Did you grow up w/out a dad? I met mine recently.

[Barwaaqoiyobashbash]

I remember when I was a kid he was protective of us he wouldnt leave us in a room with men even if their were family friends I remember I once lied about one of his cousins touching me coz I hated him and him and my dad had a fight with him I also lied my school tutor touched me he was a perv and I swear he used to like me but he never touched me then I got taken to private tuition at age 14 till 16 to finish my GCSE's I truly feel sorry for kids who grew up without a father I do t know what I would do without mine. I was defiantly a spoiled child growing up.

[Barwaaqoiyobashbash]

Okey lets start of with saying that my mother moved from Ireland (where she and my dad were living) to Denmark in the late 90's when they divorced with me. I was about 3 last time I saw him (don't even remember him). So all my life I'd though.. oh okey.. well maybe not having a dad will not affect me THAT much. yadayadaya... And then one time I caught myself fantasizing about father-figures in movies like Lord Stark in GoT or Sirius Black in Harry Potter, just fantasing that they were my dad. Walahi at that moment I felt so abandoned. I started thinking maan I wish I had a dad. I was about 12-13 then.

And when I was 14 years old, I noticed that my mother was acting strange. We had a 1 week of from school during Halloween and mother announced ''Okey, hiblayo we are going to visit your aunt who lives in Ireland. I notices something was off with her but did not ask. So about 2 days in when we were at my uncles house a guy and a woman comes to visit. It was my dad and his sister. I'm upstairs reading my philosophy book when my aunt comes up and says come down someone wants to meet you. I say okay. I come down and sit down at the living room. ''This is your dad and his sister'' my mother who was there says. I swear at that moment I resented my mother for a bit. Why did she not warn me? Anywho.. I can't even remember what we talked about this happened some years ago. The next day my dad and his sister took me shopping around the malls. I remember thinking, holy crap, this was NOT a good idea. And my mother INSISTED that I go with him. Walahi, aaniga waa hishooda, I don't like it when people I don't know want to buy CLOTHES for me. So we just went around looking. So i come back home after a couple of hours. The next day my mother says ''You'are going to sleep over at his house for a night''.

I was just thinking BISINKA! I don't even know this man. He was in the hallway with his sister so I could not just say, Hooyo are you out of your mind? (I don't know if you guys read my post from a long time ago, but there was this guy who was my step-aunts husbands brother. When I was 13 I saw him after not seeing him for about 3 years. Walahi in an instent I got soo many flashbacks. I remebered him with his hands down my then 6-year old male ''step cousins'' pants, whilst the mother was in the kitchen cooking afuur. He also was married to my mother for a couple of months). So I went to his house and ate dinner, It was okay I met 3 girls who were my age that i bonded with. And then another bomb hit me. I had a 4 year old half brother who was living in the same house...... turns out I had 2 other 6 year old twin step-brothers aswell... (he had them with a different women I guess). Only met the 4 yr old he was annoying. Anywho, the night before i was goning to leave he says ''I love you'', beyotch please!! I just turned around i went to my room to sleep. The I don't remember anymore. I guess he called about 2-3 times after i came back to Denmark than nothing more after that. I just turned that was 4 yrs ago btw.

Do you guys think I'm actually missing something? I just don't get is it THAT easy for people to abondened their small children......

[TeAmo]

Those men were real pervs wallahi. If I gave them the chance they would have sexually abused me. The teacher used to give me detention for no reason and come close to me. There was a fire alarm in my secondary school once and this pervy teacher forcefully put his hands on my mouth coz I was screaming don't ask why I was screaming wtf who does that. And the Somali dude used to check me out with his friends he might not have physically done anything but he did mentally

So you lied about such thing cause you hated them..really. You have no shame wallahi. Even if it was true I would have had hard time telling such thing to my father let alone lying making it up!

I wasn't lying I technically exagerrated the truth and why wouldn't you tell your parents things that are bothering you. I tell both my parents everything I feel like, we just have that kind of relationship. Sorry to see you don't have that relationship with your parents Anywho I told my dad I was lying about it and told him what really happened and he wasn't mad at me, he's still not talking to the somali dude coz he was still a perv. You can't blame me I was a little kid and felt unsave and scared of that man. He once forced me to stay in the toilet with him while he pissed. You don't know anything about me or why I lied about those things so you have no right to tell me I have no shame.

[hipsterrunoff]

That's a very sad story and wtf why was that dude touching up a little boy was he gay :O this happens a lot in the Somali community and it's not spoken about because they don't want to bring shame. I love my dad and alhamdulilah he has always been in my life. As a kid I grew up with my mum until age 3 then my mum and dad divorced my mum went traveling so she could get us out of Somalia and for 2 years grew up with my grandmother mums mum.

Then my dad stole me and my sis from my mum brought us to the UK then my mum came here he brought her here coz me and my sister wanted our mum he asked us to choose who we wanted to live with and we picked our dad coz he was less strict more fun etc. so my dad raised us two then after awhile my mum got upset that we didn't choose to live with her and always made us feel bad so we have a room in her house and my dads we go to her during weekends when we're not busy.


She's got a new husband but his really nice takes me shopping and stuff his like my 2nd dad but obviously not my dad but Anywho not all Somali dads are useless my dad used to give us baths, take us to school, pick us up, take us park, cook, clean etc all on his own and he had other kids too I have 3 other bros from different mum he did that all for us 5 his definatly the best dad in the world to me.

I remember when I was a kid he was protective of us he wouldnt leave us in a room with men even if their were family friends I remember I once lied about one of his cousins touching me coz I hated him and him and my dad had a fight with him I also lied my school tutor touched me he was a perv and I swear he used to like me but he never touched me then I got taken to private tuition at age 14 till 16 to finish my GCSE's I truly feel sorry for kids who grew up without a father I do t know what I would do without mine. I was defiantly a spoiled child growing up.

Classic Teamo rant. Love you, sis.

[TeAmo]

Hipster I love you more Abaya macaan

[hipsterrunoff]

No, no. I love you more my legendary Queen.

[Methylamine]

Y'all sound like cadaan ppl letting your family's dirty laundry on a public forum

[blackstars25]

I remember when I was a kid he was protective of us he wouldnt leave us in a room with men even if their were family friends I remember I once lied about one of his cousins touching [/size]me coz I hated him and him and my dad had a fight with him I also lied my school tutor touched me he was a perv and I swear he used to like me but he never touched me then I got taken to private tuition at age 14 till 16 to finish my GCSE's I truly feel sorry for kids who grew up without a father I do t know what I would do without mine. I was defiantly a spoiled child growing up.

you are one sick puppy.

but seriously you must;ve had pretty big jugs a child coz apparently is seems everyone in your life at one point tried to grope you or mentally rape you.

[TeAmo]

[hipsterrunoff]

you are one sick puppy.but seriously you must;ve had pretty big jugs a child coz apparently is seems everyone in your life at one point tried to grope you or mentally rape you.

Obviously, because a woman needs to be well-endowed for her to be sexually assaulted...right?! Tell me more, please.

[TeAmo]

Y'all sound like cadaan ppl letting your family's dirty laundry on a public forum

He wasn't my family he was a disgusting dirty ugly man. He was a fake cousin you know them ones Somali's claim to be related but its just tribal ish.

[Methylamine]

Y'all sound like cadaan ppl letting your family's dirty laundry on a public forum

He wasn't my family he was a disgusting dirty ugly man. He was a fake cousin you know them ones Somali's claim to be related but its just tribal ish.

haye. Eid Mubarak walaalo

[TeAmo]

you are one sick puppy.but seriously you must;ve had pretty big jugs a child coz apparently is seems everyone in your life at one point tried to grope you or mentally rape you.

Obviously, cause a woman needs to be well-endowed for her to be sexually assaulted...right?! Tell me more, please.

Wallahi I think some of these faraxs on snet have tried sexually assulting a little young Somali girl. I hear so much about it from fellow Somali girls. One of my friends her uncle who is a dugsi teacher tried raping her, and her mum doesn't believe her coz he is apparently a man with reputation. The girl has slept over my house for 2 weeks straight coz of fear of going back. Digusting little fucktarts. Watch your future daughter hipster these niggas sheko cusub aye keynen

[hipsterrunoff]

Wallahi I think some of these faraxs on snet have tried sexually assulting a little young Somali girl. I hear so much about it from fellow Somali girls. One of my friends her uncle who is a dugsi teacher tried raping her, and her mum doesn't believe her coz he is apparently a man with reputation. The girl has slept over my house for 2 weeks straight coz of fear of going back. Digusting little fucktarts. Watch your future daughter hipster these niggas sheko cusub aye keynen

Istaqfurallah! I will, sis. Thanks for the heads up.

[witheredfleur]

Hmm well despite coming across many potential rapists (it's all in my paranoid head really)... I know even if that's all true, it's the very extremely small minority. Most Somali guys don't even touch you cause religion is so integrated into our culture now. So chill. Random people actually read this shit you know..