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So if you worship your God and you are healthy now, then Save some money to take care of yourself when you cannot work anymore, Is that Enough. What other ways would you prepare if you are like me and can't have kids ( ofcourse unless allah brings Rahma).

I need suggestions if you can. make it short so I can read them all.

Prepare what?

caburiye!! adoption? did you though about adopting a kid?? and how do you know that you can not have Kids??

So if you worship your God and you are healthy now, then Save some money to take care of yourself when you cannot work anymore, Is that Enough. What other ways would you prepare if you are like me and can't have kids ( ofcourse unless allah brings Rahma).

I need suggestions if you can. make it short so I can read them all.

If you're in Somalia, extended family members can take care of you when you age.

What makes you think you will liv that long?

Leave the planning to Allah!

Preparing for retirement?

this is why i want to get married really soon


I want to test my fertility

Like salool said you arent guaranteed to live that long life where a care for you becomes necessaty. adoption is one choice. Another is to take care of yourself very good now so that you dont age quickly. A good diet, exercises and a good sleep pattern goes a long way.

this is why i want to get married really soon


I want to test my fertility

what about if you meat guy like caburiye?? and most of somali guys they will not admit that its the guy who can't have kids. they will blame the women if the couple if childless...

Don't look at it negatively, sometimes Ilahay shar ayu kadueya. You never know.
Be patient, this is just a test from Allah.
I respect that you've come to terms with it , mashallah, takes a lot of courage and acceptance.
I have you in my duaa.

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what about if you meat guy like caburiye?? and most of somali guys they will not admit that its the guy who can't have kids. they will blame the women if the couple if childless...

if he blames me ,,, we are done

What makes you think you will liv that long?

Leave the planning to Allah!

Do you save money?

Prepare what?

I mean prepare for how to take care of yourself when you are old etc. Those things that kids would have done for you at later age.

caburiye!! adoption? did you though about adopting a kid?? and how do you know that you can not have Kids??

Ninyohow there is nothing like adoption in the Somali community. You can't give the kid your name, You can't call them your kids etc. The kid would not you are not his father right from the beginning. It is hard to raise kids that you can't call your kids. I don't want to lie to myself. So I either have kids or do not have.

I might have kids If allah wants but I took Sperm analysis and the results shows about 15% chance or low.

Preparing for retirement?

Yes walaalkiis.