Re: how should I advise him
Posted: Sun Jun 10, 2012 3:08 pm
be extra gentle with her, and get him to become closer with her. 
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Re: how should I advise him
Posted: Sun Jun 10, 2012 3:09 pm
Dude tell your family to take her and go with him to aa sessions. Pretty cultish but I am told it works for the common people or so says Basra at least..ajjaajajaj
Re: how should I advise him
Posted: Sun Jun 10, 2012 3:11 pm
Basra that is actually good idea, I appreciate your input.
Abdiwahab, why would I introduce you to a vulnerable young woman?
Abdiwahab, why would I introduce you to a vulnerable young woman?
Re: how should I advise him
Posted: Sun Jun 10, 2012 3:12 pm
Grandpapa,
Because i can relate to her and not be judgmental
Because i can relate to her and not be judgmental
Re: how should I advise him
Posted: Sun Jun 10, 2012 3:12 pm
If you really care about this girl or your friend, you would marry her and take responsibilty for her (then you being a 'good' muslim will get her to the straight and narrow path.).
There is nothing else you can do like Basra said.
There is nothing else you can do like Basra said.
grandpa
tell your friend to talk to her without judging her. The girl is probably going through some phase. i notice that people who drink to a point of drunkedness always have something in their mind. they are surpressing their pain. the best thing to do for her is --be a friend and not a judge. I recommend going for lunch---that way she is sober and clear thinking--list out reasons that u r on her side, and also how u can together team up to help each other. (meaning her and her brother. grandpa stay out of it with your silent judgements lol)
Re: how should I advise him
Posted: Sun Jun 10, 2012 3:16 pm
Subxanalah, ilaahy ha so hanuuniyo.
Re: how should I advise him
Posted: Sun Jun 10, 2012 3:16 pm
lol @ marry her, nigga I dont have financial means to do so.
Re: how should I advise him
Posted: Sun Jun 10, 2012 3:17 pm
lol @ marry her, nigga I dont have financial means to do so.
We will do a fundraising for you.
Re: how should I advise him
Posted: Sun Jun 10, 2012 3:18 pm
Countrystyle you think I'm an oday like you? I wouldn't be caught dead there.Grandpapa,
Sipping is a step up from guzzling JD.
Slow steps, lets discuss this at the Countrystyle in Dixon.
Re: how should I advise him
Posted: Sun Jun 10, 2012 3:20 pm
Kick her out the house straight up. I dont know how any parent can have patience with a kid (especially a girl) who comes back home drunk every night i mean WTF...you gotta be an angel to have that sort of mercy.
Re: how should I advise him
Posted: Sun Jun 10, 2012 3:21 pm
lol @ marry her, nigga I dont have financial means to do so.
We will do a fundraising for you.
I dont wanna though.Re: how should I advise him
Posted: Sun Jun 10, 2012 3:23 pm
Kick her out the house straight up. I dont know how any parent can have patience with a kid (especially a girl) who comes back home drunk every night i mean WTF...you gotta be an angel to have that sort of mercy.
You will understand when you've ur own children one day, no parents give up on their children no matter how bad they're .
Re: how should I advise him
Posted: Sun Jun 10, 2012 3:29 pm
lol @ marry her, nigga I dont have financial means to do so.
We will do a fundraising for you.
Marriage is 1/2 your diin and we are willing to help you pay for it.
Re: how should I advise him
Posted: Sun Jun 10, 2012 3:31 pm
Kicking her out will only make matters worst; she'll likely be gone for good. I'v seen girls who are in that situation and they behave like they have nothing to loose.
The problem with most somali parents is they just expect their children to behave well and turn out to be good people with poor parenting skills.; Shouting, beating and habaar.
Her parents should try to use other methods instead of beating her up every night, clearly it doesn't work.
The problem with most somali parents is they just expect their children to behave well and turn out to be good people with poor parenting skills.; Shouting, beating and habaar.
Her parents should try to use other methods instead of beating her up every night, clearly it doesn't work.
Re: how should I advise him
Posted: Sun Jun 10, 2012 3:34 pm
Grandpa
If you had the money would marry this hoe?
If you had the money would marry this hoe?