SART - Most people don't get married because of feelings

[Basra-]

87% of Muslims get married for the sake of a 'halal' marriage.(majority being arranged marriage) Meaning, the alternative is sinful. They want to get 'laid' and also they want children. Pure and simple. It has nothing to do with the partner 'chosen'. 3 % Muslims get married due to strong, crazy passion for each other. 10% of the remaining Muslims get married is miscellaneous, business or wealth transactions, homosexuals cover-up or denial of ones sexuality, or in brief society pressure.


50% of Western marriage is yes--the cadaans get married because they would not get a better one. Its all financial transactions and also, love or self esteem transactions. They ask themselves-- what is my league? What is my 'deserving life partner', my equal? Birds of same feather flock together.



The other 49% is marriage based on pure, brainless passion. (majority of it end up in divorces)


1% of the Gaalo marriages is marriage formed out of homosexual denial, etc etc etc. After all, A muslim human and Gaalo human are human beings at the end of the day.

[NewHargeisaGirl]

Basra
aaabayo I don't like men & I cant see myself getting married like EVER what does that make me?
ps. can I have your digits
merci d'avance

[salool]

you should not get married because of feelings, marriages like that usually end bad.
i had no feelings for my wife when we married, 3 years later i am madly in love with her and couldn't imagine being with another woman.

[SimplySerene]

another one of my observations and unsolicited advice.

if you see a marriage where the couple have no conflict and do not fight or argue, it means that there is no love, and the marriage is doomed.

If you see a couple that constantly fight and argue , it means they have issues to sort out, but nothing too serious.

f you see a couple that fight and argue from time to time , it means that this is a normal and healthy relationship and will probably last.

You would have thought this is the best of marriages. Also it does not exist, you can not live with someone and not fight.

Really? I always that would be a good marriage. Two people who know how to communicate well together without conflict. I am fine with disagreements but arguments stress me out.