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Young Somalis are not marrying Somali girls: Success?

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Young Somalis are not marrying Somali girls: Success?

Postby AbdiJohnson » Wed Jun 11, 2014 4:14 am

I know more Somalis (24-35) who married ajnabis than Somalis. In fact, I dont know of any young Somalis who married within the community in the city. This is especially with the case of Somali guys. Their choices include: Vietnamese, Aboriginal, White. Most of the time they haven't even converted them or taught them Somali culture and whatnot. But their marriages are rock solid

Do young Somali guys experience longer and happier marriages when married to foreigners? And why do you think they are not marrying the Somali sisters?


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Re: Young Somalis are not marrying Somali girls: Success?

Postby Adali » Wed Jun 11, 2014 4:34 am

I know more Somalis (24-35) who married ajnabis than Somalis. In fact, I dont know of any young Somalis who married within the community in the city. This is especially with the case of Somali guys. Their choices include: Vietnamese, Aboriginal, White. Most of the time they haven't even converted them or taught them Somali culture and whatnot. But their marriages are rock solid

Do young Somali guys experience longer and happier marriages when married to foreigners? And why do you think they are not marrying the Somali sisters?


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Thailand and Laos etc, these girls will devote themselves to you and the family 100% they are so obedient and adorable, the more I flirt and date with girls from South East Asia the more they confirm the positive stereotypes.

Also east asians like Japan and Korea are great, but I just find them more skinny and flat bottom, which is not attractive.

I might marry asian girl in a second life. :lol:

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Re: Young Somalis are not marrying Somali girls: Success?

Postby Xildiiid » Wed Jun 11, 2014 5:14 am

Dealing with ajnebi chicks for now is fine but I would never marry an ajnebi chick. I would never let a shisheeye carry my children.


In the end, I'm going to aroos a Somali girl.

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Re: Young Somalis are not marrying Somali girls: Success?

Postby sahal80 » Wed Jun 11, 2014 6:38 am

Marrying ajnabi has one advantage wich is closing one of the two social doors that you would encounter when you marry a somali

You can save or make more money, have less social/family problems

Most of the other ethnicities unlike of somalis don't involve their lives with the related married couples

I would like to marry a somali female from a respected family(deen or wealth wise) generally or a relative female from families I that I know them

If I have to go for ajnabi it has to be be like sudanese or moritanian female aka afro-arabs.

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Postby dough » Thu Jun 12, 2014 5:20 pm

Non-Somali girls are more tolerable in general, Somali girls in the diaspora are quite annoying nowadays...

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Postby Kukri » Thu Jun 12, 2014 5:23 pm

I know more Somalis (24-35) who married ajnabis than Somalis. In fact, I dont know of any young Somalis who married within the community in the city. This is especially with the case of Somali guys. Their choices include: Vietnamese, Aboriginal, White. Most of the time they haven't even converted them or taught them Somali culture and whatnot. But their marriages are rock solid

Do young Somali guys experience longer and happier marriages when married to foreigners? And why do you think they are not marrying the Somali sisters?


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Re: Young Somalis are not marrying Somali girls: Success?

Postby basenbeats » Thu Jun 12, 2014 5:27 pm

WOW!! its the end of the world when men talk like women and vice versa. Get a degree, start a business and build an empire so you can provide
for your family and leave a legacy behind.

Subhanalah!!

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Re: Young Somalis are not marrying Somali girls: Success?

Postby Estarix » Thu Jun 12, 2014 5:40 pm

I think one of the keys to successful marriage (especially in long term) is good communication, culture and religion are big factors. If one spouse is Muslim its more smooth ride because religion is a platform to building a home and family. Culture will always be a barrier, but again if the two are born in the same country they will be able to easier understand one other.
I think both would put greater dedication and effort into marriage if they had different backgrounds; somali couples get divorced for almost nothing these days.
I would say somalis born in the west have a hard time looking for a couple is because a lack of interaction with the other sex; there are no clubs the two can meet each other because somalis frown upon it. In college the religious (or semi religious) somalis make very little attempt to socially find a girl and their is almost a feigned hostility between the two sexes in this group. For women getting married through the mosque is a safety net.

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Re: Young Somalis are not marrying Somali girls: Success?

Postby vikingman » Thu Jun 12, 2014 5:58 pm

its a combination of success and integration, the only men who like somali women around here are freshies, we live in the west better sights 8-) 8-)

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Re: Young Somalis are not marrying Somali girls: Success?

Postby Turbulence » Thu Jun 12, 2014 7:10 pm

You are from Ottawa right? Do you mean to say young Djiboutian when you say young Somalis?

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Re: Young Somalis are not marrying Somali girls: Success?

Postby AbdiJohnson » Thu Jun 12, 2014 7:39 pm

You are from Ottawa right? Do you mean to say young Djiboutian when you say young Somalis?
Djiboutis have more dhaqan. They marry Somalis more than the Somalia ones. Do you know the Djibouti kids can all speak Somali while the Somalia ones cant? Its something I noticed

But I'm referring to all Somalis


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Re: Young Somalis are not marrying Somali girls: Success?

Postby Marques » Thu Jun 12, 2014 7:40 pm

Might sound silly but I have a real knack for white girls..I'm not talking about London chavs with their shitty teeth but girls from other regions. I met a beautiful and pretty girl from Southern England, she was so sophisticated, humorous and cordial, best of all never enjoyed a lips so much :lawd:

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Re: Young Somalis are not marrying Somali girls: Success?

Postby Turbulence » Thu Jun 12, 2014 7:45 pm

In the last 2-3 years we have had over 2,000 Djiboutians move into the city I live in and from what I have seen you could not be further from the truth. They date and marry anyone who speaks French like the Congolese and Rwandese we have here.

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Re: Young Somalis are not marrying Somali girls: Success?

Postby Kukri » Thu Jun 12, 2014 7:45 pm

never enjoyed a lips so much
bouche a bouche waa haram waryaa.

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Re: Young Somalis are not marrying Somali girls: Success?

Postby Methylamine » Thu Jun 12, 2014 7:45 pm

Lol @ aboriginal. When I was young, we had a Djiboutian neighbour who married an Inuit lady. The irony was that he was the one that was drunk 24/7, while she was normal, so much for stereotypes :lol:


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