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Awoowo I had enough elders telling me ceeb, adviceka waan kaa qaaday, lakin intad hadlaysa bad aniga ii ceebisay.

LOL! Didn't mean to, awoowe. I thought you were just trolling but you really meant to blow your own trumpet?

No! Wtf you misunderstood me mayne.

#notcool

^ Yo, who is that old man in your avatar? I know you know that that can't be you, caana-nuug.

It ain't me it's some faceless avatar I found on the display gallery

Why did you change it?

To someone you love and care about, and because you aren't feeling your best, what are the options? When you know they can read your emotions through your words, and even when you pretend you are happy and smiling, you fear they might sense your inner voice, what can you do about it?


People who love you generally make you feel good by virtue of their company, yet, is it a good idea to be around them in your down time?




Discuss.

When you share ur life with someone, you share everything.Your good days, your bad days...but once you start hiding ur feelings somthing is up.Do somthing about it before it's to late.

When you're not happy with who you are, another's presence won't help. Faking it will hurt you far more than her. And no matter how much you try, convincing someone who knows you, who truly knows you, is nearly impossible. There is nothing you can do about it other than heal yourself. If she "loves" and cares about you as much as you do her, then explain it fully. If she isn't willing to at least understand, then consider that for what it is.

Fix yourself first. It might take longer than you think.

First on Somnet.

To see a dude openly talking about being inlove. Salute.

Maxaa dhacay saxib? Aren't dudes supposed to love a woman so they can have a life with some quality? Sometimes people go the traditional route and marry through arrangements by family or friends, and they can live happy without falling in love first. Sometimes it fails miserably and life goes on. Our culture primarily existed in that fashion for over thousand years where love was despised emotion. Men were shunned for expressing such emotions as love. Somalis were hardy group of people who wouldn't kiss their children traditionally. But in today's world, it is common for a man to fall in love and pursue the woman he wants, hug and kiss the kids, call his wife "honey" etc. I think love is only for serious minded males. Others who can't fall in love or don't wanna be bothered with that emotion take the view of relationships being pleasure-based. Short term gigs that bear no fruits. Ask Twist, he is an expert in chasing skirts. I doubt he gets any at all, but he seems to relish in the pursuit.

Have you read Cilmi Boodhari's poems? the Somali icon when it comes to love who died loving Hodan? very beautiful poems he composed expressing his feelings for Hodan, and the troubles he went through because of love. In a way, Love does make one suffer if it doesn't succeed.


Thanks for the salute. I will take it.

When you're not happy with who you are, another's presence won't help. Faking it will hurt you far more than her. And no matter how much you try, convincing someone who knows you, who truly knows you, is nearly impossible. There is nothing you can do about it other than heal yourself. If she "loves" and cares about you as much as you do her, then explain it fully. If she isn't willing to at least understand, then consider that for what it is. Fix yourself first. It might take longer than you think.

Thank you. Good advise. I highlighted the parts I liked the most. PS: It is not who I am or something in my personality that I am not happy about however. It is conditions and other issues that exist which need to be dealt with that weigh on my mind, hence, the struggle with thoughts. Sometimes you would like to protect somebody by not emotionally getting them involved in something you can handle on your own. but as you suggested, it is a good idea to get her involved in my thought process. Does she love me as much as I love her? I will go ask her

First on Somnet.

To see a dude openly talking about being inlove. Salute.

Maxaa dhacay saxib? Aren't dudes supposed to love a woman so they can have a life with some quality? Sometimes people go the traditional route and marry through arrangements by family or friends, and they can live happy without falling in love first. Sometimes it fails miserably and life goes on. Our culture primarily existed in that fashion for over thousand years where love was despised emotion. Men were shunned for expressing such emotions as love. Somalis were hardy group of people who wouldn't kiss their children traditionally. But in today's world, it is common for a man to fall in love and pursue the woman he wants, hug and kiss the kids, call his wife "honey" etc. I think love is only for serious minded males. Others who can't fall in love or don't wanna be bothered with that emotion take the view of relationships being pleasure-based. Short term gigs that bear no fruits. Ask Twist, he is an expert in chasing skirts. I doubt he gets any at all, but he seems to relish in the pursuit.

Have you read Cilmi Boodhari's poems? the Somali icon when it comes to love who died loving Hodan? very beautiful poems he composed expressing his feelings for Hodan, and the troubles he went through because of love. In a way, Love does make one suffer if it doesn't succeed.


Thanks for the salute. I will take it.

When you're not happy with who you are, another's presence won't help. Faking it will hurt you far more than her. And no matter how much you try, convincing someone who knows you, who truly knows you, is nearly impossible. There is nothing you can do about it other than heal yourself. If she "loves" and cares about you as much as you do her, then explain it fully. If she isn't willing to at least understand, then consider that for what it is. Fix yourself first. It might take longer than you think.

Thank you. Good advise. I highlighted the parts I liked the most. PS: It is not who I am or something in my personality that I am not happy about however. It is conditions and other issues that exist which need to be dealt with that weigh on my mind, hence, the struggle with thoughts. Sometimes you would like to protect somebody by not emotionally getting them involved in something you can handle on your own.

You're welcome, and I hope it helps. Good luck.

Alpha, Thanks.




ElfRuler

Speak your mind.

Reacher: Have you ever considered writing movie scripts for Bollywood? You would be really good at it.

Reacher: Have you ever considered writing movie scripts for Bollywood? You would be really good at it.

If you are willing to act in it, of course, I will consider to sit down for the script. And no worries, will make the lead character to your liking.

when you pretend you are happy and smiling

That's your problem right there. Never be in a relationship you have to pretend something you're not.

ok don't pretend but how about changing your ways? ..say like if the person you're in a relationship with is changing u for the better. would you change for that person?

Hadalkaaga won't change the fact I'm 18, I know people find it hard to find a 18 year old as unique as I am, but trust me breh I'm 18.