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I am in a huge predicament and I need advise.

See, I got married recently to my cousin from my mom's side and it caused a rift between my dad's family and my mom's side of the family. My dad wanted me to get married to his brother's daughter but somehow I ended up on the other side. After few months, my dad is renewing his demand and is doubling his efforts to get hooked to his niece. My mom is against it, however, my dad is swearing that he will divorce my mom if I don't marry his niece as a second wife, and my mom is daring him. She claims that my dad's family are no good and she regrets getting married to them. Now, I am the one in the middle of this fight and suffering.

Talo yaa haayo

Hooyada iyo abaahaba wax weyn ba si ka ah haday sheekadan run tahay.

Cant give you any advice, sorry!

Hooyada iyo abaahaba wax weyn ba si ka ah haday sheekadan run tahay.

avoid shanshi cousin marraiges, marry a shaanshi that u courted urself from uni or something!

What's so special about you?

Why do y'all shaanshi always Marry ur cousins? That shyt causes defects

Marry them both.

most shanshi men marry outside their clan or stay single their wives get stolen, ur wife will get stolen too whichever u marry makes no difference stop sweating

Marry your other cousin and tell your mother to be cool. Tell her the idea is to breed more Reer Xamar so they can one day outnumber the filthy Lamagoodle.

Hooyada iyo abaahaba wax weyn ba si ka ah haday sheekadan run tahay.

Cant give you any advice, sorry!

Waa dhaqanka shaanshiyada. Similar to Pakistan arranged marriages.


Muriidi

Alaah yarxamak

Horto LamoGoodle yaa talo warsan jiri. No one asked you to tell me the validity or not of marrying my cousin, just focus on the issue at hand, will ya? This is our culture, if you don't condone it, fine. Every community have their downsides and this is ours. Lamo Goodle downside is naag oo loola rooraayo oo ciddoodna ogeen oo la mehersahaayo, maxramna u joogin, most of you could be the product of such union, marka shib iska dhaha ee arintaan lee wax ka dhaha.

Hydrogen

I am very special. Wanna see me?

Flywoody,

Come and try to take my wife, waa ku baal tifaa dooro oo la khali camal. You think the West is Somalia where u used your number to subjugate minorities? I will kick your scrawny ass until my foot disappears in it.

Mureedi, ani taladeeyda waxa waaye inaad lameesato.

We need more Reer Xamar ..breed away

I feel a bit sick to my stomach

I thought the man was joking