Am I a racist?

[PrettyPrincess]

I have never dated outside my nationality, just figured that it was because cadaans, ajnabis or other africans werent my type.
Last night I went out with my sisters and my cousin out for a cop of coffe and this arab guy approached me and started speaking arabic.
I told him I dont speak arabic and then the poor thing started to speak broken english .
I honestly didnt understand much from what he was saying but I got that he was asking me out.
After saying no thank you, he asked me why and I simply said I dont date arabs. I am not a racist, I have alot of arab, white, turkish and west african friends. However this boy had the nerve to call me racist. I dont know how long we were sitting in that coffeshop but it felt like forever.
And the whole time we were there this boy kept speaking arabic to his friends and occasionally I would hear him say (rasist gal) followed by a sarcastic smile . Anyways, I know who I am but I guess that the whole episode in the coffeshop made me think a little bit. Am I a racist, why do I only date somali boys etc. What do you guys think? Am I a racist or do I just have a certain type, who happen to be (only somali men).

[djibsomali]

Before any discussion let set the paramaters so we do understand each other
What is dating?
what does it involves?

[PrettyPrincess]

Before any discussion let set the paramaters so we do understand each other
What is dating?
what does it involves?

You want me to explain to you what dating is?

[Adali]

Don't let it get to your head, some men are insecure and cannot handle rejections, refusing to date people from a particular ethnicity is not racism, it is within your right to date who you want, we all have our preferences.

Indhayar women

[wiyeer]

@PrettyPrincess

ur not a racist, rather u r like a gate keeper guarding the castle of the king against intruders.lol

[Vivacious]

Yes you are and so am I. I have been called racist many times so who cares. Don't let these kinds of guys change your preferences. You date Somali guys only, then stick to them. Somali guys

[adam2000]

the goal of this fagot arab was to have sex with you and you refuse
and is it alowed for a muslim girl to date

[Sheikh Mustafa]

Abaayo, You used abusive and uncivilized technique to turn the guy down. Why on earth would you tell him I don't date Arabs? Adiga xitaa you were trying to proof something to your girlfriends. Why didn't you tell him I am sorry I am not Interested or that you are not ready? I Pakistani girl one time told me she does not date black people and it really made me look at her in a different way. I used to help her with homework etc because we were in the same class and she was a hijabi muslim and I cut her off from that day. If she would tell me she was not interested, I would be happy with her but telling me she does not date black people? fock her.

[Thuganomics]

Before any discussion let set the paramaters so we do understand each other
What is dating?
what does it involves?

You want me to explain to you what dating is?

perfectly legitimate question for a Muslim person if you are not Muslim.however,I could see why you'd post a "You sure smiley"

[FarhanYare]

Abaayo, You used abusive and uncivilized technique to turn the guy down. Why on earth would you tell him I don't date Arabs? Adiga xitaa you were trying to proof something to your girlfriends. Why didn't you tell him I am sorry I am not Interested or that you are not ready? I Pakistani girl one time told me she does not date black people and it really made me look at her in a different way. I used to help her with homework etc because we were in the same class and she was a hijabi muslim and I cut her off from that day. If she would tell me she was not interested, I would be happy with her but telling me she does not date black people? fock her.

taas waa racist aan qarsoniin. hindi waa wada qashiin islaweyni weyn ayaa ku jiirto

[PrettyPrincess]

Don't let it get to your head, some men are insecure and cannot handle rejections, refusing to date people from a particular ethnicity is not racism, it is within your right to date who you want, we all have our preferences.

Indhayar women

I guess I did let it go to my head. Never been called a racist before so it kinda hit me hard. But you're right as always, we all have our preferences

[PrettyPrincess]

@PrettyPrincess

ur not a racist, rather u r like a gate keeper guarding the castle of the king against intruders.lol

Looool, that was a new one! . Im not a racist, thanks for recoqnizing that

[PrettyPrincess]

Yes you are and so am I. I have been called racist many times so who cares. Don't let these kinds of guys change your preferences. You date Somali guys only, then stick to them. Somali guys

Looool, the word racist just rubs me the wrong way though. I dont believe in racism, I dont have anything against people who choose to date outside their race; its just not for me! P.s team somali boys all day every day

[PrettyPrincess]

the goal of this fagot arab was to have sex with you and you refuse
and is it alowed for a muslim girl to date

Loool, sex aah? So is that what all men think when they ask a girl out . Thanks for giving me an insight on how you guys think, caajib

[PrettyPrincess]

Before any discussion let set the paramaters so we do understand each other
What is dating?
what does it involves?

You want me to explain to you what dating is?

perfectly legitimate question for a Muslim person if you are not Muslim.however,I could see why you'd post a "You sure smiley"

Subhannalah, did u just suggest I was a non-muslim for asking you that question with a UNSURE smiley? I respect your opinions on dating but just because we dont share the same views doesnt mean im less of a muslim than you! P.s Its a great sin to call another muslim for a non-muslim, be carefull with your words dude!