Somali/Ethiopian/White Love Triangle - Help

[InternationalLove]

Hi guys, this is my first post.

I've liked this girl for some time and we have known each other for a while. Her brother is my friend and she is in my classes. Recently i got to know her better and we've talked for many hours on end on the phone and in real life. I felt like maybe i had a chance even though our backgrounds would make things difficult. I bought 2 tickets to a show that both of us would be interested in. I was going to make it a surprise and planned out a romantic dinner with her after which we would meet up with friends at the concert. She knows about the concert but not the rest. Now i don't know whether i should carry on with plans as i probably planned too far ahead or should i just give my ticket to the guy she fancies as he might also be interested. On the other hand, i was really excited to go but i know i'll be thinking about her the whole time and prob won't enjoy as much.

Recently, i decided to chat to her about relationships and if she fancies someone. She said she liked this other guy that I also know. I am conflicted whether to tell her about my feelings since our backgrounds might make a long term relationship hard. While race is generally not important it may be in this case. Obviously I'm Somali and she is White. The guy she likes is Ethiopian and agnostic in belief. I really care for her and i just want her to be happy. I'm thinking that if the other guy were to like her there would be less complications and it might work out better for her in the long term.

Though i really like her I feel like it might be easier for her to be in a relationship with the other guy as I would carry too much baggage because of my background (beliefs) and, if it were to happen, i don't want her family to be uncomfortable with me.

I guess it's not really a love triangle as my feelings for this girl might not be reciprocated. I think he might like her though from what i've heard. Not 100% sure.

Should i still tell her my feelings? follow through with my plan and go to the concert with her? Or should i let the guy she fancies know about it and give him the ticket instead..as he might be interested in it as well?

The event is tomorrow so please let me know what you guys think. It will help inform my decision.

Thanks waryaada.

[Amilla]

Hi guys, this is my first post.

I've liked this girl for some time and we have known each other for a while. Her brother is my friend and she is in my classes. Recently i got to know her better and we've talked for many hours on end on the phone and in real life. I felt like maybe i had a chance even though our backgrounds would make things difficult. I bought 2 tickets to a show that both of us would be interested in. I was going to make it a surprise and planned out a romantic dinner with her after which we would meet up with friends at the concert. She knows about the concert but not the rest. Now i don't know whether i should carry on with plans as i probably planned too far ahead or should i just give my ticket to the guy she fancies as he might also be interested. On the other hand, i was really excited to go but i know i'll be thinking about her the whole time and prob won't enjoy as much.

What was your old nick horta?

Hmmmm! Are you serious? This story seems a bit fake to me but if it so happens to be true you are hopeless.
You seem to be a sap for a Somali dude.

Generally, woman like a man who takes charge and who is confident not one that second guesses himself. Kulaha, "should I give my ticket to the guy she fancies" WTF. Grow some balls dude and ask her out if your feelings are genuine.

[AgentOfChaos]

Hi guys, this is my first post.

I've liked this girl for some time. Obviously I'm Somali and she is White. The guy she likes is Ethiopian and agnostic in belief. Should i still tell her my feelings?

Thanks waryaada.

You're Somali you say? In that case let me say, midho gunta kuugu jira, midho geed saaran looma daadiyo.

<-------------------And Somali girls are that way



You're welcome.

(Nice try though, keep up the good work and thanks for the lulz)

[Alphanumeric]

I was promised a triangle.

Disappoint.

[Colonel]

dafuk is this?

By the way from your writing style I believe that you're a female.

[TeAmo]

Sounds like a funny story. But if you do like the girl why the hell would you care if the other guy likes her or not. Just try win her over, ask her out, if she says no it's not the end of the world. Did I read something like you asked her if she likes the other guy? If you did you shouldn't have done that coz when you do ask her she will be thinking I told him who I like and he still asks me out. if you like her try make her yours why do you care about her feelings for the other guy or his feelings for her. unless she rejects you then markas leave it.

[Alphanumeric]

Wait, wait, hol up.



What's the concert?

[Tuushi]

I was promised a triangle.

Disappoint.

▲

[Amilla]

Something doesn't add up here.

[Smile-LiKe-SuN-RiSE]

Thanks for the laugh multinicker

[Alphanumeric]

I was promised a triangle.

Disappoint.

▲

[Conqueror]

Cool story, bro.

[Tuushi]

Didnt think a triangle could mean that much.

[Alphanumeric]

Little did you know

[InternationalLove]

Generally, woman like a man who takes charge and who is confident not one that second guesses himself. Kulaha, "should I give my ticket to the guy she fancies" WTF. Grow some balls dude and ask her out if your feelings are genuine.

Hi, I think your response is a bit harsh. She's a great girl to be honest, but I don't want to get attached and then this random guy swoops her up.

Sounds like a funny story. But if you do like the girl why the hell would you care if the other guy likes her or not. Just try win her over, ask her out, if she says no it's not the end of the world. Did I read something like you asked her if she likes the other guy? If you did you shouldn't have done that coz when you do ask her she will be thinking I told him who I like and he still asks me out. if you like her try make her yours why do you care about her feelings for the other guy or his feelings for her. unless she rejects you then markas leave it.

Hi, as I explained to Amilia, if he gets her, then he gets her, but I don't want to get attached even remotely. I understand what you mean though, I'll try and see how it goes, I'm going to talk to her later.

Wait, wait, hol up.



What's the concert?

Hi. It's Joe, playing in D.C.