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LET THE MAN BE DOMINANT, DON'T TRY TO BE HIS INTELLECTUAL EQ

Postby Daanyeer » Sat Mar 29, 2014 12:48 pm

'Let the man be dominant, and DON'T try to be his intellectual equal': Sex tips for women from an outrageously chauvinistic 1945 guide
By MARGOT PEPPERS
PUBLISHED: 19:24 GMT, 25 March 2014 | UPDATED: 19:33 GMT, 25 March 2014



A vintage relationship guide aimed at women reveals the outrageous sexism practiced by men during the Forties.
Thomas Horton's 1945 book What Men Don't Like About Women, which was recently unearthed by TheDebrief, lists a woman's 'discourteous behavior', 'ineptness' and 'vulgar talk' in the bedroom as some of her most deplorable qualities.
The book also explains how a woman should always be subordinate to her man, which includes never taking the lead when it comes to sex.

'There are few things in this world that offend a man more than to be directed in the sex act by his woman,' it reads. 'Nature demands that the male be dominant in bed if nowhere else.'
The writer adds in a rather dire way that while women may believe that telling a man what to do in bed is 'natural', it can in fact ruin a relationship.


'The truth is that it is degrading, that it sets up a terrific inferiority complex in the man, and that the upshot is marital misery - or divorce,' it reads.
Horton goes on to address the habit women apparently have of asking for things during or after sex.
'Could there be any worse time for a woman to ask for a winter coat or a trip to Florida or a new refrigerator or a town car or a spring outfit than in bed with her man?' he writes.

'Yet she does it so often that one might almost look upon it as a congenial trait of the sex.'
Other issues discussed include women's 'ineptness' when it comes to pillow talk.
'[Women] assume that since they are in a state of nature with a man, they are his intellectual equal,' reads the book.
'So they blab and blab, taxing the man's patience no end. What he really wants are quiet rest and sleep.'
Not only does the guide talk about where women go wrong in the bedroom, but it also discusses their faults in the workplace and as a 'walking companion'.
Indeed, one section reads: 'It is absolutely impossible to have a pleasant time walking with a woman.
'She will stop at store windows… she will orate on the value of women getting together to reduce the price of fur coats for working girls, and so on.'
The chapter concludes pessimistically: 'The result of such a walk, of course, is that the man returns home in lower spirits than before - and determined never to see that chatter-box again.'


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Re: LET THE MAN BE DOMINANT, DON'T TRY TO BE HIS INTELLECTUA

Postby Basra- » Sat Mar 29, 2014 1:59 pm

:roll: Men are NOT intellectual. To be intellectual, u need to be learned, well read, and have a deep introspection thoughts. (ok I grant u, there r men who r intellectual, the educated ones. lol) I will grant u, men are capable of being intelligent, even sometimes the number of intelligent men are higher than intelligent women. Intellectualism, is anti- Manliness. A man is supposed to be short tempered, kinda dumb, and physically menacing. :lol: Which brings the question of dominance in the bedroom. Yes, this is what men are designed to do. But, sadly even that--todays men are getting sissy washed left and right that - that pure animalistic dominance has disappeared with civilization. We r left with lazy walking, no energy men with little Gu.s membranes that have a big ego backed up with nothing. :stylin:

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Re: LET THE MAN BE DOMINANT, DON'T TRY TO BE HIS INTELLECTUA

Postby gurey25 » Sat Mar 29, 2014 4:04 pm

men have been femenized at least in the west.
This is why an ethnic man is sexy in the west, feminazism has not dominated there and the men are not confused, the know only how to be men.
Even a feminist who says she wants to be equal to a man, will get her lions under fire if she says a burly swarthy south american, rather than your average white guy.

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Re: LET THE MAN BE DOMINANT, DON'T TRY TO BE HIS INTELLECTUA

Postby Basra- » Sat Mar 29, 2014 4:59 pm

Cough. Cough. :-O :-O I must concur with you.]gurey] (a rarity-even though your analogies of lions and fire has left me salt tasted) :clap:


Ethnic men have not be feminized by the mystique of western civilization. Is it a good thing or a bad thing? Hhhhhmmm Who knows. I know lots of things good about it and lots of things bad about it. It will be ideal to strive a balanced approach, but that is not humanly. :lol:

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Re: LET THE MAN BE DOMINANT, DON'T TRY TO BE HIS INTELLECTUA

Postby Lillaahiya » Sat Mar 29, 2014 6:12 pm

Lol This is very outdated and has little to do with intellectualism.

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Re: LET THE MAN BE DOMINANT, DON'T TRY TO BE HIS INTELLECTUA

Postby TheGrumpyGeeljire » Sat Mar 29, 2014 6:15 pm

Man have been the dominant ones for thousands of years and are still going strong

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Re: LET THE MAN BE DOMINANT, DON'T TRY TO BE HIS INTELLECTUA

Postby jamal9 » Sat Mar 29, 2014 8:53 pm

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Re: LET THE MAN BE DOMINANT, DON'T TRY TO BE HIS INTELLECTUA

Postby Oxidant » Sat Mar 29, 2014 8:59 pm

men have been femenized at least in the west.
This is why an ethnic man is sexy in the west, feminazism has not dominated there and the men are not confused, the know only how to be men.
Even a feminist who says she wants to be equal to a man, will get her lions under fire if she says a burly swarthy south american, rather than your average white guy.
Hogwash,

The only reason some ethnic males get action or are perceived as sexy in the West is because of the novelty factor. Increase their numbers and their desirability plummets. Average white guy is definitely still the most wanted guy by women of all races (mainly for economic and status reasons)

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Re: LET THE MAN BE DOMINANT, DON'T TRY TO BE HIS INTELLECTUA

Postby Lillaahiya » Sat Mar 29, 2014 9:09 pm

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Re: LET THE MAN BE DOMINANT, DON'T TRY TO BE HIS INTELLECTUA

Postby Basra- » Sat Mar 29, 2014 9:16 pm

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. Average white guy is definitely still the most wanted guy by women of all races (mainly for economic and status reasons)

:o Oxi since when did u become a white sycophant? :stylin:

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Re: LET THE MAN BE DOMINANT, DON'T TRY TO BE HIS INTELLECTUA

Postby Oxidant » Sat Mar 29, 2014 9:18 pm

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. Average white guy is definitely still the most wanted guy by women of all races (mainly for economic and status reasons)

:o Oxi since when did u become a white sycophant? :stylin:
I'm not an asskisser. I'm just stating the realities of the global power/dating structure

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Re: LET THE MAN BE DOMINANT, DON'T TRY TO BE HIS INTELLECTUA

Postby SultanOrder » Sat Mar 29, 2014 9:35 pm

Some unknown writer with probably an unknown guide book is making headlines because it fits into our view of that era pushed by feminists.


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Re: LET THE MAN BE DOMINANT, DON'T TRY TO BE HIS INTELLECTUA

Postby gurey25 » Sun Mar 30, 2014 6:42 am

men have been femenized at least in the west.
This is why an ethnic man is sexy in the west, feminazism has not dominated there and the men are not confused, the know only how to be men.
Even a feminist who says she wants to be equal to a man, will get her lions under fire if she says a burly swarthy south american, rather than your average white guy.
Hogwash,

The only reason some ethnic males get action or are perceived as sexy in the West is because of the novelty factor. Increase their numbers and their desirability plummets. Average white guy is definitely still the most wanted guy by women of all races (mainly for economic and status reasons)

for economic reasons thats the main point, but politically correct well trained and feminized but rich white man may be a good marriage choice, but gangbanger or mexican esse will still excite them more sexually...
Aggressiveness and dominance is what women find attractive.
She may marry that nice guy, but she will cheat with the asshole.

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Re: LET THE MAN BE DOMINANT, DON'T TRY TO BE HIS INTELLECTUA

Postby Basra- » Sun Mar 30, 2014 7:21 am

:dj: Oxi I was just kidding with u. I was just surprised a Somali person other than myself is boldly admitting the superiority of a white man. :up: :clap: I am glad u have to come to the 'reality'!



Gurey@Loooooooooooooooooooooooool


It is --again, really sad to see you succumb to the reality of women needs. Given that u r a 'nice guy' (or nice butch lesbo lol) --- u certainly spoke the truth like it has never been spoken before. :stylin:



In 17th and 18th century England-- the aristocratic married women -- were married off for economic reasons. Rich family married rich family to keep the wealth in the family. (no doubt Somali ancients did that too, qabil and all that lol) But what is unique with English aristocratic women is-- there was an unspoken rule that once u give birth to a male child, heir to the wealth, u can go sleep with any bad boy lover u care to spread your legs for. :dj:

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Re: LET THE MAN BE DOMINANT, DON'T TRY TO BE HIS INTELLECTUA

Postby gurey25 » Sun Mar 30, 2014 7:52 am

Basra this was a french cultural practice that spread to other high society in other countries.
After the first male child it was expected that the french women would take a lover.
an unspoken agreement.


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