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Re: Social Media
Posted: Wed Jan 01, 2014 12:42 am
by Hyperactive
lilly, social media iyo virtual friends wa iska eyaalnimo, there is time one grows up from that and it's when one marries or hits certain age. we cannot all be like our uncle AW.
Re: Social Media
Posted: Wed Jan 01, 2014 3:23 am
by Vivacious
^

hyper you are funny
If her Facebook is only friends, co-workers and handful of normal guys then I don't mind her to keep her Facebook . I trust her judgment from there on
Eh? Normal guys you say.

Guys are guys, normal or abnormal.
I get you though. If only every guy thought like you. Remember, there are guys who will never consent their woman to be friends with guys on Facebook. However, I do believe that having a 4 digit number of friends is a bit over-the-top.
As for giving the passwords of my accounts, I think that is kinda shallow of him to ask me. That only proves he doesn't trust me, unless I give him a reason to doubt me. He can keep his accounts and I will do the same. There should be trust between us. Couples who trust each other would not share accounts whatsoever.
Re: Social Media
Posted: Wed Jan 01, 2014 9:52 am
by Murax
Social media is fine for the social connection. But theres only so many Instagram Freakum Dress shots, seductive poses out on the town, interesting snapchats a 'married' girl can give before You kinda wonder Wth is wrong with Her. Its a dangerous game because obviously she's tryna get some compliments, slick lines thrown at her from guys to prove she's still got it, but no guy is gonna stop without getting something out of it and even if he doesn't get anything it still friggin sucks for the dude she's supposedly married to. Being a lady in the streets only ain't enough anymore she better be a lady everywhere else

Re: Social Media
Posted: Wed Jan 01, 2014 1:31 pm
by BlackVelvet
I wonder how you'd go about that? Hey we're married now, what's your facebook password
That would make anyone start doing a mental check of anything that may be considered incriminating

Re: Social Media
Posted: Wed Jan 01, 2014 4:06 pm
by Lillaahiya
The way I see it is if I chose this person to be my husband and God willing the father of my children, he's decent enough of a human being to potentially give my passwords to. Now I'm not advocating jealousy or snooping here but for whatever reason, if he needed to use my celly or my gmail, I wouldn't flip out and tell him it's an invasion of my privacy. I think doing the latter would cause more damage than good.
Re: Social Media
Posted: Wed Jan 01, 2014 4:09 pm
by greenday
I won't hide accounts nor shut any down but I'll draw the line at passwords.
Lil phone iyo email wa different like fb, for example almost everyone has access to my phone my code is not much of a secret

and I won't be closing windows or logging out if he needed to use the computer but saying green give me ur fb pass, it would lead to question like, what for

Re: Social Media
Posted: Wed Jan 01, 2014 4:19 pm
by Lillaahiya
^

What's on FB that's not on your cell/email? Taasa qariib ah imo.
I'm telling you folks, waxaa la qariyo qudhun ba ku jira

Re: Social Media
Posted: Wed Jan 01, 2014 4:22 pm
by BlackVelvet
I wouldn't ask for my husband's facebook password, that's his stuff same way I wouldn't ask him for his account PIN. That's just strange.
If by some weird twist I needed to use his facebook (I can't think of a reason off the top of my head) then yeah, same as if you have to buy something with someone's card. Lakinse "here's my password, where's yours" WTH

Re: Social Media
Posted: Wed Jan 01, 2014 4:23 pm
by Advo
Snapchat for the
I love that thang!
Re: Social Media
Posted: Wed Jan 01, 2014 4:28 pm
by Lillaahiya
^ Would you be gucci if the missus had snapchat?
If by some weird twist I needed to use his facebook (I can't think of a reason off the top of my head) then yeah, same as if you have to buy something with someone's card. Lakinse "here's my password, where's yours" WTH

^ This is what I mean.
Back to accounts now

Would you..monitor them?

Re: Social Media
Posted: Wed Jan 01, 2014 4:34 pm
by Advo

hell no
Aint no nygga waiting all day just to check snap pics/vids of her eating a cake or walking down the street. They counting down when she will send something very suggestive.
Re: Social Media
Posted: Wed Jan 01, 2014 4:35 pm
by BlackVelvet
Which part do you agree with the fluke or the show me yours I show you mine?
Re: Social Media
Posted: Wed Jan 01, 2014 4:36 pm
by greenday
Nothing, my fb boring and its true wax la qarsho qurunaa kujiro but its the asking that will cause WW3. How dare he not trust me? People like that are usually the criminals

Re: Social Media
Posted: Wed Jan 01, 2014 4:37 pm
by Lillaahiya
^

"I trust you macaanto, I just don't trust people"
Advo: So how would you go about asking her to delete it?

And what if she leaves one for another

Becomes a keek freak

Re: Social Media
Posted: Wed Jan 01, 2014 4:42 pm
by Advo
With keek u can't delete what u send and the evidence piles up....with snap it self destructs
