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Re: I don't want you to be no slave
Posted: Mon Aug 19, 2013 12:02 pm
by ms.naliaa
lol
I can certainly help in that department.
Re: I don't want you to be no slave
Posted: Mon Aug 19, 2013 12:03 pm
by BlackVelvet
Fire away Lady Nalia, I'm taking down my notes
Re: I don't want you to be no slave
Posted: Mon Aug 19, 2013 12:13 pm
by ms.naliaa
For one, I think you need know that if you pursue this; there is no coming back. I know well enough that if this flops you will stop going to that place all together.
Okay, you HAVE to say something to him. To get over your jitters, think of him as one of your male friends. Talk to him the way you would talk to any friend. Im sure you have good looking male friends, and you got over their handsomeness.
Take stock of the girls he talks to as well. You mentioned that he has girls around him all the time...find out which he pays mind to and which he doesnt.
If you are with me so far....we can go phase 2
Re: I don't want you to be no slave
Posted: Mon Aug 19, 2013 12:22 pm
by BlackVelvet
Okay I'm curious what's next.
ps It's not his good looks per se (he's not the only good looking in the world) it's his demeanour and his stare even when there's other people around him/talking to him
Re: I don't want you to be no slave
Posted: Mon Aug 19, 2013 1:05 pm
by Cherine
BV ma Somali baa?
Re: I don't want you to be no slave
Posted: Mon Aug 19, 2013 1:17 pm
by ms.naliaa
Well the next time is talking to him
p.s.
Is he muslim
and what is your end game??
Depening on your answer, we can customize phase 2
Re: I don't want you to be no slave
Posted: Mon Aug 19, 2013 1:22 pm
by BlackVelvet
Just continue hee I am sure it will come in handy at some point.
This guy is pure eye candy it will go nowhere, I just don't want to feel awkward every time I go to the supermarket. He's probably not Muslim, who knows maybe he reverted, maybe he was raised in a Muslim home, he is white though so it's all guess work.
Maybe I'll be cured by some miracle, won't know until next time I run into him.
Re: I don't want you to be no slave
Posted: Mon Aug 19, 2013 1:30 pm
by ms.naliaa
lool well in that case, it will be super easy to talk to him. You want nothing out of it, its just pure for fun.
Just say "hey, how you doin today" next time and let him take the lead for the rest.
If you find yourself blushing (good thing you cant tell with black people) look at him and just say to yourself "just eye candy....just eye candy"
Re: I don't want you to be no slave
Posted: Mon Aug 19, 2013 1:37 pm
by BlackVelvet
When I say blushing I don't just mean changing colour (yes thank God) I mean the stupid, someone punch me in the face already grin that won't go away.
Re: I don't want you to be no slave
Posted: Mon Aug 19, 2013 1:45 pm
by ms.naliaa
I think that's endearing and it only makes you attractive in my opinion
Re: I don't want you to be no slave
Posted: Mon Aug 19, 2013 1:45 pm
by Insomniac
Yes, lead on a man. What could go wrong? It is just pure fun.
Re: I don't want you to be no slave
Posted: Mon Aug 19, 2013 1:53 pm
by hydrogen
Yes, lead on a man. What could go wrong? It is just pure fun.

Re: I don't want you to be no slave
Posted: Mon Aug 19, 2013 1:58 pm
by ms.naliaa
Yes, lead on a man. What could go wrong? It is just pure fun.
You had your chance.
Dont P-block her
Re: I don't want you to be no slave
Posted: Mon Aug 19, 2013 2:01 pm
by FAH1223
Maybe I'll be cured by some miracle, won't know until next time I run into him.
You're losing your sense of self for a white dude?

Lord have mercy.
Here's a way for you to not be attracted to him. Or rather, become disgusted. Just think, these cadaans don't even wash themselves after they use the restroom. Think of that and you shall be cured.
Re: I don't want you to be no slave
Posted: Mon Aug 19, 2013 2:04 pm
by Insomniac
Mate, she stutters and blushes after seeing the dude. I don't think she has time to think about how disgusting cadaans are.