Did you grow up w/out a dad? I met mine recently.

[salool]

It was half of ur name

Parents are not perfect, just forgive him and move on with ur life.Being honest is the key, tell him how you feel so he dont do the same mistake with his other kids.

That is VERY good advice, I will try to move on. But I will never tell how I feel, waa hishoodbadanahay. But thank you for the enlightful respons

Inorder to move on you have to tell him, write him a letter, it's easier to write down all ur feelings and be HONEST.You will feel much better walle.

You're wlc.Waalidka inkaartisa wa la iska ilaaliya.

[qoraxeey]

I grew up without a father ...and Im glad of that alhamdulilah


I had a stepfather for awhile and I had no problem with him .. he was a cool dude

[TeAmo]

That's a very sad story and wtf why was that dude touching up a little boy was he gay :O this happens a lot in the Somali community and it's not spoken about because they don't want to bring shame. I love my dad and alhamdulilah he has always been in my life. As a kid I grew up with my mum until age 3 then my mum and dad divorced my mum went traveling so she could get us out of Somalia and for 2 years grew up with my grandmother mums mum.

Then my dad stole me and my sis from my mum brought us to the UK then my mum came here he brought her here coz me and my sister wanted our mum he asked us to choose who we wanted to live with and we picked our dad coz he was less strict more fun etc. so my dad raised us two then after awhile my mum got upset that we didn't choose to live with her and always made us feel bad so we have a room in her house and my dads we go to her during weekends when we're not busy.


She's got a new husband but his really nice takes me shopping and stuff his like my 2nd dad but obviously not my dad but Anywho not all Somali dads are useless my dad used to give us baths, take us to school, pick us up, take us park, cook, clean etc all on his own and he had other kids too I have 3 other bros from different mum he did that all for us 5 his definatly the best dad in the world to me.

I remember when I was a kid he was protective of us he wouldnt leave us in a room with men even if their were family friends I remember I once lied about one of his cousins touching me coz I hated him and him and my dad had a fight with him I also lied my school tutor touched me he was a perv and I swear he used to like me but he never touched me then I got taken to private tuition at age 14 till 16 to finish my GCSE's I truly feel sorry for kids who grew up without a father I do t know what I would do without mine. I was defiantly a spoiled child growing up.

[qoraxeey]

wtf ... TeAmo

[TeAmo]

wtf ... TeAmo

Lmao I know I had one heck of a crazy confusing childhood Lmaoo

[salool]

I remember when I was a kid he was protective of us he wouldnt leave us in a room with men even if their were family friends I remember I once lied about one of his cousins touching me coz I hated him and him and my dad had a fight with him I also lied my school tutor touched me he was a perv and I swear he used to like me but he never touched me then I got taken to private tuition at age 14 till 16 to finish my GCSE's I truly feel sorry for kids who grew up without a father I do t know what I would do without mine. I was defiantly a spoiled child growing up.

[qoraxeey]

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Lmao I know I had one heck of a crazy confusing childhood Lmaoo

Well atleast you grew up to be young nice women I guess we should thank your dad for that

[professorCadaan]

@ teamo -so is ur step dad same tribe as ur real dad ?? wat will happen u wen u get married who will rep u at da nikah ceremony ? step dad or real dad if thy r different clans

[ManD333q]

I remember when I was a kid he was protective of us he wouldnt leave us in a room with men even if their were family friends I remember I once lied about one of his cousins touching me coz I hated him and him and my dad had a fight with him I also lied my school tutor touched me he was a perv and I swear he used to like me but he never touched me then I got taken to private tuition at age 14 till 16 to finish my GCSE's I truly feel sorry for kids who grew up without a father I do t know what I would do without mine. I was defiantly a spoiled child growing up.

indeed wt..f

[witheredfleur]

I remember when I was a kid he was protective of us he wouldnt leave us in a room with men even if their were family friends I remember I once lied about one of his cousins touching me coz I hated him and him and my dad had a fight with him I also lied my school tutor touched me he was a perv and I swear he used to like me but he never touched me then I got taken to private tuition at age 14 till 16 to finish my GCSE's I truly feel sorry for kids who grew up without a father I do t know what I would do without mine. I was defiantly a spoiled child growing up.

Bloody hell!!!

[TeAmo]

Those men were real pervs wallahi. If I gave them the chance they would have sexually abused me. The teacher used to give me detention for no reason and come close to me. There was a fire alarm in my secondary school once and this pervy teacher forcefully put his hands on my mouth coz I was screaming don't ask why I was screaming wtf who does that. And the Somali dude used to check me out with his friends he might not have physically done anything but he did mentally

[FAH1223]

So you wanted a father figure and then you meet your dad and then you start to resent him for not being there all those years

tough luck nigga

Why so mean maaaaan : Just curious, have you ever been in a similar situation???

Nope. My dad was always around, alhamdullilah

[Alshabaibe]

I remember when I was a kid he was protective of us he wouldnt leave us in a room with men even if their were family friends I remember I once lied about one of his cousins touching me coz I hated him and him and my dad had a fight with him I also lied my school tutor touched me he was a perv and I swear he used to like me but he never touched me then I got taken to private tuition at age 14 till 16 to finish my GCSE's I truly feel sorry for kids who grew up without a father I do t know what I would do without mine. I was defiantly a spoiled child growing up.

[IRONm@N]

I remember when I was a kid he was protective of us he wouldnt leave us in a room with men even if their were family friends I remember I once lied about one of his cousins touching me coz I hated him and him and my dad had a fight with him I also lied my school tutor touched me he was a perv and I swear he used to like me but he never touched me then I got taken to private tuition at age 14 till 16 to finish my GCSE's I truly feel sorry for kids who grew up without a father I do t know what I would do without mine. I was defiantly a spoiled child growing up.

Bloody hell!!!

wtf why lie about these stuff?

[ManD333q]

Those men were real pervs wallahi. If I gave them the chance they would have sexually abused me. The teacher used to give me detention for no reason and come close to me. There was a fire alarm in my secondary school once and this pervy teacher forcefully put his hands on my mouth coz I was screaming don't ask why I was screaming wtf who does that. And the Somali dude used to check me out with his friends he might not have physically done anything but he did mentally

So you lied about such thing cause you hated them..really. You have no shame wallahi. Even if it was true I would have had hard time telling such thing to my father let alone lying making it up!