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Re: Relationship Advice

Postby Alphanumeric » Thu Mar 22, 2012 12:00 pm

Beans wrote:It is lovely to have strangers converse with u.Mainly because they have something new to share lakiin i was asking coz u said the only time u r quite is when watching a movie.

lets say u r at home and someone else is as well,r u in constant talk with them?


Alpha What keeps u that quite,afraid u r gonna say the wrong thing? coz if it is a choice u have made to keep convos minimum,people will let u go for sure.


Unless there's an actual topic, I just have nothing to say. Usually interrupt the silence by either making a comment about whatever's going on around us, or forcibly laugh at a joke.

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Re: Relationship Advice

Postby salool » Thu Mar 22, 2012 12:06 pm

Alpha

Dont you've anything to talk about, let me give you an exampel: 2 weeks ago i went to the bank and i did't know they changed the time so i had to wait for a whole hour.Guess what onther person showed up and i asked the person since when did they change the time, he had no idea either.Without even asking him the guy started talking about why he was there and about his future plans, about his wife, their budget for a month, how much he save.That he only livid here for 2yrs..he came from pakistan.The hour flew like 5 minuts and let me tell ya he was the one that was talkinng all time.Anigu wan gurayey uun. :lol:

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Re: Relationship Advice

Postby Alphanumeric » Thu Mar 22, 2012 12:10 pm

salool wrote:Alpha

Dont you've anything to talk about, let me give you an exampel: blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah


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Re: Relationship Advice

Postby salool » Thu Mar 22, 2012 12:11 pm

Beans wrote:It is lovely to have strangers converse with u.Mainly because they have something new to share lakiin i was asking coz u said the only time u r quite is when watching a movie.

lets say u r at home and someone else is as well,r u in constant talk with them?


Alpha What keeps u that quite,afraid u r gonna say the wrong thing? coz if it is a choice u have made to keep convos minimum,people will let u go for sure.


Yes, unless i'm on the phone :?
Are pple quite in ur household, dont you guys share how ur day been when you havent seen eachother during work or school time :?

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Re: Relationship Advice

Postby salool » Thu Mar 22, 2012 12:13 pm

Alpha seek help heedhe, waxaas normal maaha :?

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Re: Relationship Advice

Postby Alphanumeric » Thu Mar 22, 2012 12:15 pm

salool wrote:Alpha seek help heedhe, waxaas normal maaha :?


My reply to what you said above would be "That's nice. :| "

I can handle a conversation as long as there's a topic, but to hear someone go on about what happened while they were in line at the bank? :down:

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Re: Relationship Advice

Postby Beans » Thu Mar 22, 2012 12:18 pm

salool wrote:
Beans wrote:It is lovely to have strangers converse with u.Mainly because they have something new to share lakiin i was asking coz u said the only time u r quite is when watching a movie.

lets say u r at home and someone else is as well,r u in constant talk with them?


Alpha What keeps u that quite,afraid u r gonna say the wrong thing? coz if it is a choice u have made to keep convos minimum,people will let u go for sure.


Yes, unless i'm on the phone :?
Are pple quite in ur household, dont you guys share how ur day been when you havent seen eachother during work or school time :?



Not for the whole time we r together.That sounds very exhausting.

We talk but not all the while for sure and i cant even imagine talking non stop.

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Re: Relationship Advice

Postby Hyperactive » Thu Mar 22, 2012 12:40 pm

salool wrote:
hyperactive wrote:im for that, having kids with no naag/human o jaqjaq badan. hadal ka hatta wo e diba these days. i communicate with my teacher with email. even discuss with my marks and dispute the marks they give me. also just when i though never get beeter, i just shopped for my new electric tooth brush online and also my new bedsheets will be delivered soon. dadba hadalkooda ma rabo leave alone to deal with them :up:

i also learning sign language, so i dont have to even have to hear sounds not even mine.



:lol: :lol: :lol: Inaalilaah maxaa hadal ku nacday, dadka aamusan anigu waaban ka shakiya.Goormay midi ka taagiy ban is dhaha :?



lol just when i thought im done with teenage hormones change :lol:. i always hated, tv, music/radio and dadka hadla too, but now i feel im taking it to whole different level!

yes i dont talk salool, i just nod (salam alaykum ta hatta wan iska daayey), i remember people said about me: weelku ma daga la'ayahay.lol

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Re: Relationship Advice

Postby salool » Thu Mar 22, 2012 1:13 pm

Beans

Nobody talks every second, acuudubilaah.Ofcourse you've to eat, sleep, pray, cook and do other things.But once we all gatherd we talk, share and listen. After 9pm i hardly say anything either i'm listning or watching somthing.


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Alpha, Listning is good. :up:

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Re: Relationship Advice

Postby Alphanumeric » Thu Mar 22, 2012 1:19 pm

I think I'm a great listener. There just needs to be something to actually listen to :D

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Re: Relationship Advice

Postby Beans » Thu Mar 22, 2012 1:29 pm

salool wrote:Beans

Nobody talks every second, acuudubilaah.Ofcourse you've to eat, sleep, pray, cook and do other things.But once we all gatherd we talk, share and listen. After 9pm i hardly say anything either i'm listning or watching somthing.




I think i have been alone for far too long.I can be in the same room with a sibling and just listen without saying much at all.

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Re: Relationship Advice

Postby Hyperactive » Thu Mar 22, 2012 2:00 pm

lol beans, seems you understand each other with talking.

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Re: Relationship Advice

Postby Twist » Thu Mar 22, 2012 7:09 pm

Selective talking FTW. :up:

There are some people I can talk to some of the time about many things and there are many people that piss me off most of the time for no apparent reason

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Re: Relationship Advice

Postby Estarix » Thu Mar 22, 2012 8:07 pm

If you struggle to hold long convos with guys, then how are you ever going to survive in dates and with girlfriends.
On here you have a lot to say but sound depressed and negative half of time, you need to become more lively. Im reserved and shy, but ive always been like that. I can talk about anything for a long time though. Also stop watching anime man.
Liven up, jump around a room, lift your spirit. You'll change for the better

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Re: Relationship Advice

Postby abdalla11 » Thu Mar 22, 2012 8:16 pm

Estarix wrote:If you struggle to hold long convos with guys, then how are you ever going to survive in dates and with girlfriends.
On here you have a lot to say but sound depressed and negative half of time, you need to become more lively. Im reserved and shy, but ive always been like that. I can talk about anything for a long time though. Also stop watching anime man.
Liven up, jump around a room, lift your spirit. You'll change for the better


You're a chick? :shock: :?


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