Disrespectful Men

[Tuushi]

Having a bias and acting on them are two different things.Shit that gets spewed here has always been repetitive and annoying but i doubt most of them say or do these stuff in real life.If they do,they must be the loneliest bunch of skinnies.

When it is all said and done.Only one thing matters to a muslim woman.Where does Allah stand on this.As long as i am getting judged for my sins equally,who cares.Allah is Just.

Tuushi, what if during courtship a man states a preference for marrying a virgin and asks politely if you are one? What then? Its not about being judged, its about an individual's preference. He will find out anyway unless the chick has resorted to corrective surgery.

I personally would ask, not because I want a virgin necessarily, but due to a fear of STD's. If I find her compatible and she is not a virgin, I would be like lets get tested huuno, no nasty surprises in Saarir.

I would probably ask if he had been with other women too.What does that have to do with being being disrespectful or not?

If two people make that decision to get tested before marriage,it is totally upto them and fine.On the same token,they can come to the conclusion,thru communication that neither of them has been whoring around.

[zumaale]

Having a bias and acting on them are two different things.Shit that gets spewed here has always been repetitive and annoying but i doubt most of them say or do these stuff in real life.If they do,they must be the loneliest bunch of skinnies.

When it is all said and done.Only one thing matters to a muslim woman.Where does Allah stand on this.As long as i am getting judged for my sins equally,who cares.Allah is Just.

Tuushi, what if during courtship a man states a preference for marrying a virgin and asks politely if you are one? What then? Its not about being judged, its about an individual's preference. He will find out anyway unless the chick has resorted to corrective surgery.

I personally would ask, not because I want a virgin necessarily, but due to a fear of STD's. If I find her compatible and she is not a virgin, I would be like lets get tested huuno, no nasty surprises in Saarir.

I would probably ask if he had been with other women too.What does that have to do with being being disrespectful or not?

If two people make that decision to get tested before marriage,it is totally upto them and fine.On the same token,they can come to the conclusion,thru communication that neither of them has been whoring around.

Very insightful, kudos to you! Sorry, I asked the hypothetical question because you mentioned something about only Allah can judge women you so I wanted to find out if societal moral expectations affected your thought process.

[AgentOfChaos]

Not sure if I should laugh or facepalm, may be both.

[Tuushi]

I see.I am not sure of others in the same situation but what Allah thought was always a priority.Of course we can ignore society`s expectation of women but that will never stop me from living my life.

[Jeffo]

Shut the fuck up and take this meat like a hoe.

[FarhanYare]

^^^
wtf

[EvolSyawla]

Having a bias and acting on them are two different things.Shit that gets spewed here has always been repetitive and annoying but i doubt most of them say or do these stuff in real life.If they do,they must be the loneliest bunch of skinnies.

When it is all said and done.Only one thing matters to a muslim woman.Where does Allah stand on this.As long as i am getting judged for my sins equally,who cares.Allah is Just.

I would probably ask if he had been with other women too.What does that have to do with being being disrespectful or not?

If two people make that decision to get tested before marriage,it is totally up to them and fine.On the same token,they can come to the conclusion,thru communication that neither of them has been whoring around.

Wonderful sis.

I use to be shocked and appalled at the level of misogyny and disrespect on this site/tc, for these guys only to get 'warnings' or for it to be allowed. It is horrible sometimes, and you're right, most of it wouldn't be accepted if it were face to face interactions. Hopefully these uneducated monkeys come from homes that would slap the f@ck out of them if they acted like that in real life. If not, may Allah show them the light. DIsgusting.

"Give a man a mask and he'll tell you the truth"

I have gotten use to it, but that in itself is quite troubling.

[AgentOfChaos]

lol

[zumaale]

Having a bias and acting on them are two different things.Shit that gets spewed here has always been repetitive and annoying but i doubt most of them say or do these stuff in real life.If they do,they must be the loneliest bunch of skinnies.

When it is all said and done.Only one thing matters to a muslim woman.Where does Allah stand on this.As long as i am getting judged for my sins equally,who cares.Allah is Just.

I would probably ask if he had been with other women too.What does that have to do with being being disrespectful or not?

If two people make that decision to get tested before marriage,it is totally up to them and fine.On the same token,they can come to the conclusion,thru communication that neither of them has been whoring around.

Wonderful sis.

I use to be shocked and appalled at the level of misogyny and disrespect on this site/tc, for these guys only to get 'warnings' or for it to be allowed. It is horrible sometimes, and you're right, most of it wouldn't be accepted if it were face to face interactions. Hopefully these uneducated monkeys come from homes that would slap the f@ck out of them if they acted like that in real life. If not, may Allah show them the light. DIsgusting.

"Give a man a mask and he'll tell you the truth"

I have gotten use to it, but that in itself is quite troubling.

Evol, you are in Somalia FFS, women are virtually beasts of burden so stop getting emotional about Cyber misogyny on Somalinet, it ain't the real world dee.
Count yourself lucky that the civil war happened or else you would have been no better than the other beasts of burden back home!

[BlackVelvet]

Whoa, someone pissed you off

[Marques]

A teensy bit of misogyny is healthy, nothing wrong with banter against the opposite sex. But there are guys out there who think constantly shitting on a girl and saying some rude ish gives them cred. That's down to a lack of experience and also lack of confidence. People tend to belittle and disrespect what they don't know and in this case, only a guy who doesn't know much about women behaves this way. You just gotta call him out and tell him his shukaansi game is zero and you will see his blood boil.


p.s sophisticate, who hurt your feelings hun? I'll let them know you aren't to be messed with...

[EvolSyawla]

Evol, you are in Somalia FFS, women are virtually beasts of burden so stop getting emotional about Cyber misogyny on Somalinet, it ain't the real world dee.
Count yourself lucky that the civil war happened or else you would have been no better than the other beasts of burden back home!

Horta who are you and why are you talking to me? Beasts of burden? Consider myself lucky that the civil war happened? Women were far more blessed and respected before the war then they are now. I guess you were too busy in the bush to be aware of what was going on. Anyways, who taught these reer miiyi how to type? Go back to herding your camels.

So much wrong with your posts.

[zumaale]

Whoa, someone pissed you off

No abaayo, I felt like playing the pantomime villain after reading Evol's OTT moan about misogyny on somalinet. I mean we come from a society that as far back as a centrury were 80 percent nomads. Throw Islam into the mix and you have a culture that is at odds with the PC western society and their bullshit ideas on sexual equality and misogyny. It is wrong to insult or name call women or bully them, waxas ragnimo maaha laakin meeshan waa ruuwayad so one should expect all sorts.

[zumaale]

Evol, you are in Somalia FFS, women are virtually beasts of burden so stop getting emotional about Cyber misogyny on Somalinet, it ain't the real world dee.
Count yourself lucky that the civil war happened or else you would have been no better than the other beasts of burden back home!

Horta who are you and why are you talking to me? Beasts of burden? Consider myself lucky that the civil war happened? Women were far more blessed and respected before the war then they are now. I guess you were too busy in the bush to be aware of what was going on. Anyways, who taught these reer miiyi how to type? Go back to herding your camels.

So much wrong with your posts.

Evol, cutie pie, no need to see red like a bull facing a matador. It is all banter. On a serious note, you think you would have been so free spirited if you had grown up in Somalia/Somaliland/Puntland/Jubbaland and whatever other lands I have not bothered mentioning? Our society is patriarchal and women back home were more reserved because of it. Heck, you would expect to get beats from your brothers or male cousins if you they suspected you of talking to a guy while fetching hiilib from the suuq for Qaado.

[Basra-]

sophisticate

My thoughts of the subject are zero. But my thoughts on you is mouthful. (pardon the pun) We both know u r also zulaika and also zumaale. This idea of trying to pretend u r bashing men in somalinet forum is a little over dramatic, not to mention misguiding. (this deceitful attempt is your way of inviting men wrath and hopefully shukaansi in the mix. Basically a cry of attention from mammals with Gu.s) We both know, if ever there was a man- lover in Somalinet-- it is u and Julkims, but u grab the crown in the ratio of horni-ness. Spare us--or me to be exact--- this dramatic, useless and meaningless invite to thoughts and discussions, or dissents in your threads. We know, u a r supreme submissive fille who just dreams of a man to control her, and even whip her if circumstance is right. Your moods are dependent on the farah of the month in your hands. I would appreciate your future threads to exhibit clear, confessional, diatribe of your desires, your ideals, and your love for the mighty Gu.s without beating around the bush huuno. I am sick and tired of reading between the lines in your unsophisticated vomit inducing threads that invoke me to whisper to myself--jargons of words that are unpronounceable. Mahaadsaanid.