First of all aboowe, I wasnt showing off to nobody! I was there with my sisters for god sake! Im a very politeful person and I respect others as I would like to be respected. I said no thank you, thinking the guy would respect that and walk away. I wasnt prepared to be asked why and when he kept asking me I gave him a honest answer; maybe a bit too honest but like I said he caught me off guard! Im sorry that you have been in a similare situation and felt hurt by the girls answer. I get that the truth hurts but what was I supposed to do? Lie?Abaayo, You used abusive and uncivilized technique to turn the guy down. Why on earth would you tell him I don't date Arabs? Adiga xitaa you were trying to proof something to your girlfriends. Why didn't you tell him I am sorry I am not Interested or that you are not ready? I Pakistani girl one time told me she does not date black people and it really made me look at her in a different way. I used to help her with homework etc because we were in the same class and she was a hijabi muslim and I cut her off from that day. If she would tell me she was not interested, I would be happy with her but telling me she does not date black people? fock her.
