Avicenna » Sat Jan 28, 2012 1:59 pm
Think of this experience as a blessing in disguise and as a second chance at a real relationship, with someone more worthy of your affections, if those affections were sincere to begin with. But, if this was more about getting her to sleep with you and you're pissed because she picked some other dude to go to bed with, then I don't see the point of this thread. Not all women are the same and I don't think it's fair to paint them all in the same light. Every woman has her own (individual) reasons for the decisions she makes and a lot of times, it's not even about being vindictive. It's usually out of fear or distrust, because they are easily susceptible to preying more than men. Women have little choice but to rely on their instincts when it comes to their second gueses about guys. And yes, it's possible to be strictly friends or even pen pals with a girl, and not want anything more than that. There are really good women out there who make great friends or even future mates. Don't let this experience make you hasten to generalize all women. Maybe it was more about you and your approach to it. Shit happens, move on and learn from this. There's probably a lesson in it for you. Best regards and don't try to mislead anyone, make it known (whatever the intention) from the beginning.
THATS MORE LIKE IT REAL TALK THNKS