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Guur Ayuuto
Posted: Wed Apr 03, 2013 1:05 pm
by Minneapolis Mayor
I am thinking about starting ayuuto/hagbad with punch of Single Friends so that each of us can get married when he takes the Ayuuto. It will be about $500 a month and we are 15 guys for 30 months . We need $15000 for each person. We can have one guy get married every 2 months. That would be like 30/12= 2 1/2 yrs. It isn't that bad. Within 2 1/2 yrs, All of us would be married. Each of us can cash his own wedding with the $15000. deposit for the appartment,furniture, aroos, gabaati etc.
Sounds like a good plan wallaahi. Anyone of you want to join us? The creteria for joining is, You must have a job, be single guy and bring Someone that is going to assure you in case you run bankrupt or refused to pay. If you die or become totally unresponsive, you are forgiven. If you become handicapped but still gets money from the state, you pay.
PM me your name and Number if you are interested.
Re: Guur Ayuuto
Posted: Wed Apr 03, 2013 1:07 pm
by AbkoowDhiblaawe
Re: Guur Ayuuto
Posted: Wed Apr 03, 2013 1:11 pm
by salool
Re: Guur Ayuuto
Posted: Wed Apr 03, 2013 1:14 pm
by Yohannes
How does risk for ayuuto get handled in the west? Do you join into these schemes by signing a contract or is it purely based on trust? Do you conduct a background and credit check on applicants? btw, shouldn't a key criteria be you've a sweetheart ready and waiting in the wings?
Re: Guur Ayuuto
Posted: Wed Apr 03, 2013 1:16 pm
by MujahidAishah
15 k whr r u planning to live in a cardboard box ... Or use the wedding dress as a tent
Re: Guur Ayuuto
Posted: Wed Apr 03, 2013 1:20 pm
by salool
How does risk for ayuuto get handled in the west? Do you join into these schemes by signing a contract or is it purely based on trust? Do you conduct a background and credit check on applicants? btw, shouldn't a key criteria be you've a sweetheart ready and waiting in the wings?
It's based on trust, personally i'm not a big fan of it.It's better to save ur money in a saving account.Maanta o dhan dad iska dabo orda waa buuq socda.The good thing with hagbad is if you need fast cash it's interest free.
Re: Guur Ayuuto
Posted: Wed Apr 03, 2013 1:24 pm
by salool
15 k whr r u planning to live in a cardboard box ... Or use the wedding dress as a tent
Furaash yar oo qalalan bu is laha oo ibii iyo afar sixni iyo xabad disdy ah oo cunta ugu kariso.

Re: Guur Ayuuto
Posted: Wed Apr 03, 2013 1:26 pm
by Minneapolis Mayor
How does risk for ayuuto get handled in the west? Do you join into these schemes by signing a contract or is it purely based on trust? Do you conduct a background and credit check on applicants? btw, shouldn't a key criteria be you've a sweetheart ready and waiting in the wings?
You don't have to have a girl ready. If you don't have a girl at the moment, you just go to the end of the line. There are those who are ready now, those who would be ready after 6 months etc. Like myself, I just met my girl In February and not planning to get married before at least 6 months. I am gonna let couple of guys go a head of me.
Re: Guur Ayuuto
Posted: Wed Apr 03, 2013 1:28 pm
by Minneapolis Mayor
15 k whr r u planning to live in a cardboard box ... Or use the wedding dress as a tent
Furaash yar oo qalalan bu is laha oo ibii iyo afar sixni iyo xabad disdy ah oo cunta ugu kariso.

waxaan isku qaldaysaah 1500 iyo 15,000. Waxaan kawadaah shan iyo toban kun oo dollars. Aqalka ugu qaalisan minneapolis 8000 Kama badna and that lives us with another 7000 to spend on islamic wedding and other small things like rooga iyo darka etc. Lacag baaba kasoo harayso.
Re: Guur Ayuuto
Posted: Wed Apr 03, 2013 1:28 pm
by AbkoowDhiblaawe
hur mkt anser du är tillräckligt för ett bröllop?

Re: Guur Ayuuto
Posted: Wed Apr 03, 2013 1:29 pm
by SelfD
15K is more than enough... U can do a small reception party and buy furniture for the crib. Plus if u use it wisely have money left over a nice honeymoon.
I personally think its stupid to spend so much on one day but everyones diff.

Re: Guur Ayuuto
Posted: Wed Apr 03, 2013 1:32 pm
by salool
Warsheekh, bara möblerna kommer att kosta 10k, har du varit på en möbelaffär på sistone? allting är så dyrt.

Re: Guur Ayuuto
Posted: Wed Apr 03, 2013 1:43 pm
by AbuAnonymous
Do Ayuuto/Hagbad/Shalongo with your hooyos/aabo's friends,never ever join ayuuto with ppl u don't know,unless you're trynna get hustled as Warsheekh mentioned.
Hall rent:$1500-2000
Decoration:$1000
Food:$2000
Furniture:$3000-$5000
First month rent plus deposit: House:$2500:Apartment:$1600
Sooryo:??
Etc...
I'd rather marry xaliimos like this one from back home as little as $2000 depending on if shes from a very well known family.
MAXIMUM 5gs
CODDDDD DAMNNNNNNNNNNN.

Re: Guur Ayuuto
Posted: Wed Apr 03, 2013 1:57 pm
by SummerRain
What about the gold for the girl? taas qarshahada maba kudarin miya habaryar? YOu need to spend atleast 6k minimun on gold. 15k can barely cover the house and her lunch for the mahr

Re: Guur Ayuuto
Posted: Wed Apr 03, 2013 2:31 pm
by AbkoowDhiblaawe