thanx sxb, but my problem is i kee opening the fitna doors on me. i texted her i like to stay friend with the arab sisters i have somali female friends. you think its untrue, well, she isnt that hard she isnt pure arab though i didnt ask her she might get anoyed by me.Aww, you're such a sweetheart. Stay true to yourself and your morals. There are many idiot boys on here (i won't call them men ) who haven't gotten laid in years who would gladly switch places with you and commit zina.i just stopped calling her a sister, called her just her name, asked about her yesterday. she is now more open, meant generally somalimen she likes them more than her arabmen. i have to say the same thing about the arab girls but not as somaligirls. its fd up situation and no more time has left. but i feel she isnt for me but satan is there too. this dunya is too much fitna wallahi.