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Calm down. Being bullied is part of life. Most of us have gone through it. When I was your age, my classmates or even the average young Somali had this notion that cadcads are cowards who cannot fight. They would come to me and say: "Carabyahoow, dagaalkaagaan rabaa." I fought with them many times and won most of the fights save for a few times when more than one ganged up against me. I've a few scars from those fights. Avoid fights if you can. Form an alliance with others like you. Inquire about how to handle bullies. I'm curious; what nationals are those bullying you?I dont care if im alone anymore. it'll just be me and him. Even in a fight both of us can take one down.
Screw them.
they are mainly madowsCalm down. Being bullied is part of life. Most of us have gone through it. When I was your age, my classmates or even the average young Somali had this notion that cadcads are cowards who cannot fight. They would come to me and say: "Carabyahoow, dagaalkaagaan rabaa." I fought with them many times and won most of the fights save for a few times when more than one ganged up against me. I've a few scars from those fights. Avoid fights if you can. Form an alliance with others like you. Inquire about how to handle bullies. I'm curious; what nationals are those bullying you?I dont care if im alone anymore. it'll just be me and him. Even in a fight both of us can take one down.
Screw them.
a good solution thanks a lot sxbAdeer,
Do this. You will die one day. Watch when a teacher is in the class one day and Give him the WTF are you looking at Look. When he speaks back, Get a chair and start bounding on him. The teacher will probably intervene and the case will go to the principle. You then talk at that time and say everything that has been happening. You will not be considered a snitch at that time, because there was a fight and the school investigated. I did that one time to a kikuyu guy who used to pick on us. I went to the dorm got a somali knife and started chasing him in the whole school with 500 people watching. Teachers and everybody came and I had to be stopped. Wuu isku xaari gaaray. I said how he was a bully and that the fact that, I would rather die then seeing him a live. He was given detention and I got beaten by the teachers. From that day on, People started calling me Shifta and Farah Aideed. No one even missed up with My Girlfriend at that time.
Adeer qooro ayaan yeeshay.
i dont understans half of what u post.adeer, i think sidad meshan oku hadal badan tahay ban 3atar baqash ka la tagan tahay in the class. adeer amusnantu wa haybad. hadalkaga ha yarado.
He is telling you exactly what I said. Stand up to him when a teacher in the class if he does something slight. Take a chair and tell him to shut the hell up. People will respect you and the teacher will investigate. You will get so many people to support you. Once a the case has gone to the principle, there is no way he can do anything to you anymore. His parent will be called and your parent will be called too.i dont understans half of what u post.adeer, i think sidad meshan oku hadal badan tahay ban 3atar baqash ka la tagan tahay in the class. adeer amusnantu wa haybad. hadalkaga ha yarado.
sxb just post in english to me.
people just mock me. like they always doHe is telling you exactly what I said. Stand up to him when a teacher in the class if he does something slight. Take a chair and tell him to shut the hell up. People will respect you and the teacher will investigate. You will get so many people to support you. Once a the case has gone to the principle, there is no way he can do anything to you anymore. His parent will be called and your parent will be called too.i dont understans half of what u post.adeer, i think sidad meshan oku hadal badan tahay ban 3atar baqash ka la tagan tahay in the class. adeer amusnantu wa haybad. hadalkaga ha yarado.
sxb just post in english to me.
one of them hates me. he truly hates me. the others just mock me. he will try and fight me. he's fat, but not too fat, which makes him a hard opponent. but i need to get him at a time when the others are watching and theres space between me and him so i dont get close to him otherwise im screwedBesides calling you by a nickname you do not like, what else do they do? Do they ever push or hit you physically? I realized bullying in highschool among boys is of a different nature to bullying among girls.
You shouldn't react so much to the nickname, else they will keep calling you it, if you are not bothered by it there simply isn't any fun in calling you by that. If possible, try to think of a creative nickname for the 'ring leader'. Also, if any verbal arguement ensues, do not reply to the peasant followers. If you are able to shut the ring leader up (by being more wittier with your disses, more funnier, more aggressive etc) then the sheep will also leave you alone.
It would help if you are 'casually' picked up afterschool by an elder male relative (brother, cousin etc). Getting into a physical fight should be your last resort, at anyhow if you do, make sure you choose the weakest link, so you look like a proper force to be reckoned with. It is not the end of the world. Seek comfort in its universality. Good luck kiddo.
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