This Quraan Ayah - Do really have obey the men today?

[qoraxeey]

"Men are protector of women because God has made them excel over the other, and because they spend their property on women, so good women are obedient (to their husband) and guard their modesty. As for whom you fear rebellion, admonish them, and then banish them from your bed (i.e., do not sleep with them), or beat them (lightly). If they obey you, then seek not a way against them, God is ever High and Exalted" (4:34)

today mordern times .. men dont spend any money / property on their wifes/women

women have their own money

what do you people say ??

Im gonna ask this question to a imam / sheikh in my family

[VeiledGarbasar]

Haa...iska sameeya wuxu ninka kugu dhaho.

Naagahaan madax adiga ee ku dhinteen these days.

Its not like his going to say anything major anyways, it will be like yeah you can't go out that day I want you to stay home. Silly stuff like that.

[Basra-]

Personally, i take offence to this quote.

'admonish them, and then banish them from your bed (i.e., do not sleep with them"


AS IF'...... Sex is more important to us than men. We all know--who wants it more-- men or women. In fact, we usually use sex as a leverage bargain. Paaleeease. On the 'light' beating, i wish it could be more like medium to heavy beating for my sexual gratification.

[FAH1223]

"Men are protector of women because God has made them excel over the other, and because they spend their property on women, so good women are obedient (to their husband) and guard their modesty. As for whom you fear rebellion, admonish them, and then banish them from your bed (i.e., do not sleep with them), or beat them (lightly). If they obey you, then seek not a way against them, God is ever High and Exalted" (4:34)

today mordern times .. men dont spend any money / property on their wifes/women

women have their own money

what do you people say ??

Im gonna ask this question to a imam / sheikh in my family

speak for yourself

[qoraxeey]

maaxaa ka wada speak for your self ...im not married

[MrSinister]

There is a lot of wisdom in the quran, and the obligation of women to obey men is one such wisdom. if properly followed, there would be less divorce in this world. so ladies, obey your husbands no matter what, if you want a good marriage.

[DR-YALAXOOW]

quran 2.223

Your women are your fields, so go into your fields whichever way you like

Naagtaada waa sida beertaada oo kale Dhinacaa doontid ayaad ka gali kartaa
thanks to allah allah we men gave us lot of power

our women is like our fields you can come and go every direction you wish.

ALLAHUU AKBAAAAR

[DisplacedDiraac]

today mordern times .. men dont spend any money / property on their wifes/women

You'd be surprised at the amount who do..
Men aint all useless.

I'm a firm believer in.. If you're a housewife and you have a great husband marka cater to him, ma3aal take his shoes off and untie his shoe laces once in a while.. Minus making shaah.

[Beans]

today mordern times .. men dont spend any money / property on their wifes/women

You'd be surprised at the amount who do..
Men aint all useless.

I'm a firm believer in.. If you're a housewife and you have a great husband marka cater to him, ma3aal take his shoes off and untie his shoe laces once in a while.. Minus making shaah.

What do u have against the shaah?

Men have more responsibilities than "power'"

Wouldnt wanna be one for sure.

[DisplacedDiraac]

I cant stand the smell.. Plus I dont like making anything I dont like to eat/drink

Men have more responsibilities than "power'"

Wouldnt wanna be one for sure.

I always thought you was a niin..

[Alphanumeric]

*makes a cupof shah, just to spite west*

-_-

[Beans]

I cant stand the smell.. Plus I dont like making anything I dont like to eat/drink

Men have more responsibilities than "power'"

Wouldnt wanna be one for sure.

I always thought you was a niin..

I am very much naag.Like over 80%

[DisplacedDiraac]

*makes a cupof shah, just to spite west*

-_-

Heey its bless as long as I aint making it..

[Alphanumeric]

I cant stand the smell.. Plus I dont like making anything I dont like to eat/drink

Men have more responsibilities than "power'"

Wouldnt wanna be one for sure.

I always thought you was a niin..

I am very much naag.Like over 80% [/quote]



west, i hope it wafts in your direction

[DisplacedDiraac]

I am very much naag.Like over 80%

What's the remainder? Empty space ama gabadh..