't know what you're asking.


My point is, you argued that emotional abuse is domestic violence, but cannot be classed as rape. If "pressure" through psychological and emotional abuse in order to manufacture consent for sex cannot be classed as rape, then what did you mean by "pressure"? Would this be a physical act?

Don't get me wrong, I'm not here to debate, but simply to understand what responsibilities I would have as a husband. I would never want to jeopardize the emotional or psychological stability of my wife. If I learnt I had, I'm not sure how I would respond to it.

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Re: Is feminism just as dangerous as other anti islamic grou

Postby BlackVelvet » Mon Jan 16, 2012 12:57 pm

Alpha why are you trying to put me on the spot? I think you get it you just want me to spell it out for you. Well, can you understand the difference between a man forcing/pressuring a woman to sleep with him and a man who seduces his wife into his bed? That's the difference.

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Re: Is feminism just as dangerous as other anti islamic grou

Postby Alphanumeric » Mon Jan 16, 2012 12:59 pm

I didn't intend to put you on the spot. I meant what I said, but I'll drop it.

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Re: Is feminism just as dangerous as other anti islamic grou

Postby Coeus » Mon Jan 16, 2012 2:14 pm

Like grandpakhalif said, there are hadiths supporting this.


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