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... after couple of years of marriage and having two kids, "there is no way in hell you get more kids"?

Marry a second one. I would do that if she wants to act like the only baby machine in the world.

I am not sure if it's the way you worded it but the question kinda seems confusing.

Are you saying that the wife asks the husband if he's still capable of making more kids? Or you're trying to say she doesn't want more kids after the 2 kids?

And all the cost of child rearing in the West, who wants to have more than 2 kids? Well, unless you're super rich & love, I mean really love babies and with all their messy ways or you're having kids to have more cayr & don't give a damn about their proper upbringing and having what it takes to be a decent parent.

Twist my nigga, just take an option

My answer is C and I voted. I actually have no problem if my wife says she doesn't want to have more children because my plan is to marry as much as I can.

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It disgusts me that you have "beat her into submission" on there. You know DAMN WELL that you can't beat NO WOMAN into submission. If I got beat by my husband, that's a dead man walking... Lord be with him. I'm sure its like that with most Somali women on this site and out in real world too.... with the exception of a few weak ones. The minute the husband raises hand on wife, its always divorce.

A better answer would be divorce or accept it and get along. She gave you two freaking kids... wtf? be grateful and keep it moving.

Depends on where you live on how many kids you have. In America raising one kid is expensive. Average cost over $200,000. That is why in America two kids is an average, and four kids is a big family. It is important to be responsible. Even in Somalia how many children are orphaned or left behind. You must always be responsible when having children. There are too many children from divorced parents as it is. Don't have seven kids if you can't take care of them.

wax yaalahan waxa fiican inay dadku ka wada hadlaan intaanu aroosku dhicin.Ta labaad what guarantee do you've that Allah will bless you with healthy children.Imsa caruur badan dooneyay oo markay caruur xanuunsaneysa dhalen iska dhaafey wax danbe.

Life is full of surprises, so dont assume it will go smoothly as you planned.

She acts like a demon, she will get treated like a demon.

C obviously

It disgusts me that you have "beat her into submission" on there. You know DAMN WELL that you can't beat NO WOMAN into submission. If I got beat by my husband, that's a dead man walking... Lord be with him. I'm sure its like that with most Somali women on this site and out in real world too.... with the exception of a few weak ones. The minute the husband raises hand on wife, its always divorce.

A better answer would be divorce or accept it and get along. She gave you two freaking kids... wtf? be grateful and keep it moving.

Is it just me or is s'net just been creating different scenerios to justify a second wife?

Is it just me or is s'net just been creating different scenerios to justify a second wife?

like second wife needs justification