Do you dislike dacwa in general?im not xaasid. i just believe the diin is personal. and people who become "religious" have this holier than thou attitude that i dislike. nothing annoys me more than a former convict turned religious who now thinks he is qualified to give dacwa and lecture ppl. not to imply all religious ppl are that way.Sinister, stop being xaasid. If you want to get there and commit, act on it.
On the arrogant attitude part, I see where you're coming from but not everyone agrees that it's only personal and for good reasons too. Dacwa is everybody's business, it's never fair to keep what good you have from others. But I agree, character comes first otherwise their dacwa may fall on deaf ears and put people off.