It's interesting to see that the majority of you agree. Viscous seems like it wouldn't bother him. I tell you what families have the capacity to influence decisions on marriage and could possibly lead to its dissolution. A problematic family coupled by a person with a martyr complex could spell trouble. It's your prerogative though.
On the real folks I should have put my eggs in more then one basket.
Julz high 5 hooyo didn't raise no fool, PO everyone has their threshold for crazy. We choose deal or no deal. I knew early on that marrying him would be detrimental to my plans since he took unquestionable orders from his fams on how he lived his life to the point of letting them call all the shots for his future. To me that was too heavy a burden to bare. For someone else that would be acceptable.
@ YummyMummy how young are we talking?
@ Geoseven I agree with you, I don't have the wherewithal to deal with that. You raise an interesting point when it's someone else you don't want to intercede in their affairs.
@ Jasmine I suppose you are right. I spent enough time in the past though, and this occupied a lot of mental real estate for a while. I'm content with the fact that things happen for a reason. I trusted my gut instincts back then. Even though he seemed like a catch, I factored in a lot of things.
@ Lillihiya God knows I've tried. She doesn't want to be blamed so no sugar rush unless I'm 30+. I have a 2-year window.
