Traveling alert for Somali girls

[DisplacedDiraac]

btw, forced dhaqancelis is becoming harder these days thanks to technology. i know some kids who complained about their parents to the authorities through emails and the parents brought them back instantly when the authorities came knocking on the door.

The FMU have been doing this for years..

http://www.fco.gov.uk/en/travel-and-liv ... -marriage/

[IRONm@N]

Good for her. do you want her parents to wait until she bring a Jamaican or a whitey boyfriend to them?

[IRONm@N]

she is lucky if this didn't happen to her.
From Somalia
I was born in Moqadishu, Somalia and was brought to Canada by my grandmother at the tender age of 5. She raised me along with my aunts and uncles and so I never knew my parents and siblings. When I hit puberty, all I could think about was my parents and how no one could understand me like my mother would've. I wanted my own family I would tell them, and any decisions they made for me were unjust. It didn't help matters that I was also molested by a family member that I looked upon as a father figure, from there grew anger, resentment, and depression. So at the end of grade 7 I was sent to Ethiopia to meet my mother, my grandmother accompanied me. I can't even describe to you the expectations I had for my mom and my siblings, which sadly were tossed aside once I was with them for less then a week. My grandmother went back to Canada early due to her fragile health. From there it was chaos, my own mother resented me for being the one that got out and lived in the "West". She physically beat me, gave my possessions away to random neighbours and just simply broke my heart. My cries for help to my family in Canada went unnoticed, they felt I was being dramatic and over exaggerating everything for attention. All I remember was going to bed one night, having breakfast the next morning and coming to with 2 ladies holding my legs while a woman came towards me with a razor, I struggled and managed at one point to escape, but they just came after me in the street and once again held me down, I weep as I type this because this memory is so horrible to me. I spent weeks recovering with ropes tied around my legs. When my family found out what my mother had done, they sent me money to go see a doctor but by that time it was too late, my mother had already collected the money for her own personal use and I didn't see a cent. They booked me a ticket to come back to Canada. Can you please help me, I don't feel adequate to have a relationship, I'm disgusted at my genitalia, and the idea of intimacy or someone touching me there haunts me. I'm jealous of my girlfriends and their relationships and I feel like I'm lacking something, I'm not whole and care free like they are. If you can get back to me with any information how I can get "fixed" that would be great. I finally have the courage to finally want to put this past me. My mother passed away in 2006 and I don't want to carry this physical memory of the hurt, pain and anguish she has cost me. I'm done being bitter.

[Lillaahiya]

My mom was just reading this story out loud . Shit got weird when she asked me to explain what deflower meant.

Please tell us how you explained it to her. Word for word.

[FarhanYare]

she is lucky if this didn't happen to her.
From Somalia
I was born in Moqadishu, Somalia and was brought to Canada by my grandmother at the tender age of 5. She raised me along with my aunts and uncles and so I never knew my parents and siblings. When I hit puberty, all I could think about was my parents and how no one could understand me like my mother would've. I wanted my own family I would tell them, and any decisions they made for me were unjust. It didn't help matters that I was also molested by a family member that I looked upon as a father figure, from there grew anger, resentment, and depression. So at the end of grade 7 I was sent to Ethiopia to meet my mother, my grandmother accompanied me. I can't even describe to you the expectations I had for my mom and my siblings, which sadly were tossed aside once I was with them for less then a week. My grandmother went back to Canada early due to her fragile health. From there it was chaos, my own mother resented me for being the one that got out and lived in the "West". She physically beat me, gave my possessions away to random neighbours and just simply broke my heart. My cries for help to my family in Canada went unnoticed, they felt I was being dramatic and over exaggerating everything for attention. All I remember was going to bed one night, having breakfast the next morning and coming to with 2 ladies holding my legs while a woman came towards me with a razor, I struggled and managed at one point to escape, but they just came after me in the street and once again held me down, I weep as I type this because this memory is so horrible to me. I spent weeks recovering with ropes tied around my legs. When my family found out what my mother had done, they sent me money to go see a doctor but by that time it was too late, my mother had already collected the money for her own personal use and I didn't see a cent. They booked me a ticket to come back to Canada. Can you please help me, I don't feel adequate to have a relationship, I'm disgusted at my genitalia, and the idea of intimacy or someone touching me there haunts me. I'm jealous of my girlfriends and their relationships and I feel like I'm lacking something, I'm not whole and care free like they are. If you can get back to me with any information how I can get "fixed" that would be great. I finally have the courage to finally want to put this past me. My mother passed away in 2006 and I don't want to carry this physical memory of the hurt, pain and anguish she has cost me. I'm done being bitter.

another fairytale

[AbdiWahab252]

Reminds me of the Utanga Fairy Tales back in the day. I give this chick an A+ for her creativity.

[FarhanYare]

Reminds me of the Utanga Fairy Tales back in the day. I give this chick an A+ for her creativity.

[Keyblade]

My mom was just reading this story out loud . Shit got weird when she asked me to explain what deflower meant.

Please tell us how you explained it to her. Word for word.

I told her it was an advanced gardening technique that is popular in Africa .

[AhlulbaytSoldier]

Oh great, now that she is in Holland she is back to her jareer lover, alcohol and partying.

[Lillaahiya]

My mom was just reading this story out loud . Shit got weird when she asked me to explain what deflower meant.

Please tell us how you explained it to her. Word for word.

I told her it was an advanced gardening technique that is popular in Africa .

And when she said "hooyo, gardhanin maxay tahay?" what did you reply

[Keyblade]

I told her it was an advanced gardening technique that is popular in Africa .

And when she said "hooyo, gardhanin maxay tahay?" what did you reply

"Hooyo, beero fal soo ma garanaysid? Haa, that's it". I was gonna make a 'plowing' reference but it would've went over everyone's head.

[daiman]

Same old story!

[Alphanumeric]

I told her it was an advanced gardening technique that is popular in Africa .

And when she said "hooyo, gardhanin maxay tahay?" what did you reply

"Hooyo, beero fal soo ma garanaysid? Haa, that's it". I was gonna make a 'plowing' reference but it would've went over everyone's head.

Looool!!

[blackstars25]

why would she fabricate this story?

she is already a dutch citizen. would she defame and criminalise her family of crimes just so she can get some media attention? i doubt t.

the fact that this is quite common among somalis in the west adds credence to her claim. there 's no reason at all to dismiss her story.

[blackstars25]

btw, forced dhaqancelis is becoming harder these days thanks to technology. i know some kids who complained about their parents to the authorities through emails and the parents brought them back instantly when the authorities came knocking on the door.