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HIGH-FLYING MUSLIM CAREER WOMEN WILLING TO 'SHARE HUSBANDS'

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HIGH-FLYING MUSLIM CAREER WOMEN WILLING TO 'SHARE HUSBANDS'

Postby Daanyeer » Mon Mar 12, 2012 1:19 pm

High-flying Muslim career women willing to 'share husbands' because of a lack of suitable men

By Daily Mail Reporter
PUBLISHED: 10:50 GMT, 11 March 2012 | UPDATED: 11:18 GMT, 11 March 2012

Muslim career women in Britain are choosing to become involved in polygamous relationships because of a lack of suitable men.

Some of them even choosing to become second or third wives to married men, according to the Islamic Sharia Council.

The charity, based in Britain, gives legal guidance to Muslims and has said it is receiving a high number of queries from women struggling to find suitable partners.
Many of the women have also said they would prefer to hold down high-profile jobs rather than look after their husbands.

Taking more than one wife is illegal in the UK but men marry again in a nikah religious ceremony, allowing them to take up to four wives.

Mizan Raja, 35, who organises Muslim marriages around the world, told the Sunday Times, that he has had hundreds of calls in the past six months from women asking about becoming second wives.

Mr Raja said: 'The demand for these relationships is led by the women, not the men. In one generation women have become educated, entrepreneurial and professional.

'The Muslim community is struggling with this, how do you cope with women who wear trousers?'

He said that many Muslim men just wanted a 'homemaker' and to come home to a clean house and a plate of food on the table.

He added the men didn't want the 'headache' of being in a relationship with a professional woman.
It is thought the Muslim women are also actively seeking out married men because they do not want the hassle of having to cook for their husbands after a hard day at work and are quite happy to have part-time relationships.

One woman who spoke to the Sunday Times, and asked not to be named, had an affair with a married man after divorcing her first husband.

When he offered to leave his wife she preferred to become his second wife because she did not want him 'under her shoes 24/7'.

It is thought about 12,000 brides are brought to the UK by Muslim men.

The decline in available husbands has become such a problem it is now referred to as the 'Muslim spinster crisis'.




Read more: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article ... z1ovaSGlTI

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Re: HIGH-FLYING MUSLIM CAREER WOMEN WILLING TO 'SHARE HUSBAN

Postby Thuganomics » Mon Mar 12, 2012 1:44 pm

:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:

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Re: HIGH-FLYING MUSLIM CAREER WOMEN WILLING TO 'SHARE HUSBAN

Postby Lamagoodle » Mon Mar 12, 2012 1:46 pm

I think Danyeer works for the Daily Mail. Probably, he edits the Agony Aunt and Gossip columns :lol: :lol: :lol:

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Re: HIGH-FLYING MUSLIM CAREER WOMEN WILLING TO 'SHARE HUSBAN

Postby Sealion » Mon Mar 12, 2012 1:48 pm

Polygamy might be permissible in Islam but it is something I would strongly advise any woman in my family against. These women's excuses/rationales for interloping into another's marriage are inane. And they are often interlopers, side chicks and divorcees. A lot of professional Muslim couples I know don't proscribe to traditional gender roles, they order in and eat out often (because the can afford it) or share cooking duties. They're reaching and projecting to explain away why they've been left on the shelf. I don't see why their families couldn't help orchestrate a match for them when they were young, why can't one go to school and be married? I know many such non Muslim women in graduate/professional school! Because such women have a high opinion of themselves (bad attitude) and often an undeserved sense of accomplishment for their rather mundane achievements.

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Postby PRinCeS_LicK » Mon Mar 12, 2012 1:50 pm

2nd wives should all be gathered up in a big pile and then have gasoline thrown on them while the first wife watches them burn .... :roll:

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Re: HIGH-FLYING MUSLIM CAREER WOMEN WILLING TO 'SHARE HUSBAN

Postby Thuganomics » Mon Mar 12, 2012 1:51 pm

I think Danyeer works for the Daily Mail. Probably, he edits the Agony Aunt and Gossip columns :lol: :lol: :lol:
Far from it Lams.Daanyeer mission is to show contempt and ridicule to the the Daily Mail
By only posting the most "out there stories" that this tabloid chooses to run with

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Re: HIGH-FLYING MUSLIM CAREER WOMEN WILLING TO 'SHARE HUSBAN

Postby Lamagoodle » Mon Mar 12, 2012 1:54 pm

I think Danyeer works for the Daily Mail. Probably, he edits the Agony Aunt and Gossip columns :lol: :lol: :lol:
Far from it Lams.Daanyeer mission is to show contempt and ridicule to the the Daily Mail
By only posting the most "out there stories" that this tabloid chooses to run with
I see Thuganomics. All his stories are funny. This guy is a legend. He was here in the begining of the 2000 when somalinet was in its infancy. He has not changed. He has even some copycats who have come and gone.

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Re: HIGH-FLYING MUSLIM CAREER WOMEN WILLING TO 'SHARE HUSBAN

Postby Thuganomics » Mon Mar 12, 2012 1:59 pm

I think Danyeer works for the Daily Mail. Probably, he edits the Agony Aunt and Gossip columns :lol: :lol: :lol:
Far from it Lams.Daanyeer mission is to show contempt and ridicule to the the Daily Mail
By only posting the most "out there stories" that this tabloid chooses to run with
I see Thuganomics. All his stories are funny. This guy is a legend. He was here in the begining of the 2000 when somalinet was in its infancy. He has not changed. He has even some copycats who have come and gone.
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Re: HIGH-FLYING MUSLIM CAREER WOMEN WILLING TO 'SHARE HUSBAN

Postby BlackVelvet » Mon Mar 12, 2012 2:05 pm

Halaal sperm banks.

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Re: HIGH-FLYING MUSLIM CAREER WOMEN WILLING TO 'SHARE HUSBAN

Postby PrinceDaadi » Mon Mar 12, 2012 2:20 pm

Marriage starts from two, 3 or 4 is good.

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Re: HIGH-FLYING MUSLIM CAREER WOMEN WILLING TO 'SHARE HUSBAN

Postby SultanOrder » Mon Mar 12, 2012 2:25 pm

this isn't prevalent

If your both making a combined income of 70-100k a year, why not give up 5-10k to get a part-time maid :|

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Postby bareento » Mon Mar 12, 2012 2:46 pm

:D
Takbiir!

Where are those vocal feminists!
This is like heavenlymusic to my ears!
I started the single mama business :up: now its time to upgrade to single Madaama....later to single Hajiya 8-)

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Re: HIGH-FLYING MUSLIM CAREER WOMEN WILLING TO 'SHARE HUSBAN

Postby union » Mon Mar 12, 2012 2:51 pm

:D
Takbiir!

Where are those vocal feminists!
This is like heavenlymusic to my ears!
I started the single mama business :up: now its time to upgrade to single Madaama....later to single Hajiya 8-)

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Mujahid Bareento, I came into this thread to make a strongly worded condemnation against polygamy, but never mind that this type of polygamy is indeed beautiful

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Re: HIGH-FLYING MUSLIM CAREER WOMEN WILLING TO 'SHARE HUSBAN

Postby salool » Mon Mar 12, 2012 3:36 pm

Cajiib, dumarka maxa ka si ah :o

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Re: HIGH-FLYING MUSLIM CAREER WOMEN WILLING TO 'SHARE HUSBAN

Postby Enlightened~Sista » Mon Mar 12, 2012 3:47 pm

I guess it's better than being single for the rest of your life.


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