Your wedding...

[salool]

BV

Dhibto ma fiicna, if the girl knows her future husband is broke and she lovs him, it's best to skip the whole wedding thing.But sadly you know how mothers pressure their daughters to have a big wedding.waxay ku oraneyaan, naaya ninka ma bilaash ayuu kugu kaxaysaneya.I've seen it to many times, some families even advice their daughters to ask for to much meher, saying to them raqiis ha iska dhigin.Imsa madaxa la isku gashay marku meherka dhacayey and the guy walks away.

Familiyada qaar waan ka yaaba

[Protagonist]

Alot of girls are desperate so they dont mind forking out to pay their share of the wedding.

[Tuushi]

Somali weddings has got to be one of the most overrated and dysfunctional thing.

If i had my way,they wont be a wedding.

[AhlulbaytSoldier]

Only lazy girls think it is cool for her man to pay all.
Nah me, i wont pay shit for flower.
Give some 50 euro to the sheikh for nikah, search for the cheapest ticket and hotel in Turkey.

Guys there was this girl who made her stupid somali bf pay 20k for big wedding etc, the marriage only lasted 4months. I heard she now goes with some jareer newmuslim, he is neosalafi. They went to the sheikh, married quickly and now girl is.pregnant.


Xalimos want to act tough huh? There are enough vajays around, specialy reverted girls. I would tell her ya ukhti we must follow the sunnah of prophet pbuh, i will pay you the same amount the prophet pbuh & sahaba paid their wives in dirhams, using the euro dirham converter.

[Protagonist]

Xalimos want to act tough huh? There are enough vajays around, specialy reverted girls. I would tell her ya ukhti we must follow the sunnah of prophet pbuh, i will pay you the same amount the prophet pbuh & sahaba paid their wives in dirhams, using the euro dirham converter.

[TeAmo]

Only lazy girls think it is cool for her man to pay all.
Nah me, i wont pay shit for flower.
Give some 50 euro to the sheikh for nikah, search for the cheapest ticket and hotel in Turkey.

Guys there was this girl who made her stupid somali bf pay 20k for big wedding etc, the marriage only lasted 4months. I heard she now goes with some jareer newmuslim, he is neosalafi. They went to the sheikh, married quickly and now girl is.pregnant.


Xalimos want to act tough huh? There are enough vajays around, specialy reverted girls. I would tell her ya ukhti we must follow the sunnah of prophet pbuh, i will pay you the same amount the prophet pbuh & sahaba paid their wives in dirhams, using the euro dirham converter.

The same thing happened to my cousin his Gf's family told him he had to pay for an expensive wedding he said no fuck off why would I pay that much for someone I fucked then she married a jarer revert had a baby for him and then they divorced.

[nomadicwarlord]

Warlord, why do I have to chip in its his responsiblity...besides its a tradition that will never die. I am just gonna make sure i look super hot that night
Btw what does women's rights have to do with this thread

Ps: 50/50 kulaha..why would i marry a broke nigga to began with

The money is there, it's just it will be invested somewhere else deemed appropriate like savings. Why enjoy one day when you can enjoy the rest of your lives together. A woman that chips in shows commitment.

[Samatr]

what kind of warlord has a cheap wedding
I'm guessing one that does not have many isbaaro.

[nomadicwarlord]

what kind of warlord has a cheap wedding
I'm guessing one that does not have many isbaaro.

One that thinks about the future And you know I'm lavish when it comes to other things...I got 99 problems, a wedding ain't one

[qoraxeey]

Why do we keep going over this shit? All girls aren't the same. Some will want the guy to pay for it all while others will want to contribute. Simple.

Me, I'd rather contribute to pay for half of the wedding. As Teamo stated, the guy and his family have to worry about the house.

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I totally agree with you abaayoo

I used to think ..*oh the man have to pay everything** ... thats just ignorancy ruuuntii


we live in mordern times .. where women have jobs and income


also the older I get ... the more I realize that no man is ever gonna pay it all for me

[Samatr]

nomadicwarlord

I went to a gaalo coworkers wedding over the weekend had to get a hair cut and look like the civil person lol, that wedding was off the chain; it was at a golf course and the female guests all dressed mad sexy yo, and no islaamo and odayaal around their daughters like Somali weddings.
no fights, just nice music and bad females.

[nomadicwarlord]

nomadicwarlord

I went to a gaalo coworkers wedding over the weekend had to get a hair cut and look like the civil person lol, that wedding was off the chain; it was at a golf course and the female guests all dressed mad sexy yo, and no islaamo and odayaal around their daughters like Somali weddings.
no fights, just nice music and bad females.

Sounds tubular, did they have an open bar? Any cadaan girl's number...potential future mate

[salool]

nomadicwarlord

I went to a gaalo coworkers wedding over the weekend had to get a hair cut and look like the civil person lol, that wedding was off the chain; it was at a golf course and the female guests all dressed mad sexy yo, and no islaamo and odayaal around their daughters like Somali weddings.
no fights, just nice music and bad females.

The fights in somali weddings are the best, hadi kale aroosko xalad ma laha

[Samatr]

nomadic

this was a madow wedding, and yes there was an open bar but you know that's not my poison.
is it fucked up that I talked to the only cadaan chick at the wedding, she was was serving the food and it was delicious.


salool

The only reason people fight in Somali weddings is because they were not invited, people who are invited to weddings act accordingly and are respectful but it's those people who just crash weddings that usually fight because someone who was invited to a wedding by the groom or bride knows better than to fight at a wedding.

[nomadicwarlord]

nomadic

this was a madow wedding, and yes there was an open bar but you know that's not my poison.
is it fucked up that I talked to the only cadaan chick at the wedding.

Nice, I haven't been to a Maddow wedding yet, but I crashed a Nigerian wedding few summers ago.

It's not fucked up that you charmed the cadaan girl. They are something else. Oh the beauty and the class