Stalkers...

[*zabah]

have any of you had a stalker...and if so then what did you do?

[ill-seed]

cut to the chase

who is stalking u?

[*zabah]

u----

[Gamadid.]

The question should have been, What kind of stalker is stalking you there are two kinds:

A- One who gets to know you, a normal kinda guy at first, he develops a love for you but you reject him. It is not easy for him to accept that, so he hangs on to hopes that may be one day you are going to change your mind about him. He convinces himself that you love him really or loved him, he is confused progressively, his obsession and stalking is on and off depending on how friendly you are towards him. With his kind of STALKER, you can get rid of him by not being nice to him at all. No matter how difficult it is for him to leave you alone, it will dawn on him that the well has already dried and he is gonna die of thirst if he doesn't move along in search of water to survive

B- The second kind is sick, you don't KNOW him or barely know him, nonetheless, he makes your life miserable enough for you to seek the help of others to stop him.


Hope that helped.


PS: For the first one, if he is gentle and nice, you will be able to handle him, the second is dangerous and you should confront him by accusing him to anyone you think will stop him from contacting you. If he is Somali, and you know his family or other relatives whom he respects, may be they can talk some sense into him, Or his friends. Good LUCK.

Bye Now.

[B-MAX]

{{One who gets to know you, a normal kinda guy at first, he develops a love for you but you reject him. }}

How can you fall in love with a Chick on a Forum board?
Gamadid, Are you talking about your experiences?

Nice to see you again man!

[Gamadid.]

May be I was talking about you bro B-MAX and you couldn't dare say Bullseye somebody knows me Got cha! didn't I ?

Saxib, ii warran? I will be back later if i can inshallah. Bye Bro.

[B-MAX]

Take Care bro.

[Cawar]

A woman Stalker is the worst I say.

Man she even went talking to ...

Alxamdulilah she is gone!!!!!!!!!!!!

[The-Screw]

i had a female stalker in high school. i guess she had a crush on me or something b/c she was always following me around in school and out... i later transfered without telling anyone, dont know what happened to her after that.

[Babygal]

RUN Z OR HIDE BEHIND YOUR HUSBAND EVERY TIME YOUR STALKER IS AROUND...

WELL IF HE ISN'T YOUR OWN HUSBAND....

[sexy-kitten]

[quote="*zabah"]have any of you had a stalker...and if so then what did you do?[/quote]

Bismillaah... They wont leave you alone ma is tidhi? They truely live up to their name. One who keeps calling you. If you don't answer, he'll call in 10 minutes. If you still don't answer, he'll call first thing tomorrow. There was one, some xamari guy. I went to Banaadir(Somali mall), I saw him there, we greeted, I got in my car and left for Global(another Somali mall).. He was there... Than, I went to Jubba(Somali mall) and he was there.. Markaan weydiiye wuxuu ii dabo socdo, kulahaa "I just wanted to say, wassup" ... I went to a nearby xaafad to pick up my mom, he was sitting in the car, talking on the phone!


Advice for Zabah, just tell them to leave you alone hadii kale 5-0 ayaad ugu waceysaa.

[Miss_Killa_Foodstampz]

i had a Faarax stalker in my hood walaahi this faarax was every were i was iam talking about Mall/Salon/parties/weddings/my friends house/YMCA he even applyed for my job wuxuu indho adka i told my boss if u hire him iam off the door he was like chill gurl iam not hiring him then it got to the point that i told my older brothers coz i couldn't take it no more and they did something God knows what it is he left me alone The End

[LionHeart-112]

Nope. I never had a stalker..I did have secret admirers but no stalkers..

HOWEVER,

I DID STALK SOME1 FOR ABOUT 3 MONTHS...

IT WAS SOME1 I LOVED VERY VERY VERY MUCH.

I JUST DROVE BY HER HOUSE EVERY DAY JUST TO GET A GLIMPSE OF HER CAR..NOT EVEN HER..JUST SEEING HER CAR WAS ENOUGH WALLAHI..

THAT MEANT SHE WAS SAFE AND INSIDE THE HOUSE, NOT OUT WITH SOME1 ELSE..

I'D JUST PARK MY CAR IN THE PARK BEHIND HER HOUSE AND WAIT FOR HER TO COME OUT SIDE WHEN SHE TOOK THE TRASH OR TOOK THE KIDS FROM THE SCHOOL BUS...OH SHE LOOKED EVEN BETTER FROM AFAR..I WISHED I HAD BINOCULARS.

COUPLE OF TIMES I TRIED TO TAKE A PEAK THROUGH HER BEDROOM WINDOW BUT I THOUGHT THAT'D BE HARAM SO I DECIDED AGAINST IT..

OH BOY..WHAT MEMORIES..

ANYWAY, HAVE FUN WITH YOUR STALKER...U SHOULD FEEL PRIVILEDGED.

[optimist_1]

[quote="Miss_Killa_Foodstampz"]i had a Faarax stalker in my hood walaahi this faarax was every were i was iam talking about Mall/Salon/parties/weddings/my friends house/YMCA he even applyed for my job wuxuu indho adka i told my boss if u hire him iam off the door he was like chill gurl iam not hiring him then it got to the point that i told my older brothers coz i couldn't take it no more and they did something God knows what it is he left me alone The End[/quote]

Age??

[Samatr]

[quote="LionHeart-112"]Nope. I never had a stalker..I did have secret admirers but no stalkers..

HOWEVER,

I DID STALK SOME1 FOR ABOUT 3 MONTHS...

IT WAS SOME1 I LOVED VERY VERY VERY MUCH.

I JUST DROVE BY HER HOUSE EVERY DAY JUST TO GET A GLIMPSE OF HER CAR..NOT EVEN HER..JUST SEEING HER CAR WAS ENOUGH WALLAHI..

THAT MEANT SHE WAS SAFE AND INSIDE THE HOUSE, NOT OUT WITH SOME1 ELSE..

I'D JUST PARK MY CAR IN THE PARK BEHIND HER HOUSE AND WAIT FOR HER TO COME OUT SIDE WHEN SHE TOOK THE TRASH OR TOOK THE KIDS FROM THE SCHOOL BUS...OH SHE LOOKED EVEN BETTER FROM AFAR..I WISHED I HAD BINOCULARS.

COUPLE OF TIMES I TRIED TO TAKE A PEAK THROUGH HER BEDROOM WINDOW BUT I THOUGHT THAT'D BE HARAM SO I DECIDED AGAINST IT..

OH BOY..WHAT MEMORIES..

ANYWAY, HAVE FUN WITH YOUR STALKER...U SHOULD FEEL PRIVILEDGED.[/quote]

A jealous peeping Tom.