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Re: wallahi if i was a dude and my fiancee wanted a $$$ wedd

Posted: Tue Feb 14, 2012 7:06 pm
by The_Patriot

Re: wallahi if i was a dude and my fiancee wanted a $$$ wedd

Posted: Tue Feb 14, 2012 7:08 pm
by VeiledGarbasar

what is with you and attacking somali dudes? :|

if suddenly riba is haram, 40k can get a nice place in malaysia :up:

g'luck raising kids in govt housing

Loool, no always the best Somali guys. :rose:

$40,000k malayasia? I doubt it, but if it did cost that much, I would seriously consider it, I always loved that country.

Waarya I was raised in one, and I am doing fine. My area is very good Alhamdulilah. And I never wanted to live in this country long term 5 years max, I always wanted to move back home, or somewhere safe and nice. :up:

Shirib,

You never mentioned a World around cruise, if most guys were that imaginative, most us girls would ask for a tufax as mehr. :up: :mrgreen:

Re: wallahi if i was a dude and my fiancee wanted a $$$ wedd

Posted: Tue Feb 14, 2012 7:09 pm
by Shirib
Shirib if one wants to have an extravagant wedding like that, he/she needs to be smart about everything that they r doing. For example, I'm planning to rent my dress inshallah. What's the use of buying a dress that you will wear only one night!!! Doqonimo hooyadeed Iyo aabaheed tan samaysaa sidaas!! Teeda kale, I would have a buffet style type of dinner because serving and ordering extremely nice dishes r hella expesive. I would ask really good cooks in my family and friends to make their best dishes and tell them to make American desserts!!! Etc. Who says one cant have a nice wedding?? You just got to know who to hire...connections r important as well. For example, I'm related and have ties with several singers!!! Go figure :D
If u have all these connections, why the hell does it still cost so much?

Re: wallahi if i was a dude and my fiancee wanted a $$$ wedd

Posted: Tue Feb 14, 2012 7:13 pm
by Alphanumeric

what is with you and attacking somali dudes? :|

if suddenly riba is haram, 40k can get a nice place in malaysia :up:

g'luck raising kids in govt housing

Loool, no always the best Somali guys. :rose:

$40,000k malayasia? I doubt it, but if it did cost that much, I would seriously consider it, I always loved that country.

Waarya I was raised in one, and I am doing fine. My area is very good Alhamdulilah. And I never wanted to live in this country long term 5 years max, I always wanted to move back home, or somewhere safe and nice. :up:
if you have a long term goal, why not consider that, instead of jeopardizing it by showing off for folks who hate you? :|

Re: wallahi if i was a dude and my fiancee wanted a $$$ wedd

Posted: Tue Feb 14, 2012 7:22 pm
by Shirib
Warsan,

you gotta forgo the extravagant wedding to do the word tour. :up:

Re: wallahi if i was a dude and my fiancee wanted a $$$ wedd

Posted: Tue Feb 14, 2012 7:24 pm
by VeiledGarbasar
People who hate me? :o You must be kidding, family and friends and qaraabo now hate me? :lol: Most of the people at my wedding would be relatives. I wanted me and my future hubby (months after we marry, so kinda like straight away) to go to a rich Arab gulf state, work there for like 3 years, they don't have taxes. We would save crazy money there, and they provide accommodation and all of that. My friend saved $10,000 from 6months of work. We combine our wealth and start business in Africa. :) So, tbh, even if I had a wedding, it wouldn't be a problem. :up:


Shirib,

He needs to say that. Can you imagine if like Alpha said, I go to the guy and say lets buy a house in Malaysia instead of a wedding, he probably would think I'm ripping him off. :? But World tour is hot, I always wanted one. :up:

Re: wallahi if i was a dude and my fiancee wanted a $$$ wedd

Posted: Tue Feb 14, 2012 7:29 pm
by Alphanumeric
veiled, whatever works for you sis. hope the best and easiest route for you. hope you'll make a brother happy. :up:

*bows*

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Re: wallahi if i was a dude and my fiancee wanted a $$$ wedd

Posted: Tue Feb 14, 2012 7:38 pm
by OliveOil
Shirib if one wants to have an extravagant wedding like that, he/she needs to be smart about everything that they r doing. For example, I'm planning to rent my dress inshallah. What's the use of buying a dress that you will wear only one night!!! Doqonimo hooyadeed Iyo aabaheed tan samaysaa sidaas!! Teeda kale, I would have a buffet style type of dinner because serving and ordering extremely nice dishes r hella expesive. I would ask really good cooks in my family and friends to make their best dishes and tell them to make American desserts!!! Etc. Who says one cant have a nice wedding?? You just got to know who to hire...connections r important as well. For example, I'm related and have ties with several singers!!! Go figure :D
If u have all these connections, why the hell does it still cost so much?

The venue, meher, soriyo, and the apartment furnitures r expensive plus I want to vaca with him to the hajj and all over Europe Inshallah to introduce each other to our family members and stuff :mrgreen:

Re: wallahi if i was a dude and my fiancee wanted a $$$ wedd

Posted: Tue Feb 14, 2012 7:40 pm
by Shirib
Shirib if one wants to have an extravagant wedding like that, he/she needs to be smart about everything that they r doing. For example, I'm planning to rent my dress inshallah. What's the use of buying a dress that you will wear only one night!!! Doqonimo hooyadeed Iyo aabaheed tan samaysaa sidaas!! Teeda kale, I would have a buffet style type of dinner because serving and ordering extremely nice dishes r hella expesive. I would ask really good cooks in my family and friends to make their best dishes and tell them to make American desserts!!! Etc. Who says one cant have a nice wedding?? You just got to know who to hire...connections r important as well. For example, I'm related and have ties with several singers!!! Go figure :D
If u have all these connections, why the hell does it still cost so much?

The venue, meher, soriyo, and the apartment furnitures r expensive plus I want to vaca with him to the hajj and all over Europe Inshallah to introduce each other to our family members and stuff :mrgreen:
and how much capital are u putting up for all this?

Re: wallahi if i was a dude and my fiancee wanted a $$$ wedd

Posted: Tue Feb 14, 2012 7:41 pm
by OliveOil
People who hate me? :o You must be kidding, family and friends and qaraabo now hate me? :lol: Most of the people at my wedding would be relatives. I wanted me and my future hubby (months after we marry, so kinda like straight away) to go to a rich Arab gulf state, work there for like 3 years, they don't have taxes. We would save crazy money there, and they provide accommodation and all of that. My friend saved $10,000 from 6months of work. We combine our wealth and start business in Africa. :) So, tbh, even if I had a wedding, it wouldn't be a problem :up:
EXACTLY!!!! :up:

Re: wallahi if i was a dude and my fiancee wanted a $$$ wedd

Posted: Tue Feb 14, 2012 7:42 pm
by OliveOil
I will not exceed 10 inshallah

Re: wallahi if i was a dude and my fiancee wanted a $$$ wedd

Posted: Tue Feb 14, 2012 7:44 pm
by Shirib
I will not exceed 10 inshallah
and what's the total estimate for everything?

Re: wallahi if i was a dude and my fiancee wanted a $$$ wedd

Posted: Tue Feb 14, 2012 7:53 pm
by Beans
Marriage keeps losing.

Re: wallahi if i was a dude and my fiancee wanted a $$$ wedd

Posted: Tue Feb 14, 2012 8:12 pm
by FAH1223
Marriage keeps losing.
totally bogs you down

single life :up:

Re: wallahi if i was a dude and my fiancee wanted a $$$ wedd

Posted: Tue Feb 14, 2012 8:17 pm
by Beans
Marriage keeps losing.
totally bogs you down

single life :up:

How long can a Somali :up: single life for?