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Marriage Etiquette

Posted: Thu Apr 18, 2013 12:59 pm
by Tiburon
Salams all,

Can someone here tell me if age 37 is too late for aroos for decent somali girl. I am talking talking about professional somali girl looking for a prospective husband. Please do not tell me the whole cliched tolka haloola hadlo oo nin haloo raadiyo. There got to be a way for a hardworking inan to get hitched with hopefully a decent dude in her age range. This I say after having a healthy discussion with someone I know two weeks ago and doing my own research by asking somali guys and girls in my city and even state.

Walahi I was baffled and even saddened by the pathetic attempts of some guys thinking professional girls are some sort of chopped liver!! Whatever happened to chivalry and being a secure man. Heck some girls cosigned and agreed with these dudes.

Your take somaliyeey. Try to empathize with this situation, what would you have done or how should she go about this prospective hunting, albeit discreetly. Thanks all....

Re: Marriage Etiquette

Posted: Thu Apr 18, 2013 1:02 pm
by Marques
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Re: Marriage Etiquette

Posted: Thu Apr 18, 2013 1:07 pm
by Individual
Women have no age, i'd marry you on the spot if i could my beauty :rose:

Re: Marriage Etiquette

Posted: Thu Apr 18, 2013 1:13 pm
by Tiburon
easy there individual, I am a dude sxb.

Re: Marriage Etiquette

Posted: Thu Apr 18, 2013 1:14 pm
by AgentOfChaos
First of all it's not a necessity but rather just an option, so to answer your question I would say no, it's never too late to get married but not at the expense of one's dreams.

Re: Marriage Etiquette

Posted: Thu Apr 18, 2013 1:30 pm
by Individual
That I KNOW, so now come and accept my ring; and lets :blessed:

Re: Marriage Etiquette

Posted: Thu Apr 18, 2013 1:50 pm
by BlackVelvet
If she get's married she does, if she doesn't, she doesn't. Why stress about it? So on a personal level I would tell her to chill and enjoy her life, whatever is meant to happen will happen.


And to answer your question no, it's not too late. It's never too late.

Re: Marriage Etiquette

Posted: Thu Apr 18, 2013 2:06 pm
by Tuushi
It is never too late i guess.

It might be if she wanted to have her own soccer team children.

Re: Marriage Etiquette

Posted: Thu Apr 18, 2013 2:32 pm
by Lillaahiya
Qadar Illahay. Regardless of what mandem tell you, if it's written for you, it'll happen.

Re: Marriage Etiquette

Posted: Fri Apr 19, 2013 5:52 am
by Tiburon
Thanks guys. Others...

Re: Marriage Etiquette

Posted: Fri Apr 19, 2013 9:46 am
by salool
Hadayba 37yrs single aheyd maxay hada nin ku fali...injoy ur singlnimu ku dheh :blessed:

Re: Marriage Etiquette

Posted: Fri Apr 19, 2013 10:17 am
by SummerRain
salool wrote:Hadayba 37yrs single aheyd maxay hada nin ku fali...injoy ur singlnimu ku dheh :blessed:

Xaasidad, ma ninba laga marmara? Why stay single when she can be with someone? Life is better with a companion sister.

Re: Marriage Etiquette

Posted: Fri Apr 19, 2013 10:24 am
by wiyeer
Ismahan123 wrote:
salool wrote:Hadayba 37yrs single aheyd maxay hada nin ku fali...injoy ur singlnimu ku dheh :blessed:

Xaasidad, ma ninba laga marmara? Why stay single when she can be with someone? Life is better with a companion sister.
Si fiicanbaad ugu sheegtay

Re: Marriage Etiquette

Posted: Fri Apr 19, 2013 10:26 am
by salool
Ismahan..

37yrs ayey empty bed jiiftay oy dib oo dhigtay guur because of education and career and now all of the sudden she wants a man?...40ki bey qoorta ugu jirta.wax kasta wa iska qoraal horta but you make ur own choices and you have to liv with the consequences of it.It's unfair to her future children as well, by the time that kid turns 10 she is in her 50s...waa xiligi ay ayeeyo noqon laheyd. :mindblown:

Re: Marriage Etiquette

Posted: Fri Apr 19, 2013 10:29 am
by Tuushi
Ismahan123 wrote:
salool wrote:Hadayba 37yrs single aheyd maxay hada nin ku fali...injoy ur singlnimu ku dheh :blessed:

Xaasidad, ma ninba laga marmara? Why stay single when she can be with someone? Life is better with a companion sister.
Water,air,shelter and food arent life` necessities any more?

Salool.Why do u think their is a guideline on how and when one need to life how they choose?