Somali Girl In Love With Jamaican Boy?

[miskeen86]

Hi, well the topic says it all really. I am in love with this one Jamaican boy who likes me too. However, I am not stupid enough to "date" him as that is not only very haraam, but disrespectful to my parents. I have not intended to feel this way and my question is: Should I keep interest in him as a future husband maybe? Keeping "interest" involves discussions and conversations in school NOT any haraam business. Or should I search the field for a future Somali partner. The Jamaican boy in question did tell me he was prepared to become a Muslim if need be. On a more serious note, I do not want to hear him being referred to "jareer or madow" or flat nosed baboon etc. And I am not a "horny love, or a gaal jaceyle" I respect my parents to the fullest. I will be respectful to any member commenting respectfully on this thread.

[FAH1223]

Jamaican?


About to be Muslim?

She's about to share that man

[hipsterrunoff]

Stupid girl. Someone should tell her Jamaican men do not believe in commitment.

[TeAmo]

You can't control who you love so give her a break

[herndonhomer]

all somalis should be warned of the VERY high divorce rate among interracial marriages.

[miskeen86]

all somalis should be warned of the VERY high divorce rate among interracial marriages.

how about the divorce rates among somali/somali marriage?

[herndonhomer]

it's just as high as any other same race marriage. the divorce rate in the united states is roughly fifty percent. it's even higher than that when it's an interracial marriage.

that's why before you get married you really have to ask yourself if you're willing to be with this person for the rest of your life.

[gedo_gurl]

There is an extremely high divorce rate in interracial marriages, its even worse when the majority of your family dont speak the same language as your partner's family. Its destined to doom, stay well away and marry a nice Faarax.

[hipsterrunoff]

My parent's have a family friend who's eldest daughter married a Jamaican man. Her family paraded him around after their daughter got engaged to him telling every Somali person they saw that,'he became Muslim...he found Allah' etc. Long story short, after 19 months of marriage and two jareer kids he bounced up out of there. He left her and the kids and moved out. His wife was left crying, home alone day in and day out calling her parents asking them to help her get him back. When they finally reached him he said that he decided he didn't want to be Muslim anymore, didn't want to be a husband either and most importantly wanted to stay in the club scene. This story is so sad. The wife whom he still hasn't divorced is basically a single mother now. She goes to work and raises her children by herself. Whilst, he sees/calls her time to time to humiliate her and laugh at her saying things like, 'hi mom, bye mom.' Her parent's are truly heartbroken. They said that they fear she'll never get remarried because no Somali man wants a woman who has half AA children. Sad, but true.

[gedo_gurl]

My parent's have a family friend who's eldest daughter married a Jamaican man. Her family paraded him around after their daughter got engaged to him telling every Somali person they saw that,'he became Muslim...he found Allah' etc. Long story short, after 19 months of marriage and two jareer kids he bounced up out of there. He left her and the kids and moved out. His wife was left crying, home alone day in and day out calling her parents asking them to help her get him back. When they finally reached him he said that he decided he didn't want to be Muslim anymore, didn't want to be a husband either and most importantly wanted to stay in the club scene. This story is so sad. The wife whom he still hasn't divorced is basically a single mother now. She goes to work and raises her children by herself. Whilst, he sees/calls her time to time to humiliate her and laugh at her saying things like, 'hi mom, bye mom.' Her parent's are truly heartbroken. They said that they fear she'll never get remarried because no Somali man wants a woman who has half AA children. Sad, but true.

How humiliating and sad! I know two Somali girls who married non Somalis and its about the same. One of them has a man who comes back and then leaves her every year. She is only trying to make it work for the kids but the sad thing is he isnt interested in keeping her, he just doesnt want another man in her life. He hardly visits the kids too. At least with a Somali wasteman you have his relatives to fall back on. No Somali family breaks ties with a kid from a divorce, they are still around to teach you qabyaalad and abtiris...j/k...but you get the picture.

[TeAmo]

Imagine how ugly the kids are hips God damnnn. If I have jarer kIds they will not feel like mine, I will not be attached to them that sounds racist but its life.

[FAH1223]

My parent's have a family friend who's eldest daughter married a Jamaican man. Her family paraded him around after their daughter got engaged to him telling every Somali person they saw that,'he became Muslim...he found Allah' etc. Long story short, after 19 months of marriage and two jareer kids he bounced up out of there. He left her and the kids and moved out. His wife was left crying, home alone day in and day out calling her parents asking them to help her get him back. When they finally reached him he said that he decided he didn't want to be Muslim anymore, didn't want to be a husband either and most importantly wanted to stay in the club scene. This story is so sad. The wife whom he still hasn't divorced is basically a single mother now. She goes to work and raises her children by herself. Whilst, he sees/calls her time to time to humiliate her and laugh at her saying things like, 'hi mom, bye mom.' Her parent's are truly heartbroken. They said that they fear she'll never get remarried because no Somali man wants a woman who has half AA children. Sad, but true.

How humiliating and sad! I know two Somali girls who married non Somalis and its about the same. One of them has a man who comes back and then leaves her every year. She is only trying to make it work for the kids but the sad thing is he isnt interested in keeping her, he just doesnt want another man in her life. He hardly visits the kids too. At least with a Somali wasteman you have his relatives to fall back on. No Somali family breaks ties with a kid from a divorce, they are still around to teach you qabyaalad and abtiris...j/k...but you get the picture.

Like I said, they shared that man

[Advo]

Jamaican?


About to be Muslim?

She's about to share that man

Lmaooooo she bought be one of his many single moms.

My home boi got an older sister like that, we make fun of her dumbass all the time, she cried before Ramadan

[eliteSomali]

I pretty much don't care who marries who as long as the reasons used aren't something along the lines of 'I couldn't find a good somali partner'. They're the ones who'll deal with all the ramifications so

[herndonhomer]

i have seen somali guys successfully convert women to islam and keep a long healthy marriage but not the other way around.