I just don`t understand Women

Postby **Xamud.** » Sat Feb 25, 2012 8:50 pm

Now its not everyday I start a relationship thread, but I just feeling like venting caawa. I dont understand women, Somali women at that, I thought I did, but it seems like they are all the same, they all got 50 different personality....one second they are texting you and calling you like crazy...and then all of a sudden they go loco and start talking about feelings bla bla....they all want you to tell them "I like you, I love you, I wanna spend the rest of my days with you" and if you give in to their emotional demands your fucked and you dont your "playing them" theres nothing in between miyaa? cant we just ride it out and see where it takes us

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Beans · Postby **Beans** » Sat Feb 25, 2012 8:54 pm

Women are like that.There is no cure.

fighter · Postby **fighter** » Sat Feb 25, 2012 8:57 pm

They are on their periods half the time and pms.

They are a headache. Once I had to take a family member to the hospital after an emergency and had to cut my chilling time with a female. Wasn't a date in my eyes.

She sends me a 1000 word essay on email how it was rude to cut our "date" short (it was 2hrs).

Stupid girl. Some need help.

Protagonist · Postby **Protagonist** » Sat Feb 25, 2012 8:58 pm

Postby **Xamud.** » Sat Feb 25, 2012 9:07 pm

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Postby **Xamud.** » Sat Feb 25, 2012 9:07 pm

Women are like that.There is no cure.

Women are headach, I just realized, you can`t win with them.

Fighter
Sxb weey walaanyihin. When you first meet them some will tell you "your not my type" others will ignore you and tell you "Am in a relationship" dont get me wrong, I thrive on the chasing, but when you finally win them over, they want you to break the ice and go all emotional with them, tell them you love them and shidh, and if you dont, they will start acting all hard to get all over again

Am not trying to act like a hard guy here, but expressing feelings is not something all guys are good at, all that emotional crap belongs in a hindi movie not in reality

Alphanumeric · Postby **Alphanumeric** » Sat Feb 25, 2012 9:12 pm

You need to be very clear and direct. Any room for ambiguity will be filled with meaning that shouldn't be there. Be concise about intention. You need to be exact in your choice of words.

You learn that the hard way.

Beans · Postby **Beans** » Sat Feb 25, 2012 9:14 pm

Communication communication Xamud.If u two are grown adults who want a future with each other,u need to have open dialogue.

U mentioned feeling,do u think she might been scared by them and is waiting it out to see what it means?

miskeen86 · Postby **miskeen86** » Sat Feb 25, 2012 9:28 pm

Postby **Xamud.** » Sat Feb 25, 2012 9:28 pm

You need to be very clear and direct. Any room for ambiguity will be filled with meaning that shouldn't be there. Be concise about intention. You need to be exact in your choice of words.

You learn that the hard way.

Define being clear and direct? perhaps they want you to play romeo and juliet with them all the time, beside as soon as a girl starts calling you, and texting you, and she ditches her friends to meet you, its all over, no need to act like your hard to get when I already got you.

Communication communication Xamud.If u two are grown adults who want a future with each other,u need to have open dialogue.

U mentioned feeling,do u think she might been scared by them and is waiting it out to see what it means?

Nah Beans, I learned early that your never suppose to show girls to much emotions or tell them you like them to quickly, I know guys who spend a fortune on buying girls gifts and shit only to be cut off after 3-4 months when they have sucked all the attention out of them.

I never tell them "I got feelings for you" that will put you down in the long run.

Twist · Postby **Twist** » Sat Feb 25, 2012 9:30 pm

This is women for you:

Beans · Postby **Beans** » Sat Feb 25, 2012 9:33 pm

Relationships=mind games?

I dont understand how being honest with ur feelings can be considered a weakness.

Postby **Xamud.** » Sat Feb 25, 2012 9:33 pm

@ Twist

Thank god I never stay long enough to be put in the "friend zone" I can easily say I have never been in the friend zone

Postby **Xamud.** » Sat Feb 25, 2012 9:40 pm

I agree all relationships are mind games, and up until now I thought I mastered it.

Beans, If a guy shows emotions and tells a girl he likes her, it can either go well and she will tell him likewise, or she will act hard and tell her friends "kii baa igu so washey" am too proud to be " kan so washey" so I play it cool.

fighter · Postby **fighter** » Sat Feb 25, 2012 9:42 pm

Women are like that.There is no cure.
Women are headach, I just realized, you can`t win with them.

Fighter
Sxb weey walaanyihin. When you first meet them some will tell you "your not my type" others will ignore you and tell you "Am in a relationship" dont get me wrong, I thrive on the chasing, but when you finally win them over, they want you to break the ice and go all emotional with them, tell them you love them and shidh, and if you dont, they will start acting all hard to get all over again Am not trying to act like a hard guy here, but expressing feelings is not something all guys are good at, all that emotional crap belongs in a hindi movie not in reality

Saxiib, you are not alone. I strongly urge you to consider a Latino or Asian. No headache. No games. No lies and not Olympics mind f-king.

Seriously take this suggestion. Latinos and Asians don't play live and mind games. They have the mentality we have.

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